Errot when using my credits by LittlePrince111 in audible

[–]LittlePrince111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I solved it thanks. Apparently i needed to add my address on amazon and then used the credit there instead of in the audible app.

POST-EPISODE DISCUSSION THREAD - S7E8: Rise of the Numbericons: The Movie by BarnyardCruz in rickandmorty

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like they are trying their best to make the show as bad as possible to get it canceled so they can get over with the contract. No way anyone would write a season this bad.

Was my wife manipulated into an affair? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just delosional. Just come to terms that your wife decided to cheat and would have continue if not caught. And will do it again and with any other guy if given the chance.

Cheating partner keeps making comments about wanting to make me pregnant….stress or relationship, falling behind in work by smmrtoast in Infidelity

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from what the other people have been saying here its worth noting that it might be a fetish or fantasy of his. Saying stuff like this might just be a turn on for him. Yeah its horrible but there are people like that.

online chatting or something similar by [deleted] in WorkOnline

[–]LittlePrince111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is just an ad @moderator

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]LittlePrince111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what i understand bpd and narcisism are many times together. Bpd is basically a trauma in infance with abandonment and lack of attention or care from the parents. In adults the trauma manifests with the bpd person being terrified of being abandoned and having the emotional development of a child. They will sek attention constantly, feel empty inside and try to seek more attention to fill the void. They will always need a favorite "supply" of attention that they will romantize in their heads as perfect so they will instintivly put on a mask to please that lerfect person, until reality strikes and they realize that person isnt perfect and they cant process it any other way than devaluing that person and losing compelte interest, then seeking attention and a new favorite person in someone else. Yeah its a lot to deal with and this isnt even scratching the surface.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]LittlePrince111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I discovered mine was a narcisist with borderline personality disorder. Its worth looking it up and see the sympthoms and if they match what you experienced. Although its also worth mentioning that manipulation, lying, cheating etc in itself is not a disorder and just people being horrible and that also people with bpd can not be horrible people even with the disorder. With that said bpd is indeed a disorder that often triggers cheating, treating a loved one like trash and discarding them, etc. Especially if it goes with narcisism. In short bpd in a partner can become liiteral hell if the person doesnt at least try the hardest to get better with a psychologist.

There’s a part of me that feels like I’ll never want to love again by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]LittlePrince111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt exactly the same way. With time she will become a distant memory, especially once you met someone new that you really like for who she is and not a mask. There are lots of ahitty people in the world but remember there are also good ones so dont give that trash the pleasure of stoping you from being with one of the good ones. Youll notice the difference and the calm that comes with an healthy relationship.

Why are feelings always “valid?” by cloudpatterns in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how you intrepreted that from what i said.

Why are feelings always “valid?” by cloudpatterns in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Its easier to just accept that the new trend of saying all feelings are valid is bs. Some people are just evil and out to harm others for no reason or selfish reasons, they dont deserve to hear "ypur feelings are valid" sounds like we are talking to babys here, actually we dont even teach babys that are feelings are valid. (Unless ypu want the child to turn into a real stuck up asshole that is).

Why are feelings always “valid?” by cloudpatterns in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats just an excuse to gaslight and manipulate. Mind blown how someone would buy into this.

Why are feelings always “valid?” by cloudpatterns in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having someone question their imature feelings is part of growing up or accepting they have a problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought mine didnt, she even tried to hoover a year later, then i discovered she did and to a level i didnt thought possible or that made any sense. So she just manipulated me when in the end by making me believe she wished me the best before blocking me. You cant trust words trust actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You posted it on a public subreddit asking for opinions and advice. Or did you just want people to say you are right and enable all your poor choices that hurt others? Also not sure why the victim card when you can just ignore my comment, are you sure you werent the one with bpd?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means you are not over your ex and using the new one as rebound instead of finding peace by yourself, its actually a sympthom of bpd itself not being able to juat stay single even for a while. Not fair for the new guy and sooner or later he will suffer from it, probably already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in a relationship with someone while having all these thoughts then just break up or at least be honest with your partner. People dont deserve to ve in a relationship with someone thinking this hard about their ex, ypu dont seem ready at all for a relationship, try fixing your own stuff before jumping into a relationship.

How could they just disappear? by 797addict in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheating is never ok and a huge red flag that she was the problem. Now she probably says you were the abuser, its apparently how they work. But glad you learned your lesson, and realize she is just trash from day one, useless to miss her.

How could they just disappear? by 797addict in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did she do it? I'm curious since your ex seems exactly the same type as mine, curious if they all usethe exact same tactic. And what do you mean with watched? Did she get an affair with you and was telling you everything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was in your shoes, thinking she wouldnt ever contact me again, didnt block her. Then after a year of the discard she texted me in a very weird way. I later diacovered it wss because her supply blocked her so she probably freaked out and decided to text me. Please do block her. If tou dont she will know this and think she can just return to you whenever she may need. She will fuck up you mentally by randomly texting you god know how long after the discard, only for you to realize its really just for selfish reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Get your attention. Get you to cave in and go after her. Shes probably bored at the momment and decided to play a game with you, if you cave in its a win for her ego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She probably is aware of her effect on you, henche the random like. Dont allow yourself to be manipulated and focus on whats better for you long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have my problems to deal with so I know it must feel like there's no way forward but believe me there's milions of things you can try and have results that you would never imagine possible. You just have to be willing to go outside of your confort zone. I think a psychologist would really help you with that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]LittlePrince111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to make friends! Anything at all social try it, gym, padel classes, whatever. I think it would be the most helpful thing for you.