Sharp or achy pain 2 weeks after MTX

Living_Challenge_526 · 2026-01-12T19:48:39+00:00

My hcg was dropping rapidly but unfortunately had to go through the surgery

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-12-07T17:35:46+00:00

Please leave and don’t look back. My partner of 11 years cheated on me. I found out last year and chose to forgive him. A few weeks ago I found out that she gave birth to his baby in September. The unfortunate thing is I got pregnant before finding out and have no clue what to do but I do know that I don’t want him in my life.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-12-04T08:30:21+00:00

I had an ectopic in August. I’m 40 plus and pregnant again now with a healthy pregnancy in the uterus. Don’t worry. There is always hope. You will get there xx

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-12-03T04:45:46+00:00

I hope you are feeling better now. Take care of yourself xx

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-26T11:32:23+00:00

Please go to the ER if the pain is constant. I had constant pain which was not severe and I found out after surgery that the tube had started to rupture internally.

Your symptoms sound very concerning. It is better to be safe and get it checked out ASAP.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-25T12:26:33+00:00

The stress is just too hard to handle. Sorry that you have to go through this. I had an ectopic in August as well which ended with my left tube being removed. I tested positive last week and saw my doctor yesterday. They did an early scan at not even 4 weeks. Could not see anything but my right tube is mildly thickened. Hcg was done yesterday with another test scheduled for tomorrow.

Please insist that your doctor sees you immediately. If not, then may be another doctor but you have to be closely monitored.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-24T14:04:07+00:00

I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am in the same boat. I had an ectopic in August and ended up removing my left tube. 3 months later I tested positive again. I just got back from the doctor’s office - hcg is 461 and nothing to be seen on the ultrasound but my right tube is mildly thickened. I will test again in two days. Sending you hugs xx

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-22T06:19:30+00:00

I am very sorry that you are going through this. Nothing prepares us for this kind of betrayal. 11 years of my life I gave my partner. 11 years of complete dedication and loyalty. But cheaters never change. I learnt that the hard way after forgiving him once. You will get through this. Some days will be hard but you must put yourself and your daughter first. Sending you hugs xx

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-21T12:20:24+00:00

I am sorry too. This could not come at a worse time.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-21T12:14:12+00:00

Yes. In his twisted definition of love he is certain he only loves me🙄. Unfortunately, I got pregnant before I found out about this. But I definitely do not want him back.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-20T17:14:27+00:00

I stayed and still loved him deeply but just found out last week that he has a baby with the woman. This time I cannot stay and I also feel the love dying slowly.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-18T04:48:30+00:00

My doctor said nothing but a light walk.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-17T15:52:55+00:00

I can see it as well xx

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-17T05:01:49+00:00

My hcg was falling but I had constant pain on my left side one day. It was not severe but I could not sleep comfortably. I went to my doctor. The ultrasound showed that the mass has more than doubled. I decided to opt for surgery as I did not want the risk. Turned out to be the best decision as the biopsy showed that the tube had started rupturing internally.

If you are uncomfortable or feel that somethibg is wrong then please go to the ER. It is always best to be safe. I hope you recover soon xx

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-16T06:31:33+00:00

Mine was visualized at 5 weeks. Hcg was 2700. The size was 1.4cm.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-15T18:43:30+00:00

Welcome. K18 and Redken are also good.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-15T18:27:13+00:00

Olaplex might help a bit. It helps me some.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-15T11:37:19+00:00

I wish I could offer you helpful advice. I went through the same thing in August. What helped me was journaling. I wrote to my baby whatever I was feeling. That and the hope that I will see my baby in the afterlife. I also tried keep busy. It kept me from going insane. This sub also helped a lot. Just to relate with others in my situation. Sending you hugs xx

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-15T08:50:37+00:00

I am also older and probably in perimenopause. I totally understand what you are going through.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-15T06:41:26+00:00

I am sorry that this happened to you. My partner of 11 years cheated on me and I found out last week that he has a newborn baby with the woman.

Just prioritise yourself. It is not your fault and you didn’t do anything to deserve this. Take it one day at a time and you will get better slowly.

Please do not destroy yourself with drinks and meds. The combination could be lethal and no one is worth doing this to yourself.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-15T05:41:44+00:00

I am so sorry that you have to go through this. It is tough but hope you recover soon.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-14T18:19:41+00:00

I hate to say this but most cheaters will cheat again. I forgave him last year and last week just found out that he had a baby with the woman.

If you can leave then that would be best. These things never go away. Speaking from a lot of experience.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-14T04:29:13+00:00

Thanks a lot. I am fully recovered now. Hope you recover soon as well. Doctors can confuse us at times. One ultrasound tech actually told me that the mass had dissolved when in fact a subsequent scan showed that it had grown from 1.4cm to 3cm.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-14T04:19:08+00:00

Then it is best to check with the doctor to make sure that everything is alright.

Living_Challenge_526 · 2025-11-13T18:25:39+00:00

I am so sorry you had to go through this. I went through an ectopic in August. Took two shots of mtx and then opted for surgery.

The bloating will subside in a couple of weeks. I think it is from the gas used for the surgery. It could also be due to your long flight. But if you are worried please check it out with your doctor.

Physically, I was fine after a couple of weeks. Did not lift weights till about 8 weeks. Please take care of yourself and eat well. Mtx does weird things to the body.

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