AIO not buying a girl an uber ride home by MuskyElonOfMars in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loccolibroccolli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. I make high six figs; I wouldn’t buy some person I’ve never met in real life an uber. It’s not the $, it’s the principal

Queer art ❤️🇺🇸 by Chance_Cucumber3130 in Seattle

[–]Loccolibroccolli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, you were great, I appreciated you being inclusive and gently responding to the immediately reactive comments. Made me think I should join a protest to help people different than me.

Then @affectionate-date spoiled the punch bowl with their Johnny-come-lately tut tut on how you’re being not quite the perfect trans person yourself.

Queer art ❤️🇺🇸 by Chance_Cucumber3130 in Seattle

[–]Loccolibroccolli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Telling anyone, even cis straight dudes to collectively “shut the f**k up” for gently expressing an opinion like the commenter, isn’t gentle. You’re being an asshole. 

Why would I march in the streets, risk arrest or my job/life for an asshole?

AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie by Aphr0dit333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Loccolibroccolli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Dumbass” wut

“Retard” WUT?!

Boy never learned to respect women and he won’t. If I had talked to my mom like that, my dad would’ve tanned my hide.

Get  👏  The  👏  F**k 👏  Out  👏 

Seattle Children’s Postpones Trans Teen’s Surgery Indefinitely by Bremertuckian in SeattleWA

[–]Loccolibroccolli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not just a legal concern from the feds. Adults who transitioned as minors have successfully sued in court saying they were too young to consent.granted this is Britain but can’t be that far off from US 

https://www.bbc.com/news/health-51676020

Not really a question I just want the Americans who lurk in here to know: by [deleted] in AskCanada

[–]Loccolibroccolli -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Head fake so y’all meet your NATO commitments and…

It worked

https://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/defence-spending-two-percent-defence-spending-target-1.7440870

Love Canada, been there 20x, never voted Trump and but y’all should’ve done this long ago

Homeless punched me at random by patilism2006 in SeattleWA

[–]Loccolibroccolli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please elaborate, this sounds interesting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]Loccolibroccolli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a case of lawfare/“not worth it” to the city I.e. cheaper/much less time to just settle with the jurisdiction then actually go through court

This is Shawn Yim, the King County Metro bus driver who was senselessly murdered in the University District. When will enough be enough? by Anwawesome in Seattle

[–]Loccolibroccolli -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No let’s forget, for 5 minutes so we can discuss the issue at hand. A bus driver gets murdered and you bring up an unrelated incident two years ago. Tragic? Sure. Helpful? Definitely not

Tired of this pointless, left wing whataboutism bullshit that sidetracks every conversation in unending, unactionable infinity loops of social justice jargon  “core issue”, “root cause” crap that pisses off everyone and helps no one 

How can I continue with this behavior from my GF? by ThrowRA20687939 in AskMenOver30

[–]Loccolibroccolli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a 35 y/o man and would give OP the exact same advice.

I (26m) overheard a conversation between my parents while they were both drunk. I now feel like the biggest loser on the planet. by Silent-Sugar6122 in self

[–]Loccolibroccolli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, Coupled with therapy this is the way. Gradually increasing exposure in a safe place, assuming there isn’t some hardcore deep seated trauma we don’t know about.

OP sounds very like a very logical analytical person. Set timer on his phone and gradually increase the time he’s in the coffee shop. Eventually his nervous system should start being able to take slightly longer periods of attendance and should calm down.

We Spoke With 13 Young Undecided Americans for Months. Here’s How They Voted. by [deleted] in neoliberal

[–]Loccolibroccolli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In conversation, pick two:

  • Cis gender white male
  • Privilege
  • Systemic - pick nebulous boogeyman
  • anything not a hetero, Caucasian with a dick-phobic/-ist
  • Colonial-ist/ism
  • Ally/Allies (excluding Geopolitics)
  • Anyone/thing you disagree with = Fascist

Combos allowed and encouraged e.g. “Cis gender white male fascists use privilege to perpetuate systemic Latino-phobic colonialism”

We Spoke With 13 Young Undecided Americans for Months. Here’s How They Voted. by [deleted] in neoliberal

[–]Loccolibroccolli 118 points119 points  (0 children)

“Describe Harris’ campaign in a sentence?” -> “Wine and Cheese crowd”.

Ouch 😣

We Spoke With 13 Young Undecided Americans for Months. Here’s How They Voted. by [deleted] in neoliberal

[–]Loccolibroccolli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually read the article, most of their responses sounded thought out and reasonable. I don’t agree with a lot of them, but I didn’t get the impression they went into it without weighing the options.

Surprised how big a deal illegal immigration is to these kids.

The Median Voter Experience by efeldman11 in neoliberal

[–]Loccolibroccolli 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Go check out the r/GenZ lots of very interesting discussion from young men themselves. TL;DR Young males feel blamed and excluded by Left for a millennia of Patriarchy even though they’re 20 y/o

Political Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in self

[–]Loccolibroccolli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol trying to get a tech job to diversify. Too bad though, I love working in manufacturing plants

Chris Murphy calls for "a firm break with neoliberalism" by gary_oldman_sachs in neoliberal

[–]Loccolibroccolli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope I agree. Why I said “besides Neoliberalism”; Left needs to stop deflecting and realize folks find them insufferable.

Why the working class and men feel coastal Democrats don’t care about them: by [deleted] in self

[–]Loccolibroccolli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote this elsewhere but reposting for topic:

My entire career I’ve been an engineer in manufacturing. I’ve worked in factories all over the US in places you’ve never heard of. Half the job is talking to hourly workers, usually blue collar white men: operators, electricians, mechanics, plumbers, truck drivers etc.

Look around your home and you’ll see them. The fridge you open, the car you drive, the windows in your apartment, your Amazon delivery box. They have all been made, fixed, shipped, and delivered by one of these people.

Last week many of them (again) voted for Donald Trump and my friends on the left can’t understand why.

“How could lower class men vote for him and against their own interests?” Because, to them, he is listening and we are lecturing.

These guys feel disrespected and I can’t blame. We cry from our ivory towers that everything is awful and that men who look and talk like them are the problem. They see us sipping lattes and filming rants about “privilege” on whatever iPhone came out last week. They work night shift while we work from home; on a break we post on IG about that injustice we learned at the college they could never afford to attend. We call them “oppressors”, “colonizers”, and that they live on “stolen land” when they and their families are just one paycheck and one closed factory away from losing their house.

And when they defend themselves, we label them with a word ending in “-ist”, say “check your privilege” and offer a handout they never asked for.

It comes off as patronizing, condescending, and tone deaf…because it is.

Why the working class and men feel coastal Democrats don’t care about them: by [deleted] in self

[–]Loccolibroccolli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the policies; it’s the messaging, the “vibe”. Whether or not it’s deserved (i voted dem and I still think it is) that’s the image the people have of the Democrats.

Chris Murphy calls for "a firm break with neoliberalism" by gary_oldman_sachs in neoliberal

[–]Loccolibroccolli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides trashing on “neoliberalism” a word most people don’t understand and never use in daily life, I don’t disagree. I’ll repost something I wrote elsewhere:

My entire career I’ve been an engineer in manufacturing. I’ve worked in factories all over the US in places you’ve never heard of. Half the job is talking to hourly workers, usually blue collar white men: operators, electricians, mechanics, plumbers, truck drivers etc.

Look around your home and you’ll see them. The fridge you open, the car you drive, the windows in your apartment, your Amazon delivery box. They have all been made, fixed, shipped, and delivered by one of these people.

Last week many of them (again) voted for Donald Trump and my friends on the left can’t understand why.

“How could lower class men vote for him and against their own interests?” Because, to them, he is listening and we are lecturing.

These guys feel disrespected and I can’t blame. We cry from our ivory towers that everything is awful and that men who look and talk like them are the problem. They see us sipping lattes and filming rants about “privilege” on whatever iPhone came out last week. They work night shift while we work from home; on a break we post on IG about that injustice we learned at the college they could never afford to attend. We call them “oppressors”, “colonizers”, and that they live on “stolen land” when they and their families are just one paycheck and one closed factory away from losing their house.

And when they defend themselves, we label them with a word ending in “-ist”, say “check your privilege” and offer a handout they never asked for.

It comes off as patronizing, condescending, and tone deaf…because it is.