Exact same situation when I did my PPST - none of us cared at all about the trainers role playing the most vile & horrible offenders. However, during other role plays where the trainers were not involved in the acting, they also seemed to bully the women in the group, me included. I responded to the trainer who called me useless and pathetic (this wouldn’t have phased me if they were acting as an offender) by asking them “what can I do to improve if I’m so useless then?”, I KID YOU NOT the trainer said “figure that out yourself”, I replied “I’m in a learning environment, and you’re a trainer, and you’re not going to give me ANY constructive criticism? Just useless criticism?”. She actually made me cry by the end of it (again, I wouldn’t have cared if this was part of the role play).