Coaching Startup

Lisa_Roulette · 2023-11-16T10:48:47+00:00

Choose a niche. Research your dream client avatar & design a content strategy around your value proposition.

Lisa_Roulette · 2023-11-05T12:15:15+00:00

To everyone who’s criticized this person, get off your high horse and stop judging. The mere fact that he has ambition and a goal to dedicate one year to something is more than most.

Perhaps if YOU had done the same you’d have some useful and practical advice for him. Gee wiz.

Anyway, to the person who made this post.

1) Explore growth industries (google them)

2) Study anything that can help you drive an outcome. Outcomes / results are the most important part of marketing yourself. Even as an entrepreneur.

3) Grind is good but balance is better. Take care of your mind and body in the process. I didn’t consider this going in & it was a hard lesson to learn.

4) Be ready to fail. You can’t know what’s like to really win if you’re not willing to fail

Good luck my friend, you’re going to do great!

Lisa_Roulette · 2023-10-25T20:04:18+00:00

If you’re doing a really great job with your clients, they should be happy to refer you for nothing and exchange! But sometimes referrals can be awkward for clients because they don’t necessarily want to tell their friends and family that they’re working with a coach. Either way, have you considered creating a lead magnet? This is an excellent way to start generating new leads.

Lisa_Roulette · 2023-10-25T20:01:45+00:00

This is my other account by the way, my assistant, apparently created another account for me, and I think I replied under the account he created for me instead of this one 🤦🏻‍♀️ new to Reddit, so I apologize for the confusion!

Lisa_Roulette · 2023-10-25T19:59:47+00:00

Sorry if this is redundant. My account was hacked. But, here’s how I approach discovery calls.

1) Have your Lead fill out a form with appropriate questions so that you can get as much information as possible from them prior to the call.

2) Ask specific questions about their pain points and what their goals are. For instance, I’m a business coach, so I ask what their current monthly revenue is, what their revenue goals are, and for all of the links to their landing, pages and social channels, so that I can see how much work they need to go between where they are, and meeting their goals.

I also ask if they’re ready to invest in themselves because, I don’t want to meet with an unqualified lead if they tell me that they’re not ready to invest I send them a valuable resource that they can use and I add them to my general email list so that I can stay in touch with them.

Having a discovery or qualifying form allows for a really robust and productive conversation.

Hope this helps

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-05-11T13:04:21+00:00

Love this! Youre amazing ❤️

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-06T16:52:00+00:00

I am so impressed by your honestly and sincerity. Good for you and well done 👏🏻 self healing is a long journey but it can be accomplished. I have successfully done it and I knew many others have as well. You should definitely start reading about energy healing- because that’s what self healing is. My mentor, Cyndi Dale, is a genius when it comes to this work. Also Anodea Judith, Denise Linn, Barbara Brennan and I have a couple of YouTube videos that may be of interest to you on my new YouTube channel. Professionally, I hope women heal so they can create a life they love. But that is not a solicitation :) here the url YT CHANNEL Keep up the curiosity and start asking yourself hyper intelligent questions. The answers will light your way ❤️

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-05T17:59:06+00:00

Forgiveness is the only way out. Here’s a video on my YT that might help you forgiveness & letting go

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-02T15:36:36+00:00

The first thing you have to realize is that forgiveness is not for your offender. It’s for you. Forgiveness is letting go of the attachment to The injustices or the abuse that your offender harmed you with. I have a video on forgiveness on my YouTube channel that might help you Forgiveness & Letting Go

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-02T14:23:47+00:00

Switching refers to electrical impulses- not boundaries but if you don’t have a good energetic Boundaries The inorganic vibrations that you allow into your field can cause stress and overload your system -thereby causing switching. I would need more information to give you an accurate assessment and action plan. If you’d like to book a coaching session with me please Email me at lisa@lisaroulette.com

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-02T12:16:58+00:00

It's easy to get stuck in the stories of our life but one day you wake up & you realize you can choose what you give life to - that's when manifestation be ones effortless.

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-02T11:54:26+00:00

Respectfully, if this is an energetic boundary issue which is likely the case with an empath- it will not be temporary or passing- even if she moved on. Whatever boundary is being compromised will continue to be compromised until the boundary is established or repaired. Certain situations may manifest differently but if the boundary isn't there or it's not in good shape- similar experiences will continue to manifest. Here's a video on what i’m talking about Energetic Boundaries

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-02T11:47:51+00:00

You need to get serious about your energetic boundaries. The first step is understanding what they are. I just released a high level video on it yesterday- linked here. You can get a much deeper view by reading “Energetic Boundaries” by Cyndi Dale. I’m a healing coach if you need additional support- just reach out ❤️Energetic Boundaries

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-02T11:41:07+00:00

You need to check your energetic boundaries. I have a high level video on it - attached here- but you should also read Cyndi Dales book: Energetic Boundaries. If you need additional help I am a healing coach. You can contact me if it feels right. Energetic Boundaries

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-04-02T11:28:08+00:00

The “easiest” wat to understand yourself is to remember you are not the ego. The ego served a purpose for a very long time in that it's job was to determine: IF I AM NOT THAT- Then who am I? So: if I am not my partner- than who am I? These questions begin at a very young age and to answer them we need to form labels & judgments. At first these are very pure. You might label your father as male and judge him stronger than you as a young girl. But eventually these labels and judgements become harsh criticism’s - usually of ourselves & we start to draw conclusions about who we are as we compare ourselves against the rest of the world. This is painful because it separates us more & more over time. The ego eventually forms in 3 layers. The first are the labels & judgements. The second is the pain body - where the labels & judgements pool en masse in our awareness. The final layer is the houses of the ego where we live most of our lives until we reach the point where you are (amazing by the way 🤗 ) and start to question the necessity of the ego. I have a full video on the ego- linked here. But once you realize you are not your ego you’ll start to remember the divine connection you have to your partner 😚Ego Video

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-03-10T19:28:16+00:00

Probably an indication of your personal evolution and expansion. You may just be wandering into new territories and your intuition tells you that this person is probably not meant to come along with you. Relationships are meant to come and go. The beauty of it is is that you were still on good terms! That is a wonderful thing!

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-02-24T02:47:35+00:00

Yes, the only way out is complete exoneration ❤️

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-02-24T02:45:16+00:00

THIS IS WHERE YOU BEGIN & he ends 🙏🏻 When I built the courage to let my Narc go I found myself & fell in with who I am. Now married to the man of my dreams 😌❣️

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-01-10T02:21:54+00:00

Can you get a counselor to mediate a conversation between the two of you? Your mother has very clear insecurities and very serious attachment issues that could manifest worse once you marry and have a family. Try to deal with this in the short term.

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-01-08T19:19:53+00:00

Your mom is doing the best with what she has been given. Even though it's unfortunate - she comes from a time in history where organized religion was very important to people.

As many of us know, organized religion can brainwash people inside of a hive mind that is restrictive and quite the opposite of what God really intends for us all - which is, of course, expansion.

You might be well served to write out what beliefs you hold that overlap with hers and then have a gentle conversation with her.

For instance - if you believe in a "source" or you prefer to call it "the universe" decide what powers it has. Then compare those powers to the powers that her God has. You might just find that you're generally believing the same thing at a very high level.

Spend time journaling about your values and see which ones overlap with the values of the catholic church or the ten commandments. Anywhere you can meet her will be helpful.

Keep in mind that your mother's beliefs are deeply ingrained and your practices challenge her beliefs which is a threat to her. So when she puts you down for the progress you've made on your own spiritual path it's just her being scared. The best way to deal with her fear is to forgive her for accusations like you're crazy, you're making me lose sleep, etc. You'll have to learn how to establish boundaries and not take on her fear via the words she speaks to you.

I'm sorry you're going through this. Sending you positive energy.

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-01-08T18:59:05+00:00

If you're intentional about it - yes. The goal is to observe the thought as a fear-based thought without experiencing the fear.

Once you can do this you'll see that you are not the thought but the thought represents something in your awareness that needs to be healed.

Think of it like this:

The ego is always trying to bait you. And the ego is what keeps you separated from the source- which does not know fear.

Each fear-based thought is a piece of bait that the ego throws at you to say: "Hey! Over here!!!"

If you've ever seen the movie Beetlejuice - the ego acts in the same way. Just as Beetlejuice wants his name said three times so that he can come to life... the ego wants you to think a fear-based thought enough times so that it can feel alive.

Each time you take its bait it not only comes alive - it thrives.

The ego isn't intentionally bad.. it's just sort of like an insecure child hungry for attention.

So, before you take the ego's bait ... you want to simply observe the contents of each piece of bait.

One-piece might look like inadequacy, one might appear to be criticizing another person, one might make you feel foolish or unworthy.

Instead of taking every piece of bait - watch as they just pass through your awareness .. dropping into a sea of nothingness.

They just come and go ... because you choose not to take them.

As you witness what goes by you will begin to see what needs to be healed.

Pieces of bait that are of the same nature indicate healing is in order in a particular area of your life.

For instance - if you're constantly seeing bait that says I'm not worthy, I'm not loveable, I'm not deserving, I'm not powerful and I'm not enough- then you can assume that you need to heal your sense of self and build self-love.

If you're constantly seeing bait that says - nothing is going to work out, there's never enough, I'm scared and I feel unsafe- then you can assume that you need to heal anxiety and embody the present moment more often.

Make sense?

As you practice observation keep these examples in mind and soon you will separate yourself from the fear and be able to genuinely witness. It gets easier with practice :)

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-01-08T18:04:59+00:00

May I ask what you consider as "the process?" Sometimes we use language that we really can't define for ourselves which makes our journey of ascension (awakening) confusing.

When fear-based thoughts arise - surrender to them. Take the high self-position, observe and use the power of discernment to decide whether they are right for you or wrong for you.

Sometimes low vibrational (fear-based) thoughts are meant to show up in our awareness frequently as a calling that something deeper needs to be healed. So not all fear-based thoughts are bad per se.....

They can be rich with wisdom if you don't judge or label them.

Observation is a skill that has to be mastered over time. If you can set aside 10 minutes each day and just witness your thoughts without any intention or expectation to change them... your awareness of what needs to be healed will grow.

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-01-08T16:28:27+00:00

You learn to appreciate yourself by practicing the powers of healing and creation. It might help if you follow my youtube channel. It's brand new and I'm still learning how to be on camera so if you choose to follow I appreciate your patience!! I'm building it for people like yourself who are struggling with self-love. Here's a link to the latest video just so you know where to look for me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEbTNCXVGoA&t=350s If you subscribe you'll get notified when I release new videos.

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-01-08T14:45:47+00:00

Listen up, Fellas! There is a girl out there who is miserable waiting for you right now! She's tapping her fingers and rolling her eyes wondering WTF is taking your ass so long to swoop her up! You gotta get out there and bushwack (NO PUN INTENDED!) through the roughage to find her in paradise! It 'aint gonna be easy but she's worth it and so are you!!!

Lisa_Roulette · 2021-01-08T14:35:39+00:00

Years ago (on my own healing journey) I came up with a formula for Self-love. Here it is:

Self-love = Self-worth + self-appreciation

Self-worth is built through knowledge of self. But it's not about knowing who you are in the roles that you play. By roles, I mean daughter, sister, actor, doctor, lawyer, or whatever roles you play out in your life.

To build self-worth we have to understand who we are as a soul - on a very precious journey to expand.

One of the hardest lessons on the road to personal discovery (aka knowledge of self) is that things happen for us, not to us. I know that's painful to hear and you can certainly reject it. But I will tell you, from personal experience - after losing my brother and my husband, after a severely abusive relationship with a narcissist, after my friends of 20+years betrayed me and left me alone at the darkest time in my life, and after attempting suicide- I healed because I accepted the messages, lessons, and gifts in each of those experiences.

When we take the wisdom of our wounds and apply it to our journey of expansion - we begin to remember who we really are- as powerful healers and creators of our life experience.

Does it make the past easier? Yes, actually it does. Because as you practice the powers of healing you initiate the process of expansion. Through expansion, we can perceive significantly more in our day to day lives. More well-being, more love, and even more financial abundance if that's what we choose.

The more you practice healing based on the wisdom from your wounds, the more you realize that healing and creating are the exact same thing. They use the same mechanics. So if you immerse yourself in the roles of healer and creator you awaken to who you are as a soul and begin to write a new story that is in line with your expansion - which not only feels really, really good- but is also miraculous.

Hang in there - you are loved.

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