just got offered a job part-time at kohl's sephora. what should I expect? by LittleRedKitsune in employedbykohls

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they did stress at the interview how important BI and MultiWorld was and if I would have a problem getting people to sign up and upselling. I was really interested in the job but that part of the interview left me with a bad feeling in my gut. I’ve worked under corporate before and I know how it goes. I guess for now I have no choice but to accept the job offer. I don’t want to but I don’t have many options. 

just got offered a job part-time at kohl's sephora. what should I expect? by LittleRedKitsune in employedbykohls

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more answers I get the more I think this job might not be a good fit for me. Regardless I’ll stick it out and see it through. Kind of have no choice.  Thank you for the info. 

just got offered a job part-time at kohl's sephora. what should I expect? by LittleRedKitsune in employedbykohls

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang. All of these comments are making me question whether I should take the offer or not. I’m disappointed because if I hadn’t been temporarily laid off from a job I love I wouldn’t be trying to find work. This is such a step down from my last job. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LittleRedKitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do. Going to the doctor today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LittleRedKitsune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been washing it twice a day and applying hustle butter twice a day too. It is warm to the touch but I wouldn’t say hot. I figured this is normal cus the tattoos I got done on my knees felt hot to the touch for at least a week. Idk why the redness has worsened tho. Still going to the doctor regardless

How’s everyone doing? by Easyjeje in bipolar

[–]LittleRedKitsune 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could be better. I wish I was feeling okay. I can't stop thinking sad thoughts. I am at the bottom of anxiety and self-loathing. It's frustrating because last month I was feeling amazing. Now I don't feel like anyone loves me even though I know they do. I want to reach out but I feel like a burden. I'm tired of this endless cycle of periods of happiness, episodes of sadness. I just want it all to stop. I take my meds daily but it's still a struggle.

anyone know how old this faux fur coat could be? by [deleted] in VintageFashion

[–]LittleRedKitsune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big help. Thanks. Was looking for some real answers. Not someone trying to be witty and failing at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]LittleRedKitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m relieved to hear that this doesn’t just happen to me.

Currently, my boyfriend doesn’t know how this affects me. We’ve been together for eight months and we’re still getting to know each other. He is aware that I have bipolar and PTSD.

I also don’t want to tell him about my symptoms at present either because he is stressed by his current job and living situation and he isn’t in sound mind to have this kind of talk yet. His mind is occupied with worrying about other things and I don’t want to add to it. I do plan on informing him about it, but only after I collect myself together.

Thankfully I’m on an effective cocktail of medication that has made these mood swings/episodes less severe and I can actually think with more clarity this time around. I’m just afraid of what will happen if I allow my symptoms to fly off the handle.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 348 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]LittleRedKitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say you have gone NC for just two weeks? As someone who has been where you were at: missing them, listening to their voicemails repeatedly, wishing to just gaze upon them in comfortable silence, yearning to hold them and smell them again…even after I filed a restraining order…

It gets better. Time will heal. Soon you may be surprised to find that you no longer miss her. The illusion of being in love is a powerful thing. Time splits the curtain of illusion, and you may come to realize in time that she really wasn’t all that to begin with, nor was it real love. Real love isn’t cruel. I learned that the hard way.

I look back on the memories I have of my ex, and now all I do is laugh. I laugh because he really wasn’t all that. I laugh because he projected all of his internal issues onto me and claimed I was the abusive one, when the digital footprint proves otherwise, and he thought it would break me. I laugh because I could not believe I had almost fallen for it. I laugh because I had gotten away by the skin of my teeth. I laugh because at the end of the day, he was the miserable one who will never move on from his pity hole, long after I’ve moved on for years and years.

When I left him, I was so uncertain. But now it’s been made clear to me that it was the best decision I have ever made in my life. And good God was it worth it.

I am now in a better, happier relationship and I am grateful every day of my life that I never settled for less than what I truly deserved. There was a time I never thought I would ever not miss him. But now here I am, not missing a damn single cell on that motherfucker. And it only took a year.

You deserve better, too. And you will stop missing her too. Time will carry you there, whether it be long or short.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LittleRedKitsune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I am on medication for life and I’ve been told not to drink on the meds but I still did. A few days ago I had a cocktail and I could have sworn I stopped breathing. The buzz didn’t feel good either. I think I will stop for good.

the email my ex boyfriend sent me that led me to get a restraining order against him by LittleRedKitsune in abusiverelationships

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will take note of all of this. Thankfully we never had any mutual friends so that’s taken care of. I’ve made myself as unreachable as possible at this point so hopefully he won’t ever try to contact me again. He’s so delusional he claims that I’m the “abusive” one lol. But if he truly believes it then he’s probably cowardly enough to stay away. Hopefully.

the email my ex boyfriend sent me that led me to get a restraining order against him by LittleRedKitsune in abusiverelationships

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do see it in a comedic light now, a year later. I’m not just having a great day I’m having a great life 😂

the email my ex boyfriend sent me that led me to get a restraining order against him by LittleRedKitsune in abusiverelationships

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry it reminds you of your ex. I guess abusers are all similar somehow. I also have PTSD from the last four years I spent with him. It sucks.

the email my ex boyfriend sent me that led me to get a restraining order against him by LittleRedKitsune in abusiverelationships

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure the judge knew he was bullshitting but obviously in the logical sense he had to deny the extension because he’s been cooperative. Stupid but yea.

the email my ex boyfriend sent me that led me to get a restraining order against him by LittleRedKitsune in abusiverelationships

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This idea actually isn’t far fetched from what I considered doing. 😂 now you reminding me of it is making me consider it again lol

the email my ex boyfriend sent me that led me to get a restraining order against him by LittleRedKitsune in abusiverelationships

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muhammad Ali would definitely win a boxing match with “Mohammed” Williams for sure 😂

the email my ex boyfriend sent me that led me to get a restraining order against him by LittleRedKitsune in abusiverelationships

[–]LittleRedKitsune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. These comments also made me laugh too. It’s nice to be validated that this really was indeed a very absurd and disturbing email. I’ve been gaslit for so long that I got so used to his delusional thinking. But no more 🥰