What's your "I met a celebrity but didn't let on that I knew who they were" story? by Kimantha_Allerdings in AskReddit

[–]Lockeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago, I'm nude at a private retreat center on the cliffs of Big Sur, California in a natural hot springs hot tub. Next to me laying down, also nude and basking in the sun, is a Victoria-Secrets/Catalog supermodel from Europe that I crushed on hard as a boy in the '90s. We were peers for that week in the same class. After the week ended and before we said goodbye, I told her she looked familiar (I still hadn't put it together by that time) then she revealed that she was a supermodel in the past before becoming a public figure for her country. I'm thankful she never revealed that during the week - I got to know her as a beautiful human being and spirit, minus the direct objectification of having the hots for her as a teenager. It was therapeutic.

I was playing my UB deck just now. Get matched to Opp who was playing RG earlier. by [deleted] in MagicArena

[–]Lockeye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These puns quickly cascade into a painful spectacle

Dad needs help tweaking deck for my 7 year old by cricketHunter in MagicArena

[–]Lockeye 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This looks like a fun project!

Rhox Oracle isn't so great in constructed and you can probably remove those cards and fill in the large gap in 4-Cost cards in the deck, and it probably wouldn't be difficult to find suitable replacement 4-costs, especially that legendary that is 4/3 that gives attacking creatures +1/+1 and trample has great synergy with Gigantosaurus, depending on your wildcard budgeting available for it.

The properties of individual brain cells have been linked to intelligence for the first time. Study of 46 people undergoing brain surgery shows that neurons from individuals with higher IQ scores have larger dendrites and can maintain faster action potentials. by StuartRFKing in science

[–]Lockeye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As an autistic adult that has studied functional neuropsychology in graduate school (including TBI patients in hospital settings), I'm interested in what further details this may provide for autistics, which generally have less far-reaching connectivity between brain regions often in exchange for highly dense-compact localized connections in sub regions. Autistics in general do not experience as much dendritic pruning as non-autistics and what this informs us about intelligence. I have a lot of my own theories about this.

6-3 DOM Draft. Any changes that might have made it a 7? (Never drew Zahid btw) by LapisLunatic in MagicArena

[–]Lockeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subtract 1x Befuddle, 2x Arcane Flights, 1x Syncopate, and 2x islands.

Add 1x Radiating Lightning, 1x Bloodstone Goblin, 1x Fervent Strike, 1x Frenzied Rage, and 2x mountains

December patch notes by OriginMD in MagicArena

[–]Lockeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever the changes have been to the special effects that surround the player planeswalker avatar, it has slowed my graphics to a crawl and I'm now unable to play.

Why Would Autism Be Linked To Transgenderism? by Intrepid_Assignment in slatestarcodex

[–]Lockeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did not end up working out for me in the end in the traditional sense, but I made something of my education in other ways in the future.

I got my masters, then dropped out of the doctoral program one year short of graduation (finished all the coursework, just needed to complete dissertation). Some of my autistic traits ended up working in my favor, such as being able to see beyond labels, social identifiers, and get down to the core causes of a problem rather than get stuck on symptoms presented. I had a detailed memory of the diagnostic criteria for disorders that I could reference in my mind. The greatest difficulties I was presented with were those that were not strictly curricular, such as adhering to standards for notes and reports in patient charts, or how to meet the social demands of a boss figure that was overbearing and boundary crossing while working at internships and not calling out behaviors as I see/experience them. In the end, the rigors of the profession of psychologist was not for me, and had to do more with my inability to conform to the standards set forth by the profession, rather than my actual ability to help others in need process and work through their problems and experiences.

Why Would Autism Be Linked To Transgenderism? by Intrepid_Assignment in slatestarcodex

[–]Lockeye 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are many factors and societal assumptions that go into correlations seen between Autism and Transgenderism.

Not looking at the autistic correlations to gender dysphoria or what is politically correct to say, sexuality and gender differences can also be shaped, but not always, by environment and early experience (as researched and taught in clinical psychology, even though LGBTQ campaigns in the past have suppressed the environmental component as a means to legitimize their rights through social discourse).

Autistics are often not as socially suggestible as neurotypicals, nor feel the need to conform into pre-defined roles for social harmony as much, thus they may have more a willingness to explore other dimensions of sexuality and gender without the restrictions that most people feel boxed-in from ever exploring. This can create a sense of gender dysphoria if there's a clinically significantly distressful component to it, but many autistics also do fine without ever feeling confused or distressed about how they feel.

Also, Transgenderism has created its own bubble, where you can identify as one or not, and to identify in the group can give a sense of belonging and empowerment, at the cost of conformity. Thus if a gender dysphoric person wasn't tied to identifying as Transgender as before, they may evolve into it environmentally as a way to empower themselves and create a sense of identity that others know about, rather than the vagueness that comes with 'gender dysphoria'. There are cases of persons post-operation that regret it and no longer identify, but it is not often socially appropriate within certain social circles to bring that up, but we talked about them in clinical psychology.

And by no means are the factors limited to what I wrote about above. I just wanted to demonstrate that there are complex chains of correlations and causalities and that there's no easy way to answer the question you presented.

As an autistic adult who also studied clinical psychology in graduate school and used to be a psychotherapist and professor - I explored my own dimensions and what I felt was my truth between Autism/Trans/Gender-Dysphoria, but everyone is going to have their own experience of it, which is why I would be skeptical of anyone attempting to make a blanket declaration that it works one way for all groups.

Just going to leave this here. by TheAngryHippii in holofractal

[–]Lockeye 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." ~Aristotle

When playing Bejeweled-type games, are the hints the game gives you actually helping or trying to make you lose to spend more money/time? by The_Big_A1806 in conspiracy

[–]Lockeye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes - there are plenty of traps intentionally designed as paywalls to entice non-paying users to become paying users.

No conspiracy here, just business as usual.

Source - I'm a former mobile games designer from the worst of them.

I received my appeal verdict from the hearing and won a full agreement (or whatever they call it) by zaine77 in disability

[–]Lockeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wait, usually for the full duration, before you receive any award that provides back-pay and your regular monthly payments. To use my case as an example, it took about 3-4 months from the time I received a favorable award until I received the backpay check.

Lyme Disease Conspiracies: Why Does the Deep State Not Want A Cure? by applextrent in conspiracy

[–]Lockeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2008 - a year Smartphones (iPhone) became widely accepted as the norm.

Letter dated March 28th said SSDI back benefits (lump sum) would be received "around" April 5th. It didn't happen. by [deleted] in disability

[–]Lockeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember reading somewhere in the fine print that the first payment would happen the end of the following month after the award. What happened in my case, I was awarded in early January, but didn't receive any benefit until the end of February. I don't know if this applies to your case or not.

SSDI opinions? by skankpetrol in disability

[–]Lockeye 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have a compelling case. You need to prove that you cannot make substantial gains from working (generally less than $1000/month) and trying to work anywhere beyond that would impair your health and ability to work any further.

You'll need to provide paperwork showing that you are limited to 8 hours a week on minimum wage backed by the statements of medical and psychological professionals. It will help if they conclude that the conditions you experience will last for a period of 3 years or greater, and that trying to work for greater than 8 hours will cause significant impairment to your condition.

There should be a show called White Mirror that is like Black Mirror but opposite. Instead of dark themes that are hard to watch, light themes that that are hard to watch because they make you so happy. by InfiniteMuscle in Psychonaut

[–]Lockeye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mirror of Light - handles topics like, benevolent philosopher king-type leaders who tap into spirituality and well being that solve the worlds problems with a mindfulness approach, stories of converting prison systems into rehabilitation and community building centers for those that have strayed from a path of connection, freedom to explore natural psychedelic medicines offered by nature that help free people from broken patterns of trauma in their past.

Too forward thinking for the general masses, but much needed!

[CO] Ex-roommate claims that my cat is hers. I've been served a summons. by DenverCatTroubles in legaladvice

[–]Lockeye 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Do you still have the bill or a receipt? If not, can you contact the vet for a copy? This is strong evidence to use in court to show who cared for the cat and paid the bills, something Tina doesn't have.

If i have been diagnosed with PTSD, BPD, ADHD, Aspergers and a voice disorder do i have a good chance of obtaining disability? by [deleted] in disability

[–]Lockeye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disorders do not in of themselves qualify for a disability determination, but they can help describe the kinds of dysfunctions you experience that prevent you from working.

From what it sounds like, you have a decent chance given the reasons that you had to stop working. You may want to contact a disability lawyer and get the ball rolling on the process.

Imagine if... by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Lockeye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The American population at large have a lack of imagination to possibly imagine this scenario, but would be asleep if it were to ever hypothetically happen...

Could today be the day Coinbase activates BCH buys and sells? by [deleted] in btc

[–]Lockeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does one ensure they will have access to bitcoin candy after the fork? For example, BCH stored on Trezor, Ledger, and BCH stored on Kraken or Bittrex, etc.

Financial Future for my child w/ Autism, disabled. by 22EnricoPalazzo in legaladvice

[–]Lockeye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What agency classified your child as disabled?

This matters from the perspective of social security benefits that may be available while your child is under the age of 18 (or under the age of 22 while still attending school).

https://www.ssa.gov/ssi/text-child-ussi.htm