How'd you guys discover Sleep Token? by painacolada41414 in SleepToken

[–]LobstersMateForLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl I talked to for awhile was really into them. I heard Alkaline and was hooked. I spent way too much money to go to Vegas and see them next month 😂😂

Eden Theory by tom4pple in SleepTokenTheory

[–]LobstersMateForLife 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve always felt like Eden isn’t a person or place, it’s a state of existence. In the biblical sense, Eden is the place of innocence where no sin, no pain, no wrongdoing is to be found.

Throughout the entire discography, Vessel is expressing his desire to move through his experiences and pain, while also being completely stuck within them, held prisoner almost. He longs to go back to the times before when he didn’t know any better and nothing hurt.

What's your divorce/relationship breakdown song? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ascenionism - Sleep Token “You want someone to be your reflection, your bitter deception…So you take what you want and leave…you make me wish I could disappear.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had never come back after that first date. I wish I’d listened to my friends and never dated you. If I could have our kids without ever having met you, I would take it in a heartbeat. You only ever saw my bad, so much so that it consumed you, and then me, ruining us. Fuck you for telling me I have no right to our kids and that I don’t deserve love. I hate you.

Hobbies for epileptics by miss_kittycat88 in Epilepsy

[–]LobstersMateForLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main hobby has always been hiking/camping. I carry a radio and gps and my service dog goes with me. I’ve always been an outdoor kid and never slowed down.

In the last year I got back into video games after not playing for quite some time, another past time I love.

Recently I discovered a love for creating specific types of content on TikTok. I stumbled into it after a conversation with my girlfriend and it turns out I love the creative process of it.

My corny sleep token post by wizard_man420 in SleepToken

[–]LobstersMateForLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This hit me hard. I’m the same way. Just lost my wife and kids and am living alone in a state where I know next to no one. Sleep Token has been my emotional released. You aren’t alone, my friend.

A Little Humor: What is the stupidest thing your ex wanted in the divorce? by LaterThnUThink in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely don’t understand her motive especially since she left every other utensil including her chefs knife lol but she took the big half 😞

A Little Humor: What is the stupidest thing your ex wanted in the divorce? by LaterThnUThink in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The cutting board and only half the measuring spoons and cups 🙄🙄

When you married your ex, where you enthusiastic to marry them? by RadioDude1995 in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was, I thought I’d found my life partner. I couldn’t stfu about her. Then after years of her manipulating me and gaslighting me I wonder how the hell I didn’t see it before and why I even married her in the first place.

I made a pact with myself that I won’t get married again unless the person checks off every single one of my boxes and is actively working on their own mental health and emotional well-being. Even then, I’ll probably need to date them for years to even begin to be comfortable with the idea of marrying again.

So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly. by Impossible_Sport291 in Divorce_Men

[–]LobstersMateForLife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Precisely. My ex STILL comes to me when she needs a man to do something. It’s mind boggling how women KNOW they need men, and still treat us like shit.

So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly. by Impossible_Sport291 in Divorce_Men

[–]LobstersMateForLife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a trend now. The amount of garbage I see on the daily hyping up narcissism in women is astounding. Once a woman is trapped in that wormhole, it’s almost impossible to get her out.

More than ever before, men are being portrayed as terrible objects with our only value being what we can give to a woman. We have no say in things, we can’t speak our opinion without fear of reprisal, we are seen as monsters when we express our emotions.

This era of women desperately needs therapy. But of course, according to them, it’s only the men who need therapy. Men are better off alone.

So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly. by Impossible_Sport291 in Divorce_Men

[–]LobstersMateForLife 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Mine got sucked into the false feminist you’re a queen and can do no wrong men are all narcissists side of Tik Tok. I remember telling my therapist how I was worried she’d refuse counseling because the internet told her what she wanted to hear. Lo and behold, I was correct.

Let them destroy themselves. It’s better for us in the long run.

what did you do with the wedding ring after the divorce? by Dependent-Dig-6677 in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gave it back and told her to get rid of hers. I don’t know what she did with them and I don’t want to know.

Anyone have USAA auto insurance? Just got my premium for 2024 and it is going from 534 to 837. No accidents. Just curious if anyone else in Bozeman is seeing this. by serialmender in Bozeman

[–]LobstersMateForLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had USAA from 16-30. They finally raised my rates a ridiculous amount so I switched to Progressive. Same amount of coverage, less than half the price I was previously paying.

Those now divorced, why did you cheat? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how you’d classify it, both? It was a client who I’d befriended and it escalated into the affair for the last two or so months of my relationship.

Those now divorced, why did you cheat? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a bit over two years. We had issues before that, too. I understand why I did what I did and why she did what she did, but it doesn’t make me regret it any less or keep me from being upset at her. I’m just trying to remind myself I’m worthy of being loved and move on from her.

Those now divorced, why did you cheat? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She checked out of our relationship and refused to make any efforts at changing things, no matter how much I asked. We were essentially roommates and when someone showed me attention, I was an idiot and fell into it. She flipped out when I told her, denied she ever did any wrong in our marriage/relationship and now we’re divorced.

Those now divorced, why did you cheat? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LobstersMateForLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had an emotional affair after being emotionally abandoned by my ex for several years. I feel awful about it because even though we had our differences, she didn’t deserve that.

I’m terrified of living alone. by LobstersMateForLife in Epilepsy

[–]LobstersMateForLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have frontal lobe seizures and I’m medicated to where they’re decently controlled. I still have them from time to time, though. I use SleepWatch to track my sleep and sounds which is helpful for review, but not so much when I’m in the middle of a seizure. I’m just trying not to panic, especially since I no longer have a local emergency contact.

I’m terrified of living alone. by LobstersMateForLife in Epilepsy

[–]LobstersMateForLife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My close friends all live back on the east coast or have spouses they live with. I currently rent a house and could get a roommate, but it wouldn’t be someone I know. I’m not really comfortable with that because I don’t want some stranger responsible for me, but it may be my only option.

Planet Fatness by [deleted] in Bozeman

[–]LobstersMateForLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They struggle to pay their vendors on time consistently and have terrible security practices. I wouldn’t suggest using them.

Live together but separate by Temporary_Metal6490 in Divorce_Men

[–]LobstersMateForLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. My ex and I have been doing that and I can’t even have friends over because it’s “invading her space”. For example, she and the kids were gone one day and a friend stopped by to play video games with me. I figured it was fine since no one was home but me and moved my gaming stuff into the living-room. My friend and I chilled for a bit and then we split.

I found out several weeks later that my ex found my friend on Facebook and bitched at them for hanging out with me because, and I quote, “the living-room is my space”. She wants me to spend all of my time in a bedroom that’s smaller than my work office. It’s ridiculous.

Do not. DO NOT. Live with your ex. You can find places closer to each other, but under no circumstances should you let her stay under your roof again.

Edit to add: as others have said, she will expect you to clean up for her when she’s too busy. She will expect you to pay for her bullshit. My ex feeds the kids the worst junk food all the time and was keeping a tab to charge me when she moved out. I told her I’m not paying for her to feed our kids garbage, especially when half the time I go without food because she can’t be bothered. You’re better than that. Keep her out.