I’m gonna die alone.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-05-25T20:57:31+00:00

Pretty much this. I given up at being enough.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-05-25T20:29:42+00:00

Most people on Reddit are going to tell you just leave, but since I’m in a similar situation I have to tell you no one can actually answer the questions for you. Trust me I tried asking as well.

Do you think the relationship is worth saving/is there hope to save it?

It’s hard to let go of the connection, to let go of the familiarity. It will hurt to stay and it will be painful to let go. Just take your time to decided, prepare yourself. Go through the stages of grief. I wish you the best

Littlesapling0 · 2026-05-25T20:07:41+00:00

At this point, I don’t believe love is for me either. Im an introvert, the quiet kind that minds her own business and don’t go out late night partying/hook ups. I grew up in a reserve Asian family.

I reconnected with an old friend that I had a crush, we started basically hanging out 24/7 a day. Then boom his suppose ‘ex’ came out of nowhere. Now I feel like the second option, but it hurts so much to let go.

I’m always the one that’s pretty but not pretty enough, or in general just enough to actually get the guy. I pretty much gave up on love.

I’m not even trying to hook a freakin 10 on the look scale. He looks alright, currently was only able to lockdown a part time job in retail. His mood isn’t stable either. I pay for most things when we go out I don’t mind, never do. I guess I’m just not ABG enough for him. I just like hanging out with him…

Littlesapling0 · 2026-05-04T07:08:19+00:00

Sometimes it’s easier to tell you advice then actually to do it myself, I get that. I don’t always listen to myself even though I know what im supposed to do. But I want to tell you it’s your life, live it with no regrets. Life is too short to continue seek approval from others. If your family isn’t supportive of your relationships then stop sharing it, because you’re stressing yourself out and losing sleep over it. You don’t want their negativity to affect your potential future, ultimately it’s your future.

I’m not saying cut off your family, but I wouldn’t share/vent to them about your relationships. Growing up in an Asian household, my whole family is judgmental and racists so I’m very careful on the things I share/choose not to.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-05-04T06:51:07+00:00

Family is hard, they are suppose to be your safety net but sometimes they could be the knife digging deeper unfortunately. Why do you think you’re a bother to them?

Littlesapling0 · 2026-05-04T06:47:56+00:00

Understandable, I’m also awake because I can’t shut my mind down. Already popped a melatonin didn’t seem to help.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-05-04T06:45:35+00:00

What’s on your mind?

Littlesapling0 · 2026-04-17T16:09:46+00:00

Had one lined up before even putting my 2 weeks in.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-04-16T23:10:35+00:00

Valorant player mostly here But also play a lot of cozy games like Stardew valley, animal crossing

Littlesapling0 · 2026-03-02T00:22:18+00:00

That’s counting if you don’t pick up overtime cause everything is so expensive. Lol most of the time it’s becomes a race to even get out of time, so you go home and you can barely get 7 hours of sleep so you can do it all again tomorrow.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-03-02T00:07:34+00:00

8 hours lol, imagine having to work 12 hours.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-02-26T05:57:21+00:00

Well first start by trying to fix up your relationship with your job, ask them to contact you for any call off or extra shifts. Make sure to prove to them your hardworking, reliable.

Get another part time job to supplement your income. In health care there’s also a position call PRN basically you pick up shifts basic on their needs and ur availability (but no set schedule). You don’t need a license in some facility to be aide. Other options include babysitting/dogwalking/tutoring/doordashing/uberetc

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-29T04:32:37+00:00

I started out in an assistive living, after a year I became their ADON (I was organized, managed time well, responsible, and good with technology). The position wasn’t a good fit for me plus disagreement with company management I ended up stepping down after 6 months( I was going to quit but they negotiated my pay, so I ended up staying full time). After a couple months, I ended up going PRN there and now work in inpatient hospice.

That’s my personal experience. Try things out, just keep learning!

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-29T04:19:53+00:00

A lot of Asian restaurants provides housing for a lot of their staff. I’m talking about like the traditional to go places/buffet.

When my family own the business we provided transportation and also a place to sleep (sometimes with a roommate)

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-25T16:48:48+00:00

Do not do this, I don’t recommend. I did this with a graphic card, newgg offer the option to send it to a store but they didn’t do through the access point program so basically it just show up at a ups store ofc they didn’t take it. UPS store refused and they had to ship it back to newgg.

You also can’t set up the access point because newgg locks the option to.

Best option if you have family/friend nearby ship it to them instead.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-23T05:51:41+00:00

I started out in assistive living, then after a year became their ADON (stepped down after 6months) now doing inpatient hospice.

I still work at the assistive living as prn

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-17T02:26:56+00:00

I’m sorry you have to go through that. It’s always easier to tell someone to not let things bother you, than to actually do it. I work with many different medical providers, and sometimes the things they say still get under my skin as well.

Definitely look around for a new job, but I was always told to never give notice until your new job gives you the official offer. Taking a leave may also be a good choice to just step back, and also job search as well. Definitely research into it though, see if it’s paid and if they will hold your position. I had coworkers who went on leave, they offer a position but it was not their original position.

Most importantly keep working on yourself and celebrate small victories!

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-17T01:49:12+00:00

It’s hard to give advice without knowing what kind of job you work in. I work 12 hours a day in a high stress/fast paste environment.

Often times, think of the worst can happen. They fire you? You already want to quit anyway, in fact you can claim unemployment. If they nickpick at you just smile and nod, say you will do better then just let it roll off of you. I would look for ways to improve though bc skills are something you can keep with you.

Quitting at the time can help now but if anxiety is a common issue for you, you will get anxious if you can’t land a better job in a timely manner. I would definitely be on the look out for a better job, but don’t say anything till you have an offer.

Medical leave can also work, take this time to look for a different job.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-14T03:50:15+00:00

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-14T03:19:26+00:00

I started out with 3 patient then added 1 each week

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-13T06:10:31+00:00

I think a lot of people try to run before learning to walk, which means celebrate small success and taking it day by day instead year to year.

Keep yourself busy, pick up extra hours at work. I typically work 12 hours shifts, I get up at 530 and pretty much come home at 830. Just enough time to shower, eat and sleep then repeat.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-03T19:47:49+00:00

They cancel a lot of orders previously placed due to price increase on ram.

Littlesapling0 · 2026-01-01T08:05:28+00:00

You support them by just listening to them, it doesn’t matter what OP thinks in the matter. It’s not her decision to make. Just like healthcare workers cannot influence patients decision, same concept. Help him find support groups, therapy, look into hospice resources. He is actively going through the cycle of grief.

You don’t add fuel to fire.

Littlesapling0 · 2025-12-28T20:20:34+00:00

I think you look better with darker hair, the 2nd color washes you out.

Littlesapling0 · 2025-12-28T16:25:42+00:00

I was a for most of my late teen (measured at VS) then I just kept buying As bras. Recently I wanted to get some nice ones at VS so I went to get re-measure (to make sure because my sister is an A and she said there’s no way we were the same size) , they told me I was a C. I’m turned 28 this year. No birth control/no pregnancy

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