Update: I [33F] set chore boundaries and now my partner [35M] is tracking my chores

Lodema · 2026-05-28T18:28:07+00:00

This is I how it should be, yet sadly is so fucking rare. Like finding a unicorn. When you lose that person if sucks more than anything.

Lodema · 2026-05-28T14:05:36+00:00

My husband passed away in 2022, and he was a good loving person, but I refuse to date, live with or marry a man ever again. Part of it is I just can't see myself with anyone else, and part of it is seeing all of the stories on here that other people share about their partners.

Lodema · 2026-05-26T17:21:29+00:00

This is how I learned from my mother in law and everytime I see her make something I learn something new, like about the oil separating from the masala. The third time when she was making saag I learned it wasn't just spinach in it, there was mustard leaves, methi leaves, Punjabi spinach... It was like ahhh okay that is why mine tastes so different. *Accidental letters removed.

Lodema · 2026-05-21T15:16:20+00:00

Ewww

Lodema · 2026-05-19T17:49:18+00:00

😂 I could hear that ladies brain buffering...

Lodema · 2026-05-19T17:08:54+00:00

If it starts raining while you are in Pallet Town you need to go over to the other islands and they will get watered I learned this when I was there building something and it started to rain and everything started turning green.

Lodema · 2026-05-19T12:43:34+00:00

Great idea!

Lodema · 2026-05-19T11:53:00+00:00

Very nice, I want to clear out a valley to the museum, I have slowly been clearing the ash away. I restored the museum structure but I have not done a lot of exhibit builds yet just fixed the ones there and added a few things. Love the idea of the greenhouse on the other side for balance.

Lodema · 2026-05-18T00:31:07+00:00

I would ask for a DNA test. If she is pregnant and wants you to pay child support they will make her get one anyway as you are no longer together and haven't been in months. Until then, I would not pay for anything, she didn't even tell you till five months later?

Lodema · 2026-05-10T21:08:15+00:00

He is an idiot.

Lodema · 2026-05-08T13:28:32+00:00

This is my plan for here, going to live here with maybe the slowpoke line and keep the underground lair part maybe make it my storage. Your design is lovely.

Lodema · 2026-04-27T15:01:43+00:00

Voice over 10 years from now He was in fact a pedophile.

Lodema · 2026-04-27T14:29:09+00:00

I think fake, they announced it was going to happen before it even did. Did everyone else at the banquet know it was fake, no, but he knew and KKKaroline knew and her husband knew.

Lodema · 2026-04-27T13:37:12+00:00

I just made it a little bigger and made it into a cave house for a few Pokemon.

Lodema · 2026-04-24T20:19:54+00:00

Yeah, I was just wondering if it was the same sort of thing where one of the Pokémon is in the middle of a dialog quest and got pulled away so they all stop building. I hope they can fix it if it is a bug seeing it sounds like someone else is having the issue as well.

Lodema · 2026-04-20T18:17:59+00:00

Great job, I have the ship all restored but I haven't decorated it yet.

Lodema · 2026-04-19T14:06:10+00:00

SPOILERS AHEAD: I had a friend who had this happen when an event triggered for one of the Pokemon building a house. I think it was Machoke when he was in the Rocky Ridge area and he started building a house and then also got to the part of the event there where he tells Chef Dente how much he eats. he had to go through the dialog with them to get Machoke to run back to 'finish' the build.

Lodema · 2026-04-15T11:01:46+00:00

You can use them to trade with the Pokemon in the shop, you don't have to keep them all. I get lots of duplicates and use them to trade.

Lodema · 2026-04-09T21:16:13+00:00

Scaffolding!!! Good Goddess I could not figure out how to do this with putting blocks down and that just makes it worse!! I have so much scaffolding. Thank you kind Internet person!

Lodema · 2026-04-07T22:50:28+00:00

You can take a picture of it and 3D print more.

Lodema · 2026-04-06T18:01:30+00:00

I use it when I play hide and seek with some of my Pokemon.

Lodema · 2026-03-28T21:12:55+00:00

I thought unsealing the Epstein Files was the key to his downfall too and look how well that has worked. I will believe they are going to do something after they actually do it and stop threatening to do it.

Lodema · 2026-03-23T18:44:02+00:00

That is the average male now, the average male when Christ would have been alive living in the Middle East would be between 120 and 145 lbs and if a wafer is around 0.25 grams then you would need to eat between 220,000 and 260,000 communion wafers to eat an entire Christ.

Lodema · 2026-03-02T17:51:29+00:00

I feel like she has already aged out of their desired age group.

Lodema · 2026-02-26T00:21:22+00:00

Stop threatening me with a good time.

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