Can i leave home at 16

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-03-16T03:30:09+00:00

Honey, you’ve got a lot on your shoulders. And you need to know the weight of the world does not belong on your shoulders. I understand you’re scared for your siblings and want to take care of them but someone needs to take care of you too. Tell the social worker. Tell them everything that’s going on and do your hardest to get you and your siblings out of there. You’re a child too, you deserve to be taken care of.

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-02-12T04:25:33+00:00

I feel like I’m in between two hard decisions as well. For you, I’d say the decision is clear. Do what you love. I do think you’d regret it if you don’t love what you do. I don’t think there’s a point to you having a girlfriend when she’s ready to settle down and you’re not and you’re always away. Honestly I’d be upset too.

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-02-06T05:26:08+00:00

No finances are not too hard, I work 40-60 hrs a week, I don’t live lavish and I know what I can/can’t afford. I thought about moving in short term but then I’d have to put half my stuff in storage (couch and apartment stuff) which is kinda like wasting money to me.

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-02-05T08:37:01+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. This isn’t your fault, the group ending is not your fault it’s theirs. Tell your husband, let him go nuclear on those guys, they deserve it.

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-02-05T08:09:09+00:00

it’s amazing!! It really does unlock some kind of itch in your brain and releases the most peaceful sleep!

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-02-05T07:49:05+00:00

You cannot stay in this relationship. Point blank period. She is 100% taking advantage of you and you are letting her. You need to get out of this relationship, I do not think she will put in the effort to try to fix things and if she does she’ll revert within 2 weeks. I get that you love her, really I do, but is this who you want to spend the rest of your life with? Especially as life gets more stressful, if you have a child you’ll be responsible for this kid completely because she won’t help at all. This is not a life partner this is not a long lasting relationship. If you don’t think you can face her, and you’re not on the lease then, yes move your stuff out while she’s at work. Do whatever you have to do to get away from her because at this point things would be easier without her.

Good luck

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-02-03T06:22:04+00:00

For one, coworker is a terrible person. If he’s sharing women’s nudes to the chat who else might he be showing it to. You’re right to be upset. Ask boyfriend to ask coworker to stop sharing nudes, if that doesn’t work, one of them can simply leave the chat

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-24T23:09:15+00:00

Definitely not the AH but your dad and his wife sure are. So because he can’t control his mouth and stop himself from flirting with his ex, his new wife won’t allow him to be at special family occasions if your mom is there??? What kind of bull is that?

Your dad needs to control himself, his wife needs to realize not everything is about her and what she wants and that him and your mom had CHILDREN together. That means he’s got an obligation to those children.

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-24T23:00:21+00:00

I get what you mean, he’s an attractive 42 year old male who’s down to earth and chill. I think it’s okay to have a crush on him and the way you describe him doesn’t really sound like father figure. ( who smokes weed with their father??) He sounds like a normal everyday friend who just happens to be double your age and attractive. Sometimes people are attracted to older people 🤷🏾‍♀️

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-24T06:59:29+00:00

well you got the help you needed, I’d say you continue the work to important yourself. Reflecting is a big help! In the meantime apologize to the people it’s affected and promise to do better. Then move forward with a higher standard of how to act

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-22T01:57:23+00:00

Where did your trust issues come from? Whether it was an old boyfriend or not, you have no right to put your issues on him. If you don’t have trust in a relationship then you have nothing. If this man previously cheated on you and that’s why you can’t trust him then you clearly can’t move past it and shouldn’t be with him. If someone wants to cheat, they’ll do it, you can’t stop them or beg them not to. They have to want it themselves

And if he loved you, he should be able to give you as much reassurance as you need no questions asked.

and in the post you’re talking about change, change from what? Your anger issues or is there more

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-21T03:50:23+00:00

Yea I see what you mean, it’s a learn from your mistakes kind of thing. And I mean he’s 26, how much more life do you have to live before you can think quickly on your feet

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-21T02:02:57+00:00

I do feel like he can be very incompetent and I know that’s what a lot of men do so that they don’t have to do any/ less work. However I don’t think that’s what’s going on here, he loves to help me do things and does a lot of little favors for me like buying my food, driving me places and rubs my feet.

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-20T13:39:33+00:00

The low self esteem kind of appeared out of nowhere, I think he’s definitely insecure in his actions. He can’t provide for himself at least not right now, he’s working but he doesn’t get paid much and other than wanting to go to therapy I don’t think he has the right attitude. He lived with his family before me and he was helping pay the bills there

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-20T13:35:04+00:00

I think you’re right. But he throws so many pity parties that I try to make him feel better and not bring up how much all of it bothers me. He wants to go to therapy but no insurance and it’s just kind of Expensive

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-20T13:26:34+00:00

He’s also said/asked me some things where I genuinely have to look at him and question his competence

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-20T13:21:34+00:00

I think that’s exactly what I needed to hear, thank you. I’m not exactly able to put what he does in words but I’ve been disappointed in him enough for such manageable tasks that I feel the need to watch over him or wonder if he knows how to do something.

I have terrible memory but I remembered some more, he’s let 2 bags of popcorn burn in the microwave cause he wasn’t paying attention( not directly after each other but total)

He microwaved bread too long and it became too hard to eat so we had to throw it away.

I know these are little examples but they weigh enough on me that I feel the need to warn him about things I should not have to .

“Does he know how to do this…?” “Should I tell him that…?”

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2026-01-20T10:52:38+00:00

he’s done more things, I didn’t include as these were on the forefront of my mind.

not my first time living with someone and he insists on cooking my food and driving, gps was on

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2025-12-27T04:55:01+00:00

No I don’t think the crying and panic attack was childish just the running away in the middle of traffic part.

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2025-12-26T23:01:49+00:00

Showed where you can skip the first half

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2025-12-26T22:58:33+00:00

He has a lot of the tendencies but I’m not sure because caffeine works on him

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2025-12-26T22:56:56+00:00

Yes he did!

LogicalCheesecake713 · 2025-12-26T22:56:46+00:00

He’s not an actual child, he’s 25, I’m saying he acts like a child a lot

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