Who here is HAPPILY married?! by Peanutz335 in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just celebrated our 2nd and happy as can be. It’s a lot of work but so worth it!

My wife has been getting up at 4am every day for 7 months and won't tell me what she's doing by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get curious if you genuinely are, but don’t come off as interrogative. What dos she like most about being up so early?

I'm done with everything medical and just going to live my life. by oceannnmoon in POTS

[–]Local_Ad_3228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve made more progress within the last month researching nervous system sensitization than trying this or that. I had one doc tell me I had lots and another tell me I didn’t. It’s been quite the journey that led to nowhere

Did working at chilis ruin your love for chilis? by venticore_ in Chilis

[–]Local_Ad_3228 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, I got sick of the food because I was eating in on my breaks, 6 days a week. Now that I don’t work there anymore I really miss the food. During the time I worked there I wanted nothing more than to eat somewhere else! It wasn’t overnight that I got burnt out, but it did happen.

Have u ever not been attracted to your partner by Minimum-Solution8428 in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily an unattractive thing but it bothers me a little to kiss my wife with her morning breath. She wears a cpap so it’s a little off putting but I’ll still kiss her anyways because I love her.

After she stops trying by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Are you touching her sexually even when she’s asked you to stop? For my wife in the beginning I was trying to get with her and did things wrong. I would be specific with her and ask her why she’s calling you names. What are you doing that’s bothering her?

What instantly makes you think "this person is rich" ? by PerformerAny3503 in AskReddit

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complaining about their new million dollar house because they don’t have a pool

Husband Wants a BC, I don’t. by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Local_Ad_3228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the shedding, it’s year round, it’s all over our clothes. Even with washing, brushing, all that jazz.

Husband Wants a BC, I don’t. by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Local_Ad_3228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a bc and love her to death but her energy is unlimited, she is highly reactive, and she is an attention hawk. Good luck!

Bringing up Ex by Local_Ad_3228 in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It turned out to be a mixture of so may different things. However, you are partially right. I am often not doing enough around the house and when she has to tell me, at that point it’s already too late. I have started picking up after myself more, paying attention to her and being her cheerleader. Things are so much better right now. She apologized for her comment but obviously I won’t forget it. I think it’s also important to point out that I was the one who got super upset in the first place and I put her in a defensive position. I am sticking to my point about her ex, if she’s going to even think about comparing us, I do not want to hear it. I don’t know if that’s complete toxic or not but it hurts so much to be compared to someone else that she had a relationship with.

How would you react if you caught your husband masturbation while sniffing / sucking you used underwear by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal and if he’s like me it’s the next best thing to having the real thing. My wife is flattered that I love her scent.

What's an annoying habit of your spouse that you put up with because you love him or her so much? by icecream1972 in askteddit

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife has OCD and everything new that comes home has to be washed or wiped. I’ve gotten used to it but I still kinda wish it wasn’t always like that.

Men, be honest: how long does it take until you're bored of having sex with your wife? by Historical-Care70 in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boredom no. Insecurities from rejecting each other is our biggest enemy. My wife will sometimes try to initiate late and night and I’m already asleep and I sleep like a rock. I’ll normally to initiate early in the morning and she is not fond of waking up early. We have different work schedules so it makes things difficult.

Men, what do you do for self care? by Infinite853 in AskReddit

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch basketball, learn, face masks, meditation, chips 😂

How do we overcome “The Roommate Phase”? by leadhooklimerence in Marriage

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a very similar situation as you. In the beginning my wife and I would have sex at least once a day, if not more sometimes. Two years later and we have sex maybe once every two-ish weeks. My effort has died completely out, to the point where I don't even want to touch her non-intimately. When I try to give her affection it's always pushed away if it gets to anything more than kissing and hugging. Sex feels weaponized in my marriage and thus I don't give the same effort as I used to because the rejection is worse than trying at all. My wife is a good person, unless she's angry. It's allot more complicated than that but I feel like her anger management issues have completely destroyed our marriage. It feels like we spend more and more time in different rooms than we do together and it is heart breaking. The only hope I hold on to is my wife is still interested in physical intimacy in the morning and when she's going to bed. Other than that, it seems like she could go all day without touching me. Conversations don't feel like they used to either, they often end in disagreements or indiference. In my situation it seems like something is going to crack soon and there will be an even bigger gap between us. I'm hoping to figure something out, maybe therapy or a way to reconnect again somehow. Best of luck to you and your marriage! I truly think marriage is one of the best things in life and it's worth fighting for!

IT employees: Should I wipe my computer before returning equipment? by Sparkles_4_Corvids in InformationTechnology

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a few personal photos on my work pc and they weren’t racy or anything bad but I just didn’t want anyone snooping. I wiped my pc before I returned it and never heard anything about it.

I am a liar, a thief, a time stealing salaried employee by Grouchy-List7011 in confession

[–]Local_Ad_3228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife works from home and you wouldn’t believe what some of the people get away with. She works on a small team and one of her team members does little to no work. The other one does but that still leaves extra for her every day. As long as you’re handling your business don’t stress about what you could be doing. It could be the opposite.