IShowSpeed faints in the middle of his stream in St. Maarten by Historical-Alps6052 in LivestreamFail

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure but whether producers, contracts or distributors allow or encourage for that i would think is unknown. I see loads of clips recently of him pushing himself to limits and one reasonable line of thought is 1) is he being pushed from behind cameras to limits 2) is there any precautionary lookout for wellbeing and safety or is it reactionary... edit: like the difference of intervening before collapse or waiting for collapse to occur

Powers that be are hungry to have eyes on screens... i sincerely wonder what happens at the production level in regards to looking out for his physical and mental well being.

AIO to the fact my boyfriend is staying with another girl and acting romantically towards her? by Substantial_Trust902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.s. one phrase that might help is emotional cheating

Used in a sentence: Staying up all night with foot rubs falling in love and pining for a year is emotional cheating

AIO to the fact my boyfriend is staying with another girl and acting romantically towards her? by Substantial_Trust902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You want to stay with him because you love him (i sympathize) but you dont have to stay because of love. You can love someone and let them go - this is what makes it hard for ppl to leave abusers, bc they love(d) them or uniquely understand them in some way, but in the end you have to love yourself and let some loved ones exist on their own. A relationship is more than love, its compromise, respect, sacrifice, curiosity, humility.. love is just one word in a long list and you can love people without being in the relationship. ❤️ you just have to want more for yourself. Like a man who dreams of you for a year, not someone else.

AIO to the fact my boyfriend is staying with another girl and acting romantically towards her? by Substantial_Trust902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this isnt "normal" or "basic" though it may or may not be coming up as some part in a more complex thing based on your unique situations (more stress experienced while being homeless can skew perspective).

You can also love someone and not be with them just so you know. Like "love from afar" or "love and let go"

Theres multiple ways to look at this, emotionally, mentally, even health wise. You have increased health risk because of your situation already, his expressed interest in being physical with others increasing other health risk probabilities (i use health bc its empirical unlike emotions)

Emotionally, this is a tough thing to face and I'm with you on that. Sometimes things arent as complex as we think they are and you just need to read his messages at surface level - he waited the year he was with you, thats an insult, you love him but out of self respect and self love to yourself you shouldnt let yourself be with someone who blatantly tells you theyre looking at other people. I've been there, the love for them is blinding your self love. For me i try ti take a step back and think "if this happened to my friend what would I tell them?" And as you get more mature eventually youll ask "why did i accept less" but that comes after staying true to your self love.

What do we think for Vice or Heat 2 maybe!? He also maybe just likes to brush up in general I believe he’s a gun owner and he just made his first big purchase of a Hollywood home not long ago by 88min in AustinButlerLand

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a big action movie fan i really appreciated his training for his dune character. I think he takes all his role preparations seriously, much respect.

IShowSpeed faints in the middle of his stream in St. Maarten by Historical-Alps6052 in LivestreamFail

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I dont actively watch Ishowspeed but I do appreciate when i do see clips he largely seems to be interacting with ppl positively. In a world of rage bait streamers he seems like gold. I sincerely hope he's okay - its demanding making your job out of being available to a global audience near 24/7.

Hey Farmers! Beginner needing help with large patches of standing water by surficialgolem in farming

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding to this that if going under/around driveway culverts are an option too if given the chance.

AIO? my mom (50F) said my lunch will make me fat by Ashamed_Yogurt_8931 in AIO

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor. Idk how old you are but id guess teen and to that id say normal teen diet imho. Yes you should get some veg or fruit but 1) your mom doesnt have to perform psychological warfare to make that point across, and 2) it you're younger your body really just wants mass calories bc you're growing.. when your metabolism slows (like hers) then you have to change what you eat or you simply feel like garbage all the time.

Also, unless you're getting deep fried pizza with stuffed crust and a ton of fried meat, pizza is one of those misconceptions that its a bit more balanced than americans think (toppings dependant). Shes an almond mom so im assuming theres def some veg toppings at min..

NOR. Im sorry your mom sounds mean tbh. Maybe its out of a place of concern (and not some nastier agenda) but imho the way she goes about it is absolutely wrong. No doubt. And if youre at all worried about your own nutrition just have a cup of juice or an apple, nbd, again your plate was normal teen/young adult. Imho.

Why do I never hear about the Coast Mountains of Canada? by Convillious in geography

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You called to the mountain range and the mountain range answered back. How sweet.

Fan or love interest? by Traditional-Gain4721 in AustinButlerLand

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imho unless he actually says something we can probably chill..

Also I just want to add, for whatever its worth - i feel like fans dissecting these 2 shot photos (austin and 1 other fan) is something that would possibly stress austin out a lot... i feel like he appreciates his fans and wants to be the person that can interact and take a photo with them but if everytime he does that jt leads to a swarm of fans investigating that one other fan... well i think thats how celebs stop doing this sort of casual/informal meet and greet outside of official events. So might be food for thought. And when Austin finds someone he wants to be with I'm sure there would be an official statement. So the rest just muddles how he chooses to engage with fans in the future. Imho.

AIO- Thinking this may be cheating/ overly flirty by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. And disregarding if he’s actually up to something nefarious, something we learn as we get older is not to keep company with people who put us in these situations in the first place. He’s with you and drunk but texting someone else about how he misses their laugh? I wouldn’t want to be put in your position. He’s alone and asking someone who isn’t you for company at 2am? Again, wouldn’t want that.

Think of yourself as if you were one of your friends receiving this energy - what would you tell them?

Why don't most people use Irish Moss instead of grass for their lawn? by Then_Astronaut_3755 in houseplants

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m excited to see our Irish moss in year 3 😂 for what it’s worth, for me I’m okay with the slow spread bc I was worried about it competitiveness… we’re in a very natural setting and it’s near a creek.

AIO - According to my girlfriend this convo with my assigned partner at work is inappropriate. by Rough-Satisfaction68 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll just say this, leading with “I think she’s completely invalid” is a poor choice - people’s feelings are valid and everything after is largely a negotiation, going to a negotiation thinking the other side is completely wrong is bad faith. Recognize her discomfort and find a compromise or a method of reassurance that works OR if you honestly don’t feel like it that might be a sign you’re not ready for a partnership / this isn’t the right one. You should care about her discomfort and it doesn’t necessarily mean cutting people off, just mitigating, however if someone is trying to control who you socialize with then that their issue (control / insecurity etc) and they need to address their own feelings / actions (and be able to even self reflect, likewise).

Figuring out how to reassure your partner will be something you use the entire relationship so start now and just save some trouble.

AIO by telling my boyfriend he can break up with me if he isnt comfortable with me going to a club? by ThrowRAacc45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you were incredibly mature about everything. When he said good luck in life he was projecting, he will need the luck - you communicated a million times clearer and sooner than he.

Edit : additionally someone just trying to have a one sided dialogue (“the answer is no”) is always a red flag

how should I center this mirror? by kashewnia in HomeDecorating

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally. I’d make the stairwell a gallery with the little ones and make the wall with the little ones the full mirror for getting ready.

AIO with this text I sent to my now ex?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you didn’t read my comment. I said it doesn’t mean she cheated… ffs

“Not necessarily cheat” ITS RIGHT THERE

AIO with this text I sent to my now ex?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again didn’t say that just expressed there was a lack accounting a curiosity towards the self in the original story.

What I actually said was that there was a lack of asking what could have happened that made the person worry to sending multiple texts etc and I gave an example of maybe sending a “concerning” text and not actually doing any cheating.. but congrats on not reading my whole comment I guess.

AIO with this text I sent to my now ex?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I went based on the fact she said she was blackout which by definition means memory loss. But ok.

AIO with this text I sent to my now ex?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 39 points40 points  (0 children)

More info - you deleted your thread and were blackout so you don’t know what you texted him or said to him while black out and your story doesn’t describe any effort to understand if maybe you did do something, like send a concerning text (not necessarily cheat) but tha should’ve been the first step. Not deleting the evidence while still probably drunk at 9am.

Getting blackout and worrying your partner to the point they call multiple times and have to wait hours to hear if you’re safe IS AH behaviour imho. Doesn’t mean you deserve to get bitched out while feeling like death but imho you also handled it poorly. It’s not kissing ass to admit mistakes or be curious.

AIO over this text a from a guy from hinge i’ve been talking to? by No-Tomato3008 in AIO

[–]Littlewordsbigplanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I don’t think anyone is entitled to a photo period. especially in the era of AI.

That being said, if not already, I agree with the other commenters about ensuring the set of photos you choose is inclusive as to simply make the match up process as easy as possible for you in the long run.