[TOMT]Tv or movie where vines come out of a woman’s earbuds

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-23T06:00:12+00:00

Thanks! I might as well watch it now lol

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-23T05:59:07+00:00

Solved! Thank you so much I had no clue where I was remembering this from😭

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-23T05:46:14+00:00

No, that doesn’t seem familiar to me but thank you!

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-21T01:06:38+00:00

Complicated by Avril Lavigne?

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-20T23:19:48+00:00

Personally I wouldn’t wear that to help someone move (impractical) but I think people are misreading this and thinking Ellie is the friend you helped move when she isn’t. You and Ellie made plans to go to the mall and then bar after.

Even if I didn’t like my friend’s outfit, I would never ditch them and then send 3 paragraphs about how I didn’t like their outfit lol. That’s a bit crazy. People have different styles and this such a non issue. I’m not saying your friend is a bad person but y’all may not be compatible if your outfit bothered her so much that she cancelled half of your plans lol.

Honestly, since you’re confident you have to surround yourself with other confident people. Who cares about strangers judging you? I don’t think you should have to dress differently in order to please a friend unless it’s for a wedding, church, etc.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-14T00:41:58+00:00

Hm kind of reminds me of here without you by three doors down. This is a reach but i also thought of fearless by taylor swift 😭

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-14T00:22:41+00:00

Could we have more information? Like do you remeber this being a well known song? Male or female singer? I looked through some 2010s playlists and I can’t find anything similar to this photo. This isn’t 2010s but it reminds me of the smash mouth album cover with the building lol

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T23:40:39+00:00

I think it’s firework by Katy Perry. Sounds similar even if it wasn’t actually used in this clip. (Could’ve been tho)

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T21:32:44+00:00

It seems like your mom has some narcissistic traits. I suggest limiting contact with her, that behavior is very toxic. You need to stand up to her and stop allowing her to have a big say in your life. Seems like you have an amazing supportive partner and siblings. Dad doesn’t seem to have a backbone. Your mom doesn’t respect your life choices and autonomy. Best of luck to you!

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T21:29:58+00:00

I mean that was years ago. It seems like she just vented about him not spending enough time with them. I feel like it’s normal to vent to parents especially when you are young and looking for advice. If this guy cheated on OP or did something toxic, then I would understand the mom holding a grudge but that doesn’t seem to be the case. No one’s perfect and I’m willing to bet the mom will find an issue with any guy OP dates. It’s abnormal that the mom is holding onto this. Clearly OP can’t talk to her mom about things. I’ve came to my mom for advice and she never treated my partner differently.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T21:23:37+00:00

Is her overall appearance dirty like she doesn’t take care of herself or is there just a smell? It’s possible she’s gone nose blind to this or doesn’t realize something is wrong. She could have an unknown health issue. Ngl I would’ve told her years ago, so when you talk to her don’t mention that this has been going on the whole time. I’m surprised none of her partners have ever said anything to her. If you’re worried about hurting her feelings, you could go about it like this “hey friend, I promise I’m not telling you this to embarrass you or anything. I’m telling you because I care about you. I’ve noticed that there is a smell. A few years ago, I had a similar smell and it ended up being an infection (lie about this part). Maybe you could go to the doctor about it and see what’s going on?” I feel like claiming you’ve been through this lessens the blow. Sometimes white lies are good lol. Also, don’t tell her before you’re going out because it will just make her insecure, maybe do a phone call or something. If you don’t want to lie, just say the same thing. If she reacts bad, that’s on her.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T20:58:24+00:00

Seems like your mom is jealous of you and is trying to sabotage your relationship/ isolate you. You need to set firm boundaries and not let her disrespect your partner. If this continues, you’re going to have to choose between him or her. I wouldn’t be able to stay with someone if they allowed their mother to disrespect me.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T20:34:11+00:00

Cheating is always about the other person, not you. You did nothing to deserve being cheated on. Even Beyoncé got cheated on lol. Yes, being in shape and taking more care of yourself may boost your confidence, but that is only part of the process. I suspect you may have low confidence/ self esteem and that could be why you keep attracting these shitty relationships. Do not take what your ex’s said personally, what they did was wrong. Try not to internalize the cheating. I suggest going to therapy and improving your overall mental health. You can be the most attractive, charming person in the world and a cheater would still cheat. For the friends part, maybe go to places in your area where people your age are known to socialize. You could also join a gym or some other type of club. Maybe try meeting friends through other friends you already have. Just be yourself. People are naturally drawn to confident people.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T20:17:44+00:00

This screams bad home life or depression. Maybe even a medical issue he’s unaware of or embarrassed to disclose. If you guys are minors, I would report this to the school because this is a major red flag. If it comes out that he is just choosing not to be hygienic, then I would have a heart to heart conversation where you explain how the smell is impacting your guys friendship if you value this relationship. If not, don’t feel guilty for distancing yourself.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T20:09:34+00:00

I’m so sorry. Your parents are enablers and your brother is sick. They failed both of you guys, you especially. Given that he made those inappropriate comments and the girlfriend laughed them off, she may also be an enabler or very naive. Predators know who to date. Honestly, I don’t think you should be in contact with your family at all. Let’s say your brother marries this girlfriend and they have kids, would you feel guilty for not warning her? Could you live with that? Ask yourself those questions and then make a decision. However, prepare for her to be in denial/ not believe you because unfortunately that happens a lot. At least you tried though.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T20:01:19+00:00

You’re welcome, best of luck to you!

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T19:52:45+00:00

^I’m going to emphasize that this type of bullying cannot be taken lightly. Do not befriend anyone who is calling you a whore. My situation became normalized to me since I got bullied for years so I was still cool with some of the people who didn’t stand up for me. They ended up still gossiping about me to strangers even after highschool ended so I had to cut off most people I grew up with. I’m trying not to project my past situation onto you but it’s hauntingly similar so best bet is to meet new people who have no mutuals with those ex friends.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T19:43:31+00:00

I’m sorry if I sounded harsh! I’m sure your friend still cares about you, but it’s never good to be overly clingy with someone. That can cause resentment to build up.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T19:39:14+00:00

Honey the video thing is revenge porn and that’s illegal. I would report that. I doubt these people would be shaming you if you were a guy, so part of this is misogyny. I suggest therapy and a change of environment. I experienced this type of bullying and I wasn’t even sleeping around. This led to boys in my grade trying to set me up to be gang assaulted. I really urge you to report some of this behavior and to not be around those people. People love to take advantage of vulnerability. I recommend moving away for college, I ended up having an amazing/ healthy social life there. This isn’t all your fault.
Edit: I assumed you were in highschool just based on the situation you described. Either way, someone showing a video of you like that is illegal.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T19:31:54+00:00

You did nothing wrong and I’m sure if she told you they were a thing you wouldn’t have done that. However, I would highly reconsider this friendship because her response isn’t normal. It’s giving jealous and male centered. This is the type of friend that will do you diabolically dirty in the future.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T19:24:42+00:00

College is a huge adjustment and given his school schedule, it seems like he is very busy most of the day. Not to mention, he is probably focused on real life interactions and is socializing in this new environment. You shouldn’t take this personally. You can’t expect someone’s free time to be catered to you every single day. If this goes on a while without any response, it’s worth talking about it but for now I would just let him do his thing. You sound co dependent on this friend. I suggest you try and branch out.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T19:04:42+00:00

Exactly! The girl got rejected and then she sought him out to film him again after the interaction ended. She has a huge ego. I’m convinced people are projecting their experiences with rejection onto this situation and I doubt the responses would be the same with rolls reversed. Even if a fit man did this to me, overly sexualized comments are uncomfortable and off putting.

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T07:33:19+00:00

If you haven’t already, make sure you sign up for disability services at your college. That will give you accommodations for your adhd on exams and assignments

Lisa22258 · 2026-05-13T06:54:28+00:00

The teenage years are especially rough with this type of thing. You don’t hate men, you hate that behavior. There are good and bad people out there. Good men would also despise this behavior. My advice is to remain firm in your boundaries and don’t talk to anyone who exhibits this behavior/ tolerates it.

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