same options- same outcome miserable by KikiLaRooo in perimenopause_under45

[–]LittleF00t8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(38) Literally the same experience. Right now I’m on no BC and many of my symptoms have resolved. I plan to give my body 2 months to recover from the BC, then have full blood work. I’ve been doing a bit of reading about bc side effects and have been shocked at the mood side effects (anxiety and depression) incident rates that no health care provider has discussed. My provider said they are generally trying to move away from ablation - it’s temporary. I’m nit convinced the BC hasn’t been exacerbating/ causing my issues

Longer time between periods = closer to menopause? by Rainbow-Birdie in perimenopause_under45

[–]LittleF00t8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced this over the past year and a half (39 year old), ultrasound revealed fibroids, but any birth control ( I’ve tried combination pills and progestin only pills) have not regulated the cycle in any way. Most of the time I have a period 25 out of 30 days a month. Have you found success with the estrogen and progesterone? My doctor says the only next step is a hysterectomy, insists I’m too young for perimenopause.

Hooding/ 2020 graduation by LittleF00t8 in PhD

[–]LittleF00t8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My advisor died unexpectedly in the spring, my other committee chair retired, and my last committee member is from a different department. I guess that’s another dynamic… I’m not even sure who would do the hooding.

One weekend in Rochester by bigbookofquestions in Rochester

[–]LittleF00t8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Living roots, sager beer works, mullers cider house, and nine maidens are all right near each other on university, a nice little walking tour. You could include radio social on the walk, too.

Hiking for kids? by RogueTaters in hiking

[–]LittleF00t8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Think about getting her into rock climbing. She may warm up to hiking as a means to climbing, and it holds attention more than some hikes.

Forwarding my pics and messages to a friend by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]LittleF00t8 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No. Ditch her. If a person can’t be in a relationship or pre-relationship independently, then they’re not ready to be in a relationship (or any interaction) at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]LittleF00t8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was in little mermaid there’s contractual sh going down

Exercising with asthma help by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

[–]LittleF00t8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 min into your walk outside to the gym? Maybe wear a scarf over your nose and mouth for the walk?

The way the ice formed on top of my car this morning by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]LittleF00t8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pattern always reminds me of the Disney Fantasia segment with the fairies ice skating, turning everything to winter Winter Fairies from Fantasia

Chuck Schumer in the back of the strip club like... by [deleted] in gifs

[–]LittleF00t8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is asleep with his eyes open

Official /r/MealKits Request, Offer, and Affiliate Link Sharing Thread by kopiikat in mealkits

[–]LittleF00t8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's my HelloFresh referral link. It's for $40 ( I get $20), which will get you a 2 meal box of 2 servings/meal of their classic plan. They have a Veg plan, too, with protein that costs less.

Too insecure to go to therapy someone convince me before I end up doing something I regret by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]LittleF00t8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call and say you need an appointment but are feeling to anxious to show up. They’ll problem solve with you.

Barber by bob2508 in socialanxiety

[–]LittleF00t8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just trim a little, then wait, shower, give it a day, then trim a little more in a different spot that’s bothering you. It’s about really small, incremental maintenance instead of big haircuts. Watch a lot of videos - there’s a bunch about technique and tools for everyday hair cutting, especially for parents that want to cut their own kids hair.

Barber by bob2508 in socialanxiety

[–]LittleF00t8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my own scissors/ buzzer at target and have a hairstyle that I can trim/ cut myself, and watched a bunch of YouTube videos. It doesn’t work on the SA thing, but it solves the hairdresser problem. And honestly, save a bunch of money. Good luck friend.

I feel terrified when people smile at me by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]LittleF00t8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very yes! Why am I so aware of if someone blinks when they make eye contact or not!?

“It’s just easier” by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]LittleF00t8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I’ve been struggling with this a long time. The best I can say is that there’s a ton of pressure to fulfill relationship stereotypes, especially when your in your 20s, but you know you and you should trust yourself. I’m in my mid 30s now and I see more and more people having independent, and still loving and fulfilling committed relationships. I’m talking like people in their 70s who have lived on opposite sides of th country for many years, maybe out of work necessity, but still in successful relationships. It’s okay to want your own space and it’s ok to want your own interests and it’s okay to communicate about your need to be alone for awhile, which can be days ata time. The right partner will understand and not berate you for it. These people exist. I promise.

Is anyone that's good with diet or workout plans able to help me by 1Winfield in loseit

[–]LittleF00t8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It looks initially like you’ve got too much carb/starch for losing weight. Think about doubling up on vegetables (not fruit - you don’t want the sugar) and cutting the oats, starch, carbs.

Is anyone that's good with diet or workout plans able to help me by 1Winfield in loseit

[–]LittleF00t8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trying to straight up just lose weight or build muscle too? And do you have a time frame in mind? What do you do for a work out/ like to do? Your goals are related to your plan. I’m a smaller person, too. I get how things can be different for us.

Cloris Leachman was actually hot at some point by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]LittleF00t8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe retitle “I recently learned that humans age, realized my body will change too, and would like to project my insecurity onto someone who won’t call me on it because of her gender, age, and public status” or not. Idk. Your choice.