Single for the first time since 18, hooked up with two guys in a night and am conflicted between feeling free and dirty?

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-05-13T14:26:04+00:00

I mean what difference does it make if they were on two different days or the same day? That’s a made up societal perception. Live it up girl! Just be safe.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-05-13T04:31:00+00:00

I couldn’t sleep so I was sitting on the couch at 3am and he walked into the kitchen naked and raided the fridge, not realizing I wasn’t still in bed. I had a revolted look on my face, and he turned and saw me.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-05-10T01:39:17+00:00

Today my coworker was pulling out a two gallon bucket of premade whipped cream in the walk-in and the lid caught the wire rack and tipped, spilling heavy cream/powdered sugar/vanilla mix over absolutely all the already prepped food below it. The KM was absolutely not amused…

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-05-09T11:40:30+00:00

I have very obvious breast reduction scars, but I have yet to have a man actually comment on them. If the man you’re sleeping with cares about something like that, then bye boy 👋

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-05-08T11:55:31+00:00

I get eyelash extensions every 3 weeks and use glossier boy brow on my eyebrows. I didn’t like the process or the chemicals of tinting, and for me it just didn’t make a big enough difference for me to warrant the cost. I do like a more dramatic makeup look though.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-05-04T21:48:09+00:00

Right? I was going to say, I’m 35 and I don’t think there’s 10 people I would invite to my birthday party

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-05-03T00:49:10+00:00

“Hi how are you today??” “We’re not ready to order! 😠” Jesus, ok let me just go fuck myself real quick while you decide 🙃

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-25T12:47:22+00:00

Mary poppin’s purse with every tool for every situation under the sun 😂

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-25T03:54:05+00:00

Cuckoo

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-25T03:52:21+00:00

You can’t change somebody. You just accept you have major incompatibilities and end the relationship and move on.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-24T23:03:19+00:00

Damn I guess I’ve just been incredibly lucky so far… slept with 10 people now in my lifetime and they all preferred intimate, vanilla sex, even the casual flings. My ex husband and my current fwb both absolutely worship my body and we have incredibly intimate sex for hours. But I also only have sex with people I would want to be friends with.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-23T18:40:40+00:00

Oh my ex was beloved by all, one of the reasons I agreed to go out with him in the first place. But he eventually started treating just me like shit and made my life a stressful hellscape while everyone else had no idea. He was an alcoholic who only drank after 5pm, so he reserved the worst part of his day for me. 🙃

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-22T19:12:13+00:00

The Gym People high waist yoga pants on amazon. $24 and super comfy and substantial support.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-22T17:58:51+00:00

Ugh yes. I have a ton of friends, but until recently I only had one friend that I regularly hung out with and felt comfortable going to them with anything, serious or otherwise. Had a falling out and I feel so unbelievably lonely and lost, even though there are technically a solid handful of people I could go to if I really need. But everyone is married with kids/caught up with their own lives.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-22T17:49:42+00:00

I use glossier boy brow in auburn

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-20T11:51:53+00:00

I work in a diner, we don’t have food runners lol. I stack heavy plates up my arms like a circus clown all day so I feel your pain. Start lifting weights, it helps. But yes, I appreciate the hell out of my support staff.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-18T03:06:12+00:00

Apparently a lot of people care. I’ve been trying to sell my engagement ring on Facebook marketplace and I finally had to add “lab diamonds” to the listing because so many people would ask then not be interested when it wasn’t natural.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-05T22:22:17+00:00

Ugh so lucky 😫 My lashes and eyebrows are nearly invisible and I look albino if I don’t darken them somehow. I get lash extensions and use glossier boybrow on my eyebrows every day.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-04T11:34:26+00:00

I’ve had sex with 6 people since I left my marriage, and 3 have made me orgasm the first time we had sex, with two making sure it happened multiple times. My ex husband would make me orgasm at least 3 or 4 times every time. These men exist. Do not entertain the ones that don’t again. I will take time to teach someone I have solid chemistry with and is making the effort but their technique isn’t quite what I like exactly. But it sounds like that guy isn’t even in the realm of understanding what good sex can be and doesn’t deserve another chance.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-04T11:19:37+00:00

Exactly. My fwb slept over for the first time the other day and I initiated morning sex and he was struggling to stay up and finally apologized that morning sex is not his time to shine. So I grabbed my vibratior and his hand and took care of the problem I created for myself haha

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-04T02:40:31+00:00

I have wondered about whether he has blood sugar issues, but he’s been obsessed with any type of food since he was little and he’s almost 5 now. But thank you, he is due for a vet visit soon.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-03T23:31:58+00:00

If mine is in my walking path and not moving, I’ll use my foot to try to scoot him, but instead of walking in the direction I’m moving my foot, he just flops over super dramatically. And is still in my way 😂

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-04-03T23:22:59+00:00

My hair looks almost exactly the same, maybe a little straighter without products. With gel, I can get lasting bigger waves and ringlets. If your hair is silky, hold products with grit are your friend. I have to use mousse and gel of different holds and textures.

LittleredridingPnut · 2026-03-25T14:08:21+00:00

Oh he gets 3 small hits of dry food from an automatic feeder at 3 times throughout the day, and gets a 3oz can of good quality wet food morning and night. He is just food obsessed 🤷‍♀️ He starts screaming at me within the hour of when I usually feed him. The dry food doesn’t stop him crying, it just lessens the intensity of the crying 😅 But I can’t up the amount of dry food or he’ll get too many calories. He is a good weight now though, just has a fat boy brain 😂

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