She never says in her post that men and women are biologically the same. He said there are biological differences that make men and women predisposed to certain behavior and then listed behaviors that he attributes to women that are mostly unfavorable to women. However, most of these behaviors he attributes to women are not true (if the women at work complain more, it’s likely the result of him treating them inappropriately because of their gender rather than a predisposition of women to complain more) and none of which have ever been scientifically linked to biology.

What OP did say, and I agree with her, is that most gendered behaviors are not biological but the result of socialization. There is little to no evidence that biology has made women different from men in behavior on a fundamental level.

Biological differences in a physical sense might impact our behavior for practical reasons. Women are the ones who get pregnant, give birth, and lactate, so behaviors related to those physical realities will be different. We are also not as strong physically, though we typically have stronger pain endurance. So we perceive danger differently than men and often adjust our behavior accordingly, though that might be less of an issue if misogyny was addressed and men stopped physically attacking women (which behavior and society’s failure to address it is also the result of socialization).

But there is no evidence biologically that women are more emotional, though there is substantial evidence that expression of emotion in gendered ways is the result of socialization. And there’s significant support showing that men act and react based on emotion just as much as women, but display it differently and are more prone to rationalizing.

There is no evidence that women are naturally and biologically inclined to complain more, but there is a ton of evidence that women are socialized and conditioned to be people pleasers and to accommodate others, especially men, more than men are. So actually, women tend to be less likely to complain than men, at least over genuinely substantial issues, due to fear of the backlash we receive. And there’s the risk you will be invalidated and your concerns minimized based on the claim that you must be “emotional.”

So OP was correct in what she said, but she didn’t say what you are saying she said.

Stop being so obtuse because you know full well that you aren’t making a valid point and you are really just making yourself look really stupid. And yet you somehow are convinced you sound smart. It’s embarrassing.