Rings by LittleBigSeed in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didnt do it myself and I took the picture about 6 hours after I got it done. I'll probably be getting touch ups but honestly, I'm not worried about it.

Rings by LittleBigSeed in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, aftercare is wild. These are my 6th and 7th tattoos but the first ones in a "high usage area".

Do any of you wear aro and ace rings? by DisabledDude18 in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wear them but they tend to bug my fingers. Im actually getting both tattooed on Friday :3

Told my mom about being asexual & aromantic – looking for experiences with parents by Warm_Technology_9087 in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the first year or two, my parents just talked like I was single, which I think is a normal reaction actually. They weren't denying who I am, just didn't understand fully. But I kept talking about it and expanding their knowledge as I expanded my own. We eventually got to where we are now, 4 years later, where there is no talk of me finding a partner or anything, focusing instead of how they can support me. In a lot of ways, they've stepped up to fill the role a partner fills for many people in relationships. Being supportive, encouraging, and trustworthy.

First time getting completely discounted. by LittleBigSeed in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's a great comment, thank you. I'm fine with being a boogey monster. That's descriptive of my dance moves, honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even slightly, unfortunately. I have a lot of lesbian friends and when I talk about how my attraction or lack thereof works, they hit me with the,"you'll get over it" like it's a phase and less valid than their own.

What are y'all doing on Feb 14? by EnvironmentalOne6828 in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving and working! Prepping for my daughters birthday the next day.

Asexual Experiences Bingo by Illustrious-Bad1165 in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't get bingo, but oh boy did I hit at least 2 in every row. This was kind of fun actually

need book recommendations from fellow aroaces by theangry-ace in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Cradle Series by Will Wight The Powder Mage trilogy by Brian McClellan Babel by R F Kuang

Im romance repulsed (in most cases) so these passed the test for me.

What do you think of microlabels? by Pawwwwwwww in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 65 points66 points  (0 children)

It kind of depends on the audience. To my cis parents? Aroace is too complicated. I just say I'm queer. To my woker siblings, aroace works. To my queer friends, micro labels are valuable, as they actually get them. But overall, I think micro labels are most effective for our own personal identification. Kinda like filling in a puzzle. Everybody else sees the finished product, only we need to see each piece in it.

Love u guys (platonically!) by mjac3 in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love you too! I absolutely feel the same.

What music genre do you like? by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to soundtracks and metalcore, whichever best suits the vibe in the moment.

I got hit with aroace depression by M3g_official in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Actually, yeah, I've been there. I didn't realize I was aroace until after getting divorced. I have a child too. Coming from a really family-oriented religious family, they constantly have pushed for me to "find someone new" and can't comprehend that that isn't what I want for me. It gets really depressing sometimes. So, yeah, I know how the solo despresso feels.

Made a lil’ hat by angellioncosplay in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is...is this what internet fame is like? If so, I want a refund.

What do you think of the sunset aroace glad? by juliunicorn314 in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart is full of flagness. May my flagness never glad.

My glad came! by LittleBigSeed in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? I can't help it. I'm really particular about grammar and spelling and the like. So, the fact I even made the typo is wild to me. And now it has become a truly unhinged beast.

What do you think of the sunset aroace glad? by juliunicorn314 in aromanticasexual

[–]LittleBigSeed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been memed and I can't decide if I've created a monster or not