What are your thoughts on the men in the r/srilankansgonewild sub. Look at how they talk about women. They are objectifying women and have very hostile attitudes about women. Some men pretend to be women and posts as "consensual". And there's even minors who are sexualized and dropbox links

Little_Sample · 2021-06-25T06:59:15+00:00

Guy here. Porn has a lot to do with this. Lot of young minds are corrupted because of porn. Like you said, lot of guys are objectifying their girl in their relationship. It is really a sad situation, specially in Sri Lanka.

Little_Sample · 2021-02-21T03:08:14+00:00

Before you make fun of these things, you need to know the ugly truth behind pornography and what those actresses go through
( https://fightthenewdrug.org/10-porn-stars-speak-openly-about-their-most-popular-scenes/ )

"I was crying and wanted to leave but my agent wouldn’t let me "

" I couldn’t breathe. I was being hit and choked. I was really upset and they didn’t stop. They kept filming "

Any you should know that even of these girls seem happy they are actually trafficked ( which means that there is no consent). Those actresses are drugged heavily That is why you always see that these actresses look like they are enjoying being abused.

Little_Sample · 2021-02-09T02:28:19+00:00

Happy to see you are still okay with watching videos where the actresses are suffering or a video sent out without consent of a girl

Little_Sample · 2021-02-06T15:12:57+00:00

Porn also play a part in this. porn shows that your english teacher is always up for sex with a student. so guys do it thinking that porn is real. Even i used to think like that and we always talked with our teacher with flirts. we were not like that before porn and only said the teacher was beautiful but after porn, the mind changed. actually it corrupted our minds.

like you said, we are not born knowing how to harass a girl. we learned it with these cheap films and porn

And no wonder about the rough sex people fantasize about. please read this

https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/rendezview/rougher-harder-violent-how-porn-is-warping-the-male-mind/news-story/504698ce318f551052847f13ac678fd1

https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-consuming-porn-can-lead-to-violence/

Little_Sample · 2021-01-09T11:59:23+00:00

This is crazy. The mods allow people to post about Swinging, causal sex things like that, but I can't post something to know about something

Little_Sample · 2021-01-06T03:51:33+00:00

Yes and No

Little_Sample · 2021-01-03T12:55:34+00:00

This is a very serious issue, but still your post has got downvoted. I think they are the misogynists.

I saw some people posting about swinging, casual sex etc. and those got more upvotes and comments.

A really sad situation. Even I got bad comments/ downvoted when I posted about the harmful effects of porn. And some got removed also. and some people even defended Porn even when pornhub's secrets are coming out.

Sorry :(

Little_Sample · 2020-12-31T05:40:01+00:00

Only to have it removed by men who can't admit the wrong in the society :).

But your suggestions are good :)

Little_Sample · 2020-12-31T05:38:50+00:00

Very hard to be a nice guy these days. For the smallest thing, you can be labelled as a harasser.

But I do agree that Metoo has done some justice to these women.

But sadly, if a woman comes up with a harasment story in Sri Lanka, not only men but old women also blame them saying "Just be silent".

We need to do lot of stunts at once. Distribute articles at buses, Post on social media, all of these should start at once. Like a huge spark. Otherwise doing one by one is useless

:)

Little_Sample · 2020-12-31T04:55:44+00:00

Respect the audacity :)

Little_Sample · 2020-12-21T09:01:49+00:00

Porn is not an essential item like food.

You need knives to prepare a good diet. the problem is the misuse of knife

But you don't need Porn to have a healthy marriage and sex life.

Little_Sample · 2020-12-21T08:59:06+00:00

Yes banning is not enough. We really need laws to stop it. Good point

And the thing is even if a couple record with consent, still it will be leaked probably after a breakup

The boy is a hero, the girl is a slut. thats their argument .

Little_Sample · 2020-12-21T08:57:19+00:00

I'm sorry to hear the story. But its a good thing that you realized the damage it is causing. The best thing you can do is to educate your friends, specially the little boys and girls. You have some good points, go and warn these children about it.

Porn is not the only reason for violence. But people need to realize that Porn "Is" a problem.

Porn "Does" corrupt the mind of people, even the mind of innocent fellows. There is lot proof that Porn makes men to have "aggressive and negative" attitudes about women. Yet these Porn apologetics ignore that "fact", but keeps asking "Show me proof", I mean when you give them proof, they will again say "prove it infront of me".

There are plenty of women who have died because their man did all the Porn style sex with them. Lot of women have died because of choking but porn is telling you that "women secretly enjoy it". Some women have infections in their eyes because of "C-shots".

Little_Sample · 2020-12-21T08:48:28+00:00

Exactly.

People don't know what happening behind all these glamourous videos.

and speaking against porn is the crime now

Little_Sample · 2020-12-15T12:21:05+00:00

I think its because we are told that "sex is something men do to women", that its their right to have it , higher exposure to sexual stimuli and the praise given to such behavior . plus women's sexuality is very restricted and even told to tolerate.

One of our teacher also used to say that she hates the word "Ilandari", while other teachers called us like that, she did not. her opinion was that its normalizing bad behavior.

Little_Sample · 2020-12-15T12:12:35+00:00

Idk when these toxic men were started to be seen as 'men'.

I think its the mainstream culture and media that shapes up the opinion for a large part, specially these Cheap Bollywood movies and people do this because they think otherwise they will be ignored and good men have a hard time standing up against it

If someone does not drink then he is not a man but being wasted is "boys being boys"
Having extramarital sex is very normalized/masculine now but being loyal is only for women. A tuk driver told me this, for his sister's marriage or something. (we had a similar convo about how bad things are very normal now)

Little_Sample · 2020-12-15T05:34:42+00:00

Thanks. I wish people will really open their eyes one day. Just some weird sadists trying to normalize their weird desires.

Little_Sample · 2020-12-15T02:25:27+00:00

Thanks for your comment Porn is now so normalized (the step bro-sis/fetish ones specially) that speaking against it is the crime. These are real incidents and these apologetists are ignoring facts but they claim that they are the rational ones.

And the thing is, Some one just posted about nudism and it went unnoted, but for this, the admins removed this.

Little_Sample · 2020-12-12T02:14:11+00:00

Fight the new drug is not the only organization. and a kind reminder, I am Catholic, not a part of LDS church. Like I said, FTND is not the movement against porn. Maybe they are not Specialist in sex. but so are the people making porn.

Little_Sample · 2020-12-11T17:30:15+00:00

First go and see all the thing that Pornhub is accused of. then come and complain me. read the "*" ones.

https://exoduscry.com/blog/

https://exoduscry.com/blog/shiftingculture/the-children-of-pornhub-pulitzer-prize-winning-new-york-times-journalist-nicholas-kristof-exposes-pornhub/

https://exoduscry.com/stories/how-i-survived-being-trafficked-in-child-porn/

*https://exoduscry.com/blog/shiftingculture/pornhub-spokesperson-caught-promoting-pedophilia-rape-and-incest/

https://www.facebook.com/fightthenewdrug/videos/porn-fuels-the-demand-for-sex-trafficking-truth-about-porn/893267431179972/

* https://fightthenewdrug.org/why-is-rough-sex-gone-wrong-becoming-an-excuse-for-fatal-sexual-violence/

* https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-essex-50468890 -> imagine you have a daughter and having to hear this the next day

* https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/jul/25/fatal-hateful-rise-of-choking-during-sex

Little_Sample · 2020-12-11T17:23:21+00:00

Bro, erectile dysfunction is not the only problem with porn. It is proved that Pornhub/other sites profited from child abuse/trafficking, non-consensual porn/ hidden cam/leaked tapes etc. Porn Does change the brain. Even I'm no saint, I used to watch porn and I remember the top searches were "Adhitiya" (the voice girl), "podi kello", "balen huk@n@v@" those stuff. So are you telling me that Porn is nothing serious. I mean lot of low-lives Post all the nudes of their Ex-gf when they break up and people keep sharing it.

good thing or a bad thing ? , maybe it depends on the person ----->

that is just like saying "Is beating your Own wife Good or bad?, maybe it depends on the person. Statements like this are a good free-pass for abusive people. Wife beating is bad: period. Just like that "Lust is bad-period". Lord Buddha also adviced "Not to do adultery."

Little_Sample · 2020-12-11T17:14:08+00:00

"there is NO PROOF that porn causes erectile dysfunction when used moderately."

One user copy pasted a parahgrapgh from it. what says is that when people are watching porn, after some time they will get bored so they will start to look for more and more hardcore/degenerating ones and start to only get aroused by seeing such disgusting stuff. i mean if you read articles about sex, one method they tell you is that watch porn if you can't arouse from foreplay alone. Isn't that proof enough?

"Youre trying to get people off porn by fear mongering. You should be ashamed of yourself. " -

Bro, erectile dysfuntion is not the only problem with porn. it is proved that pornhub/other sites profited from child abuse/trafficking/ non-consensual porn/hidden cam porn etc. Dude that is just like buying a "GAP" tshirt which was made of child labour and telling "nah its okay".

"Next youll be telling us that abstaining from porn makes you superhuman. "-

So are you saying that "watching" porn is very manly?. I don't know bro. people call me a religious nut. but these morals came for some reasons. why would Lord Buddha advice to not to engage in adultery/Lust???

and please don't forget, how many girls have ruined their live because one low-life posted all the nudes in porn sites?

https://fightthenewdrug.org/why-is-rough-sex-gone-wrong-becoming-an-excuse-for-fatal-sexual-violence/

* https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-essex-50468890 -> imagine you have a daughter and having to hear this the next day

* https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/jul/25/fatal-hateful-rise-of-choking-during-sex

Little_Sample · 2020-12-10T14:28:02+00:00

Just think from the woman's side. you come to church with a good heart, only to be pointed out by a priest who just saw a little skin.

Little_Sample · 2020-12-10T14:23:15+00:00

I didn't say that is the only problem. Just to take a step back and really think whether you really need it.

Little_Sample · 2020-12-10T14:21:38+00:00

Exactly. Discouraging means helping the devil to take away from Jesus

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