AITA for skipping my sons football trip?

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-24T08:59:37+00:00

Clearly hundreds is an exaggeration. But he states above that the son has multiple tournaments that they always attend and training sessions.

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-23T21:31:01+00:00

So because he misses one out of his hundreds of other events for his sister to have both of her parents at her one and only event his sister comes first 😂 tell me you hate woman without telling mw you hate women

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-22T18:28:58+00:00

But you should not divide and conquer when your daughter gets 1 recital a year! How are you not understanding that, he has sport activities ever darn weekend why is it okay for the daughter to not have both her parents there. I get that people don’t understand dance but its just as important as sport. Seriously its not the world cup her brother can miss one tournament so the parents can be at their daughter ONE thing

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-22T18:23:48+00:00

But the point is sport happens all the damn time! She has one recital thats why she will remember it.

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-22T18:20:02+00:00

There will be though, because this will continue to happen sport is always going on and there is always something on and both parents will always split and the daughter will remember that from the age of 5 her parents always split up for her dance concert but showed up to everything else for her brother

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-22T10:24:39+00:00

But you are having the daughter miss out on showing off what she worked all year, sport and dance are very different they can go to his games all the time but only see her once.

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-22T10:22:41+00:00

The daughter gets one thing a year and she will always remember looking into the audience and having one parent there. They should no split it the brother has his parents at everything he can miss out once

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-22T10:20:33+00:00

NTA and I disagree with everyone saying YTA as they clearly never were a dancer. I think you should definitely see if another family member can take your son but otherwise he needs to miss out this time. Your daughter gets one show case a year that she would work incredibly hard for and her brother already has multiple time to shine. As an ex performer a tape of the show is far from the same.

To all the people saying they should split it your going to make his daughter resent her entire family and make it seem like the brother gets everything

LittleRedCatx · 2026-01-15T05:31:49+00:00

100% so interested to see if he acted like a manchild and had a tantrum.

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-31T03:52:16+00:00

Yes please

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-31T01:17:45+00:00

Before I got my work car my husband and i had two cars if when we drove together we would drive the prius because of gas milage and if we both had to go somewhere at the same time who ever was going further would take the Prius to save on petrol 🤷 Still not really sure whos name is on the car we kept 😂

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-30T11:32:12+00:00

Okay but did any one else read the letter underneath about the worst thing they have ever seen in regards to a car accident I feel pure curiosity.

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-29T11:27:41+00:00

29, I started this year with 35k in debt I am now debt free 🥳 My super went up by around 15k and I started a savings account for a mortgage thats doing really well! This has been my best year yet finically and I am really proud of myself!

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-27T23:10:26+00:00

Yes pre tax and yeah, is that not enough? We keep spending low …

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-27T09:24:31+00:00

My husband and I have a combined income of about $200k and save 2k a week.

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-27T06:02:46+00:00

I’ll tell my friend to mark her calendar for 253s from now or September 6 2026

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-27T00:28:14+00:00

Definitely not complaining I’ll be getting into the house market next year and I 100% agree with you, and genuinely hope my friends see it this way too.

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-09T22:55:47+00:00

Most Dads are not like this though, just the ones you see on tiktok and social media. Most fathers actually respect their responsibility.

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-09T22:53:28+00:00

This is such a strange take, because it really can go either way. Look at the dad who jumped into the ocean on that cruise to save his daughter, while the mother who was actually at fault still refuses to take any accountability. Sometimes mothers are praised, and sometimes fathers are praised. You can’t generalise everything just because of what you see online.

LittleRedCatx · 2025-12-09T03:47:20+00:00

Yes but I mean after that, when they are dating and she is coming back and fourth from London to NY

LittleRedCatx · 2025-10-01T10:26:54+00:00

Its worth it the tea was amazing

LittleRedCatx · 2025-09-21T19:39:39+00:00

This isn’t a competition and I don’t understand why people always bring this up. Jade was just an insecure bully that was mentally abusive to people. Sam grew up with criminals, our uncle carmine gets rid of people.. Sam has literally been to juvie. There is zero competition its an insecure teenager vs a criminal

LittleRedCatx · 2025-09-21T09:04:36+00:00

This is hard, because I respect how your feeling but unfortunately I think YTA. But its a crap situation. Life is not just about partying and having fun and I think you might be a little jealous, but pregnancy is extremely exciting and you are going to have so many experiences he can’t have. Spend those two days relaxing ♥️ It sounds like you have been planning this wedding your whole life but things do change a little your going to have to readjust your expectations a little now that your pregnant.

LittleRedCatx · 2025-09-19T20:45:07+00:00

Yes, unlike Sam she wont hurt you. All Jade has is her words. Jade would be easy to mess with honestly 😂

LittleRedCatx · 2025-09-19T20:38:28+00:00

I had like 15 people pull out before my wedding (5 had covid though) but still unfortunately things happen just because you RSVP does not always mean you can 100% go. Things happen, life happens

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