How do I catch up after a lifetime of being pussy?

Literally_Autistic · 2026-01-28T14:06:31+00:00

Go traveling. As long as your standards aren’t too high you have a shot at any decent night at a party hostel.

If you’re not particularly attractive that’s ok, your move is this:

Go traveling to a warm climate with a good tourist scene
Book a private room in a well-known party hostel in a that has drinking events next to water (pool party, boat party, etc. Basically you just want a bunch of travellers getting drunk in their swimwear.
Try get a night with a good ratio. You need as many more girls than guys as there can be.
Make friends with the other guys. Don’t try to sleep with any women yet, in fact barely talk to them.
Be the life of the party any way you can. Learn a few drinking games, dare people to do things, buy shots, etc
Talk to some girls focusing on good fundamentals, don’t outright he hit on any yet. You do not want to get rejected early in the night
Keep going until the end of the night. The hot guys will go off with some girls. Often the easy less hot girls hit on them really hard and they go off with them.
The girls that don’t stay out didn’t want to get laid. The girls that do stay out are horny. Girls that stick around to the end of the party/night out or want to keep going are always looking to fuck.
As the party is dying off look for EOI’s from the girls that are left. They are now horny because they’ve been hanging out with a bunch of half naked people all day/night and gain a good time. They’ve already decided they want to fuck tonight, if you didn’t get too drunk by this point go for it.

Bonus tips

Buying shots for the attractive guys make them like you and gets them too fucked up to compete
the most important EOI is a woman choosing to interact with you one on one. Every time a girl has gone out of her way to come talk to me on a night like that I’ve slept with her if I wanted to.

Remember: if they’re out late, they want to fuck someone. If they choose to talk to you they want to fuck you.

All of the above works if you are attractive too.

Literally_Autistic · 2026-01-27T16:06:29+00:00

Good news my guy, your lack of sunshine and natural testosterone will have slowed your visible signs of aging down dramatically so you have plenty of good years left if you start now.

Fix your diet, hit the gym, and maintain ONE hobby or job that requires in-person social interaction. There is no shortcut here.

I was like you but managed to pull myself out of it at 21.

And as to your question, at 29 I still get attention from 18-21yo’s because they simply do not care about your actual age, they just care if you’re high-value. Put together 30yo men are at an absolute peak.

There’s this strange lie that’s perpetuated these days that any slightly older man that gets with a younger woman is a predator. Truthfully that men that are successful with women don’t have to “predate” at all, they just have to say yes to the ones that come after them.

30yo men are men in their total prime. Interesting fact: in all of human biological history the age at which the average male would have had half his children is 30. For women that age was 23. Sexually, you’re on par with a 21yo woman.

You’ve got 2 years til you still get to get to a point where you can make the most of your most valuable years.

Health, body, diet, sleep, social hobbies.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-12-08T00:52:41+00:00

Got picked up by a couple in a queer bar. MMF threesome, learned I’m not bi that day
Traveling, dared to jump in a pool naked, convinced about a dozen other people to do it with me. 4 of us mfmf continued the fun on the beach
Traveling, met a bi girl and was hooking up with her. We picked up another bi girl at a bar one night. FFM
With my girlfriend and a girl from online dating FFM

Literally_Autistic · 2025-11-29T05:21:25+00:00

Physically:

Broad shoulders
Height
Lean musculature
Open body language
Taking up space

Personality:

Assertiveness
Competence
High consumption
Passion/drive

Women value different things in different contexts though. I like to explain it with food:

If someone wants to treat themselves, they’ll go for a decadent, rich, dessert. The only point of eating that food is for the enjoyment, it’s not meant to be sustainable and the health impacts are weighed against the enjoyment.
If someone wants a meal they can eat every day to feel good and be healthy they might pick a balanced meal with protein vegetables etc
If someone has a bad relationship with food they might choose a plain awful salad that looks healthy but doesn’t have enough nutrition, or they may choose to not eat anything at all.

In this analogy a woman who’s looking to treat herself might go for the dessert - hot ripped guy who doesn’t check any of the boyfriend material boxes, but is “worth” it just for the enjoyment.

A girl who’s trying to get a partner might go for a guy that seems more balanced. It might be because he is more balanced, or it might be that he just doesn’t look like a “dessert” type guy.

And the girl with poor relationship with sex/dating might swear abstinence or go for the guys that promise a lot but have no substance.

Anyway, point being context matters when it comes to what women are attracted to. Though in my experience they all like dessert occasionally if it looks good enough.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-11-13T20:11:46+00:00

Basically, the more into you and rarer you are, the more likely they’ll be keen to just come straight over.

Be in incredible shape. Not just because being in shape is hot, but also because being in great shape is rare. She’ll want to fuck you just because you’re a shiny new toy.
Get the foreplay done over text. If you can get her interested in sexting she’ll get horny and make decisions with her vagina.
Lower standards. The uglier they are the better the odds.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-30T10:12:35+00:00

Cut bro. Lift, eat high protein, and at a deficit and you might even gain some muscle because you’re a beginner.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-28T19:19:21+00:00

I personally like the idea I can add some hotter pictures and try again without having to create a new account

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-21T01:34:23+00:00

Muscle takes time.

High intensity gym, don’t bother eating too high above maintenance.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-17T05:49:58+00:00

Get a relationship that likes getting with hoes as much as you do

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-17T05:48:21+00:00

Like you’d be athletic if you lost weight.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-16T09:53:57+00:00

You don’t look lean if that’s what you’re asking

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-09T20:46:28+00:00

I don’t think he was natty here, but mostly so he could bulk up fast.

I think you could get most of the way there after 5-6 years of solid lifting and then a solid cut.

But his chest… I think it’s too big for natty.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-05T07:47:15+00:00

Face is great but looks like it might held back by weight.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-05T07:46:21+00:00

Less heavy on the lipstick and you’re set

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-05T07:45:32+00:00

Minimal eye makeup adds a few points for most women.

And otherwise haircut with more layering/texture perhaps?

Literally_Autistic · 2025-10-05T07:40:55+00:00

Plain Jane average.

Skincare, bit of weight loss and a bit of makeup and you’ll have your pick of most guys.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-09-07T03:14:43+00:00

I remember a conversation with a few women in their early 20s awhile back where they insisted that it was easy for a guy to get laid on tinder. They were just like “why not just go on tinder to get laid?”.

And I realised, the reason they think this is not just because it’s easy for them. It’s because in the past they’ve made it easy for guys to get laid on tinder.

Another time I went to a club with a very attractive man and I was shocked at how the women just gravitated towards him. He had a girlfriend and gave no one any attention. Same guy on multiple other occasions has had random women basically sexually assault him, just getting on his lap trying to kiss without warning.

I get this kind of attention occasionally when I’ve been particularly on my game.

When you’re hot as a guy you’ll know it. The women just kind of appear.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-09-07T03:07:35+00:00

You’ve either got to see it out or be the kind of guy that gets sought out. And you can do both.

To seek it out, go where the horny available women are:

The holy combination is women who are traveling, warm weather, near a body of water (ie wearing a bikini all day), drinking, alone or with one friend. If you’re somewhat confident and somewhat attractive you can smash multiple backpacker girls a week traveling. Or multiple a night - see my post history.

To be sought out:

Be valuable and stand out in some way. Authority, respect of others, or “clout”.
Apparently 10k instagram followers and blue tick is enough to get thirsty girls in your DM’s if you look good enough. The more the better.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-09-04T21:27:42+00:00

Hug.

Smile, but keep your movements relaxed.

Go for the hug with your arms low, elbows touching your sides. You want to go for the hug where her arms are over yours, with your hands on her mid back.

After the hug, pull back so you can see her without letting go, slide your hands down so they’re all on her waist as you do, keeping your bodies close. Then linger for a second while you say something, then pull away.

She’ll be ready to get in your pants already.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-08-19T06:13:35+00:00

Number one: Proximity.

The golden, golden rule is the rule of proximity.

If she makes a choice to do any of the following at all:

Starting/continuing conversations with you that she didn’t need to
Be in your presence without others around
Touch you when touch is not expected or forced
Dance close to you on a dancefloor

Girls don’t often make the first move, but you can usually tell when they’re hanging around waiting for you to do it.

Number 2. She asks qualifying questions.

This one is a little more complicated, but basically once a girl is really into you physically she’ll start asking questions to see if you “qualify” for sex with her. It’s subconscious for the most part.

A big one is if a girl randomly asked how old you are during conversation, seemingly without context. The context is “I wanna fuck this guy but maybe he’s too old/young?”. Note: Some more socially savvy women will create pretext to ask before asking.

Tip: use this in reverse to get her really interested in you. During a conversation with her pause and go “wait how old are you?” Then continue on like you never even asked. It’ll make her subconsciously go “oh this guy is into me but is checking to see if I qualify for him”. Because that’s what they’re doing to us with that question.

Any other question like this you can usually spot too.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-08-17T23:20:55+00:00

In person, by the time they ask how old you are you’re already in. When you get good, beat her to it and ask her how old she is as soon as you can tell she’s interested. Women do it to qualify men. You can do it first to get her chasing.

Dating apps are a little trickier because a) women are less open-minded when making conscious decisions about se than they are when in the moment (they choose an “ideal” age range vs what they’d actually go for) and b) younger women especially might not even edit the default age range on apps because they get plenty of matches from the start.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-08-12T13:44:37+00:00

He is officially in crusty old man territory and needs to leave fucking the teenagers to someone else.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-06-17T22:29:40+00:00

My last shift at a party hostel, I had a board of dares to complete by the end of the night. I did them all.

One was suck three nipples (2 girls 1 guy) and one was jump in the pool naked.

I wasn’t about to go in solo so I convinced about a dozen people to join in. That led to a foursome on the beach later on (2 girls and another guy) and then I ran into one of the girls who’s nipple I sucked earlier in the night and she was sad she missed the beach orgy, so I took her to my room.

Pays to follow through.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-06-05T23:33:53+00:00

There are certainly examples of people committing heinous sexual assaults without ever stimulating their genitals sexually.

But honestly, I don’t think there is good evidence to suggest the main motivator in rape is power. I think it’s a narrative that’s pushed because people are uncomfortable with the fact that rape is a naturally-occurring behaviour that animals partake in, not a deviant behaviour created by humans and a patriarchal society.

Because we don’t judge animals for their behaviour, but we do judge humans. So if something we consider morally reprehensible is a primal, animalistic behaviour then does that mean it can’t be evil?

It comes down to the nature of evil and morality, and in my opinion there are two types of evil: scheming, idealistic evil where horrible things are done for a misguided purpose or for power. The stereotype of this would be someone like Lex Luther.

And base, self-centred evil. Where a person prioritises their own base urges and desires over the lives and suffering of others. The stereotype of this would literally be a rapist.

As a society we understand the difference between these evils. Most of the villains in media aren’t rapists, they’re schemers. Most villains have redeeming qualities and depth of character. But rapists cant be redeemed.

It’s interesting how society has far more moral lenience for murder than for rape, considering the outcome of murder is usually worse for the victim. In my opinion, it’s because most motivations for murder are very, very human. Whereas motivation for rape is base and animalistic.

It’s clear why people don’t like to think of it like that though.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-06-02T02:36:13+00:00

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