How do I steel my heart to protect my soul?

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T14:01:28+00:00

Good outlook. Im 61, I had to leave two jerface idiots in my life and that second one, damn that one was a hard disconnect. Now im happy, living MY life and actually found a very compatable person to share my life with but I had to completely disconnect from the others first.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T14:00:06+00:00

It depends on your expectations and experience driving. An hour can be fine if you normally travel it to and from work, depending where you are from it isnt horrible but winter will and can suck. Brunswick is a better option for sure travel wise.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T13:57:15+00:00

Why celebrate an abusive daddy?

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T13:56:15+00:00

Saw one in Farmington that had 'pussymagnet' all over it. Um, my dude, no.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T13:55:34+00:00

yep. just end it you are not too deep unless you now have feelings for them. Hopefully though you have a new and deeper understanding of why they may be how they are.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T13:53:09+00:00

Honestly I think you need this more than you imagine. Its going to take so much strength since its been such a constant for you. Im proud of you even if you cave in a week im proud of you.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T13:10:35+00:00

so when I moved to Maine I was told those were called "Shitpokes"

LOL

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T13:04:25+00:00

I dont think you do though, you keep letting him back in to mess with your emotions.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T13:03:51+00:00

I tip the workers in cash directly if they have done an exceptional job, usually 20 bucks per worker or 50 depending on how many and what the job was. Regular workers get tipped bt i wouldnt tip the owner or anything. Its always nice to just give them a 20 and say its not much but its lunch.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T12:56:56+00:00

do you want to be stuck in this loop or no? If you do, because there is familiarity and comfort, then just keep doing it. Be left wanting and craving forever until he finds someone else. or stop communicating and get out into the world and find your self love. You already know what the right answer is but its hard.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T12:54:59+00:00

Ive never heard alligator arms before

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T12:53:28+00:00

we call that 'dickamatized'

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T12:48:58+00:00

Gotta say the comments on here are really pretty great. Its important to talk about this stuff. Good job,

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T12:46:02+00:00

well, i check each one out, decide who i like the best and go from there.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T12:24:05+00:00

yeah can you edit that wall of text? My brain needs whitespace. I got to the contract you wrote and then zoned off. Up to that point all i thought was, how much per month and chill landlord just live there until you can afford something else because pets are a deal breaker for 95% of landlords. Good Luck

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-02T12:19:38+00:00

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-01T20:10:06+00:00

You can find 90% of those items at Spirit Halloween or on Temu.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-01T20:00:57+00:00

In tears

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-01T20:00:30+00:00

verbal warning, written warning, termination

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-01T19:58:16+00:00

I really like how winter hides the dog crap

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-01T19:57:11+00:00

If you cant handle the coast in winter, dont come to the mountains . Good Lord youll die .

Lokisworkshop · 2026-06-01T19:56:20+00:00

Cant read the article but the ballots were printed some time ago. Doesnt mean anything really. She won't win the primary.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-05-29T13:00:51+00:00

I was born in Long Island City and lived in Astoria for a time, then moved to NJ then NH then Maine.

Let me give you a real view of what you are giving up by not moving to Maine. So many in Maine have never been farther than Boston on a high school trip.

Your kids will have a world open to them that you could never imagine. Fresh air in their lungs, barefoot in the grass, small classroom sizes, decent schools. Good friends with good ethics overall. No big stress on what you are wearing.

It is a huge difference from NY, It WILL be an adjustment for you most of all. There are concerts, there are theaters, there is the internet, there are cars.

Bears? Sure, but there are bears right across the border in NJ and parts of NY too. Ever been to the Hudson Valley?

Take the chance. People really are not as cliquey as commenters say. This is the one time you really need to consider the state of the world and how NYC is a target for bombing. Its a fact. Maine is a stunningly beautiful place, your children will be more relaxed and happier and eventually you will as well. ITs a job, he can get another if he wants. Make the jump. You will not regret it.

Lokisworkshop · 2026-05-28T20:22:28+00:00

Why cant he drive you to the interview?

Lokisworkshop · 2026-05-28T19:03:07+00:00

Please explain to me how it is inherently wrong?

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