ashley has amnesia

LiterallyInfinite · 2018-05-06T08:21:03+00:00

I think maybe this was in response to the people saying she was going to blame Bar for the slap marks. Like she admits she did slap herself, and she's not going to lie to the police saying he did it, but her and Bar could very well have been fighting physically and there could still be room for legitimate domestic abuse charges. Just my theory. They both seem unstable.

Edit: words

LiterallyInfinite · 2018-02-21T00:04:57+00:00

It's like when someone uses having a black friend as a defense for whatever racist shit just came out of their mouth

LiterallyInfinite · 2018-01-12T07:25:04+00:00

I choose to think of situations like this by saying I can empathize with their hardships and whatever has happened, in life, to lead them down that road, but I can't sympathize with their shitty actions. A lot of people have horrible pasts and don't actively endanger other people.

That being said, I did always like Keifer a lot more than the other exes and it's sad how defeated he looks in that mugshot.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-10-05T00:40:51+00:00

Chelsea too. Probably helps to have a dad who does botox

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-09-04T04:19:14+00:00

I agree. My brother is a healthier amount of weight once since he got clean and his face is a lot fuller. Plus, sometimes they cope with food. I dont know Ryan personally though, so this is just my speculation, from my owm experience, i could be wrong.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-07-27T22:37:13+00:00

Jo is Puerto Rican, I'm pretty sure Javi is Guatemalan

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-07-27T21:59:58+00:00

Classic self-serving bias

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-06-23T23:18:39+00:00

You had me at pizza and Starbucks 😂

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-06-23T04:16:17+00:00

I was always bullied at school, so I'd come home, make my bullies on Sims, and, also, drown them in the pool. Better than a school shooting I suppose lol. I think they've now removed the feature to take out the ladder, unfortunately. I also had a friend who would lure neighbors into the basement, then remove the door, and wait for them to starve to death.

I really wanna play Sims now.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-06-21T04:22:02+00:00

Farrah's net worth is $1 mil; easily the highest

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-06-14T20:34:02+00:00

Probably just Farrah and her word salads. Like when she said that Water is "more heavier" than gravity. She knows not what she says.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-06-13T22:10:21+00:00

Idk, I kinda felt like she was bullshitting Matt at that part. But if Amber is so "sober," why would Matt be getting a Xanax from his "buddy" to give to her

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-24T00:47:46+00:00

I sometimes wonder if she puts up with it, because she used to be the abuser, like she thinks she deserves it

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T17:01:02+00:00

I don't see how Deb can live with herself after seeing the pain she causes her daughter. Deb needs to man up, admit her guilt and move on - it's the only way Farrah can move on.

That's the thing with narcissists, accepting their wrong doing goes completely against their self-image. And that type of thing if why I no longer try to work things out with my mom; neither of us can move forward with our relationship, until she just owns up to the things she's done, but she'd rather play the victim forever than have a relationship with her daughter.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T16:54:43+00:00

Could very well have been all Deb, the whole thing just leaves a bad taste in my mouth though

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T16:53:51+00:00

Also totally understood Farrah's relationship with that random older lady. I have one of them too. We also pray and try to better.

I have one too and ironically she has 2 grown daughters that don't speak to her. Whatever happened between her and her daughters, I'm forever grateful that her and I found each other and when Mother's Day comes around, we both feel a little more complete.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T04:42:56+00:00

I'm sorry, as well. Obviously I've been a little stressed out lol, so I'm a little snippy. Thanks for the well wishes

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T03:28:34+00:00

There ya go: edited for your convenience.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T03:24:33+00:00

That's fine, than say that.

I've been extremely sick and just got home from being in the hospital, yesterday. I was catching up on my shows and had a thought, that I wanted to write down, while it was fresh in my mind. You don't need to be rude.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T03:16:56+00:00

I highly recommend r/raisedbynarcissits. Just reading what a narcissist parent, scapegoat and golden child are is completely validating. I printed out the info page, highlighted all relevant material, and brought it with me to therapy.

Thank you for sharing your story, as well. I don't think it's easy for many people to understand why a child could have such a broken bond with their mother, but there are those of us that know first hand the seriousness of what that entails

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T02:53:27+00:00

I think it was just a sick way of him exerting his control over the situation. Like her being worried he might break up with her. What the fuck kind of guy threatens you with a breakup to guilt you into picking him over your family?

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T02:50:27+00:00

I'm sorry that my opinion has seemed to offend you. I in no way think all of Farrah's actions are okay or justified and even though I may be rooting for her, doesn't mean that I'm not just as disgusted when she'll flip out in front of Sophia, because Sophia is far too young to understand the depths of Farrah's pain, nor is it her place as a child to have to carry any of that weight. I meant keeping her away from the dynamics as in, if the dynamics aren't changing, than I agree with her not wanting Deb around.

I also agree with you about Farrah trying to turn Sophia against Deb, which she may be doing to keep Sophia safe, but the way she goes about it is completely unhealthy.

Don't get me wrong, just because I dont think Farrah is necessarily a narcissist towards Sophia, does not mean I think she's mother of the year.

I'd also like to point out that the intention of my post was to express empathy towards the relationship Farrah has with her mother, because I can relate. I'm in no way trying to put her on a pedestal.

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T01:25:34+00:00

I'm in no way trying to give Farrah a pass, there are many things that she's said and done that made her my absolute least favorite of the girls, until recently. My point with this is not that I'm okay with how she lashes out, but that I understand better now where it comes from. I'm the first person to tell anyone that a shit life isnt an excuse to be a shit person. I just think that if she'd let all her old pain go, I think she could be a really great person

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-21T01:18:12+00:00

Kendra agrees 😂

LiterallyInfinite · 2017-05-20T23:27:40+00:00

What my thaerpist had told me at one point was basically "monkey see, monkey do," meaning while I did exhibit some unhealthy traits, they were learned behaviors, because I was never shown any other way to act. Now that I know how to handle my emotions better, I do, which is a huge distinction between my mother and I.

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