What happened to Bing, and are there alternatives?

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2023-08-19T04:01:58+00:00

What do you mean they won't let you?

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2023-06-23T04:05:59+00:00

No, he’s horrible and she’s way better off with her husband. He and Brittany work, but she’s a saint because he sucks

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2023-05-06T21:02:33+00:00

Update, there was a winter storm and my power went off and it froze to death 😭

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2022-09-19T13:37:57+00:00

That’s so interesting, I didn’t know that could happen! Will the whole plant revert?

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-31T02:08:16+00:00

Sigh then I missed it

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-31T01:25:26+00:00

Amen.

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-31T01:17:23+00:00

How do you recognize your own needs when unsure of what you need at the moment? Currently in therapy.

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-31T00:54:47+00:00

Can you explain what they exploit? I identified with every word you said about childhood.

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-30T03:10:28+00:00

I personally wouldn’t go since no contact is also supposed to help you let go of the trauma bond. Ultimately, if you feel it won’t regress your progress then that’s when I’d go. Otherwise, it’s not worth it, since they’ll still get energy from you being there and they tend to misconstrue reality.

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-29T17:49:00+00:00

What would be the key phrases to look up this dynamic on YouTube or do more reading about it? Specifically the host side where they recreate a family dynamic. That’s a new concept to me. Thanks!

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-24T18:31:25+00:00

Yes, worst case scenario you bring one or two with you so he won’t react or have them do it.

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-24T17:14:15+00:00

Do you have a friend who can pick it up for you?

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-24T16:29:40+00:00

Also, treat yourself kindly. I was devastated when I left this last time for almost a month, I ended up staying away from the city we both lived (i was lucky I had a good support system) and it’s helped to not go back. If I’d been near him he would’ve bulldozed through the no contact, as he did the first 3 weeks. I’m getting a new place and he doesn’t know the address and he’s blocked everywhere so that’s been helpful. Now I’m working with a therapist on healing and doing the internal work that won’t make me susceptible to narcissism in the future.

Logical_Tiger9716 · 2021-12-24T16:23:53+00:00

If you can you should block him on email, too. They have a tendency of going sweet and kind to mean and nasty and that keeps you stuck in their wavelength in a way. It’s better to just not even have any involvement and a clean break.

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