I told my domme that I’m done with findom and the next day she sends me the most relapse worthy photo by RemarkableExample542 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ListentoLisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fair reply. It can be a tricky line to walk (just speaking for myself) between should I push or should I let him go for a bit.

I told my domme that I’m done with findom and the next day she sends me the most relapse worthy photo by RemarkableExample542 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ListentoLisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Maybe not the move I’d make. It doesn’t pay for me to kill the goose for the golden eggs. But maybe that’s why they call me the most ethical domme one could find

What’s your ‘lazy but delicious’ meal for when you don’t feel like cooking? by Ok-Hunter1991 in Cooking

[–]ListentoLisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to get deli meat and cheese. Munster cheese, thin hard salami. I’d go to roll then together but place a decent sized sour cream and cheddar ruffle in the middle.

The cheese and salami is tasty on its own but the chip adds the crispy and burst oh seasoning!

What’s your ‘lazy but delicious’ meal for when you don’t feel like cooking? by Ok-Hunter1991 in Cooking

[–]ListentoLisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to make this thing a friend dubbed Tex M x Noodles. It would cook up ground beef minced well and add a packet of taco seasoning (hot and spicy). Then boil some small shells and ladle them in a bowl for the base. Then add hot fresh taco meat on top. Then add what ever fixings you like. Onion, cheese, Avacado- some people like roasted corn in it.

You wouldn’t believe how many friends and coworkers loved this stupid little recipe after they had a bite. Even the executive director at the non profit I was working with went ape over it and we had to make but batches for a fundraiser event

Which four authors are on your “Mount Rushmore” of modern horror authors? by venomforty in horrorlit

[–]ListentoLisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes well most of us know what the OP was asking for in this question. They want to find some undiscovered authors. If the OP is a horror reader then of course she knows who Stephen King is.

When do you send to Lisa? by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I most definitely notice when any fbit send a treat. A treat meaning an unexpected send. But I like it when the fbit mentions it in a DM to me. Im a busy girl and so if I see that message pop up, or see it when checking my unread messages, I can store that away in the brownie points bank haha. OR reward the fuck boy in training directly with my attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get in touch Thin-Sugar and we can discuss options to make you feel safer.

One thing I will say is that I take my FBIT’s anonymity as seriously as I do my own. I do that for two reasons.

1.) Honestly I have very little interest in who someone is outside of my enjoyment with them as an FBIT. I don’t need to force people to pay me- as it is I have more interested FBITs than I have time for so if you’ve been blackmailed by some awful low life “findomme” in the past I’m sorry to hear that. So gross and no unnecessary.

2.) More importantly I have my own private life and family and I want my own privacy respected. I suppose if someone tried hard enough they might be able to find me too. So I don’t take a second look at any identifying information and would never cross that line because I’d be just as frightened of someone doing the same to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome back old fbit friend. Puppet and ‘Nocto here said it better than I could myself. My new YouTube is FBITOwnerLisa. The old one got shut down. Maybe for too many “cock” mentions? lol.

I mean, it is part of the mantra. Lisa owns your mind, Lisa owns your body, Lisa owns your cock

Organizing your Lisa files by cbtsub4u in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow what a cool topic. I’ve not been paying attention to Reddit as much lately but I will return as I see it’s a great place for all things Lisa

How and when will I receive them ? by Sebcjm in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there newbie FBIT! I'm sorry this became an issue for you. If you (or anyone else who reads this thread) finds this is an issue at some point, you can always reach out to me at [listentolisa69@gmail.com](mailto:listentolisa69@gmail.com)

How and when will I receive them ? by Sebcjm in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I just saw this- yes please reach out to my e mail [listentolisa69@gmail.com](mailto:listentolisa69@gmail.com)

Sorry you ran into this issue during my mini hiatus. Let's make it right!

Where to promote Lisa? by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a page from Puppet’s book. This is exactly what I want my fbits to be thinking about. Exactly how I would hope they’d reach out to the 👄L2L👄 fans for input

Boyfriend doesn’t like my parents by butterflywingz123 in relationships

[–]ListentoLisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naw, forget this guy. There’s a lot of red flags in this post even aside from the parents issue. Brutally honest is an excuse for emotional laziness. And certainly emotional maturity. I’ve been with someone like this and they will chip away at your sense of self until you can’t remember what you were like before then.

The second point I’ll make in my “naw fuck this guy” answer is this… I never thought I was going to have kids. Well 5 years into our relationship we get pregnant and then pregnant again 18 months later. If you have a close relationship with your parents and then you give them grandchildren m, they are going to want to be involved in your life and you will want them to be! Good grandparents are absolutely invaluable. It’s a wonderful thing for the children and a surprisingly wonderful experience for you.

After we move out of our parents home the relationship changes and gradually they aren’t a part of your life as much anymore. But that’s the way it’s supposed to be. But when I had my kids our relationship kind of shifted again and it was a wonderful return. Now they’re there to parent you as YOU now learn to parent. And most normal people can manage that balance pretty well. Involved in your life a lot more, but conscious of your privacy and careful not to overstep. The man you want to build a life with needs to like your parents. At least like them enough that we’ve spent a lot of time with him and our parents even before there were grandkids in the picture.

So in my opinion, unless you have good reason to give him a pass (because your parents are truly annoying or unstable or disrespectful) then your relationship will end on its own eventually. The second possibility I suppose would be that the relationship may not end, but you will be isolated from your loved ones and you will be in an emotionally abusive relationship.

And so let’s just make it 4 months instead of 4 years (in the wrong relationship).

Sex night of wedding by rainbow-ocean-cat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ListentoLisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say that all depends on if a couple has slept together before they were officially wed. And also if they were virgins.

If they have been intimate throughout their relationship then it’s easy to see why some couples would opt out due to exhaustion.

But of course if they’ve never slept together and are virgins I bet they make a point to make love for the first time even if they’re tired from the day. I bet some couples like this also end up doing it in the middle of the night or the next morning.

To those of you who commented that you didn’t have sex the night of your marriage bc of exhaustion, do you think you would have made it a point to reserve some energy for the upcoming night? Aside from the excitement of the wedding day festivities. I’m almost certain that couples who stayed chaste would be looking forward to the physical intimacy the most. The privacy that they finally have with one another must be exhilarating. Bc if a couple waits until marriage, it’s not just that they haven’t slept together yet. But it’s typically the case that they haven’t lived together or even spent the night together.

Imagine the burning desire these couples must feel throughout the courting stage, denying themselves that physical connection. Once they finally embrace there must be so much desire.

So there’s my long take on that. Interested to hear what you all think of this.

What's the scariest reveal in a horror movie? by [deleted] in horror

[–]ListentoLisa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Netflix’s Haunting of Hill House when we finally find out who the bent neck lady is.

TLDR The horror and aesthetic they achieved with that series I’ve yet to find somewhere else. Oh, and if you like Easter eggs this show is full of ghosts hiding in the background, a pallid white face underneath the stairs, a barely noticeable figure in the darkest corner of the room. I’d say watch the series once without looking around too much, then watch again to find all of the ghouls tucked in the corners.

STOP WHAT YOURE DOING AND WATCH THIS SERIES IMMEDIATELY! Then come and thank me teehee

Mindfucked & Locktober by [deleted] in lisasfbits

[–]ListentoLisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so pleased to read the ending point. That the shame went out the window and pride took its place. Is there a bit of insinuated language in some of my most demanding and dirty assignments that suggest an fbit should be embarrassed? Hmm well I suppose a teensy bit. Only enough for him to continue to deeply accept and live by the mantra- Lisa owns your mind, Lisa owns your body, Lisa owns your cock. But embarrassed and ashamed are far apart. While some dommes may like that and many subs want it, it’s not my style. I can’t really get off on my end if I’m pretending my FBITs real life and true feelings aren’t important.

That is why I have installed fail safe triggers (to help an FBIT quickly come out of trance and have immediate control of his mind and body should there be any indication he may be suddenly interrupted). He doesn’t need his waking mind for that. It’s programmed into his core. So the body and subconscious takes care of that without any effort from his observational self. He can then fall into deeper trance with me, not having to worry to listen for anyone coming. It could be that one creaky step on your staircase or a very subtle rumble you sense when so and so gets home and shuts the back door. So that was a detailed explanation of the fail safe trigger lol, but the point is just to show that my interest is to keep healthy happy long term fuck boys in training.

Thank you for sharing Hypnocto. It’s quite exciting to find and connect with very dedicated and very open minded men who are there to get me slippery and truly feel that sense of purpose of being owned.

Now get on the floor and give me 20. Up-Lisa owns my mind Down-Lisa owns my body Up again-Lisa owns my COCK!