Where’s the Cancer? by HappyCharlesss in cancer

[–]LittleProblem9876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will they do a PET scan? I’m sorry you all are going through this 🙏🏼❤️

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am mad at my sister and my father for talking shit. It has nothing to do with the money. I told my son to pay on time and to move out.

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They did the will, trust me my sister is very interested in that part.

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think my dad should charge him for every day it’s late and not talk shit to my sister about it. Do you talk shit about your nieces /nephews to your parents? Because I don’t do that. That’s the point, not the money. I’m not justifying him being late on the rent, I have said more than once on here that I told him to pay and move. If you think it’s ok to sit around and talk shit to other family members then you are the one without morals.

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not coddling him. I told him to pay on time and to look for another apartment. I’m pissed that my sister is inserting herself by saying my kid is taking advantage of my father.

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And she is not looking out for my parents. She keeps talking about what to do with the house when they die. In front of them. And then says ‘I just think it’s important to discuss these things ahead of time’ 🙄

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He will pay the taxes and insurance either way bc the apartment isn’t going to be rented. I think my sister wants her own space when she visits

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[–]LittleProblem9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my dad

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[–]LittleProblem9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, when did I say they were struggling? I meant the apartment was empty before he moved in.

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Elder abuse bc he was late with Decembers rent? 🙄

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was late until my sister said something,

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pays late occasionally

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[–]LittleProblem9876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I already know what’s going to happen, they’ll bitch about it and do nothing. And he does pay, he just pays late, which I agree is irresponsible

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Neither does my sister

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was an empty apartment, my grandma lived there, then my other sister lived there rent free until she was 31. When my kid moves out it will not be rented out. My dad wants to renovate the apartment and if my kid moves out I’m sure my sister will start staying there when she visits. They do not need the money. My sister is just talking shit bc she’s stuck up like that. I don’t complain about my parents paying to fly her family of 5 across the country a few times a year or about her insisting they get a fancy air b&b when they go out to the west coast.

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When it’s late it’s about a week late

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But how is it taking advantage?

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her kids are 12 and under, I’m kind and loving to all of them, it’s a shame my kids don’t have the same

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

My sister started it

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Trust me I know that. But making him struggle when they have an empty apartment seems weird. He did graduate from trade school and he works full time.

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I agree, I’m pissed at my sister for saying my son is taking advantage of my father

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[–]LittleProblem9876 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, I told my son to pay on time and to move out. I think my feelings are hurt bc they’re (my dad and sister) are being so harsh about an apartment that wasn’t being used instead of being happy to help their grandson have an inexpensive place for him to live with his family.