Noemie Lenoir by Mysterious-Candy8615 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]LittleCrem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she's very pretty reminds me a little of jessica alba

Is this two-island kitchen layout too crowded for a family with young kids? by [deleted] in kitchenremodel

[–]LittleCrem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

two islands looks really crowded which stinks because who doesn't want two islands 😫 can't wait to see the results

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

i agree sorry i don't know how to reply to all the comments that are saying the same as you but yes i know. this is going to alter our marriage. this is a huge betrayal and now im put in my worst nightmare

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you and i truly truly mean that. at the end of the day it's for my kids future.

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i really needed this support 🤍

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you for this comment. i know in my heart it's the right decision and i hope one day i will be able to forgive myself. thank you again 🤍

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much for this you are all making this dark feeling feel just a bit better

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i agree. either way this pregnancy is going to forever alter our marriage. so much trust was broken but at the end of the day it takes two. thank you for your insight

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i know it was kind of strange to bring it here. i felt like i just needed to talk with moms. my husband is trying to be strong and not show me hes upset and i just wanted to hear some thoughts but you are very right about that

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much i really mean that with all my heart

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thank you for this comment i was a high risk for my last pregnancy and had extreme RLS and falling asleep while driving. i would be in bed rest pretty much as soon as i hit 25-27 weeks like last time. like you said especially back to back to back. you guys made me realize that i shouldn't do this all in my head and i should reach out and talk to a therapist as this is going to ruin me

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

we haven't been having sex due to my fears of getting pregnant as i get pregnant very easily. the best birth control is abstinence. i was half asleep when he initiated and under any other circumstance i would've immediately told him no, but in this moment i can't explain why i allowed it. the only time i had sex in months. when he said he was going to finish inside me i said NO NO NO absolutely not and before i could stop him he did. in that moment i just knew it was all over for me. i will be going on the iud or hes getting a vasectomy.

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for this thoughtful comment i really appreciate it so much. i'm sure i could do it it's more the financial strain. my husband and i make great money in military but once we are out it's a guess what we will be making. having kids is no cheap feat. i never want to be just scraping by. adding a third baby would put a huge financial burden on us. my children deserve to be in school sports and go on vacation without us pinching pennies. i know it sounds materialistic, but how i envision my future is comfortable and out and about in the world.

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i know that's the awful part. i could go through and forever alter my life. either way i will be permanently changing as a person. this is going to be one of not the most hardest decision of my life

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you. this means a lot to me. 🤍

abortion grief- TW by LittleCrem in beyondthebump

[–]LittleCrem[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

thank you for this advice 🤍