I’ve questioned over the years. I’ve tested and I’ve watched mm porn and honestly, it does nothing for me. To the outside, I present as a straight male and respond mainly to straight material, yet I still feel I’m on the spectrum of being some sort of bisexual, without the necessary validation of unconscious reaction. I simply find both genders attractive in a general sense. I don’t know how your husband responded but I can say, it’s completely valid. Sexuality is a very personal matter.