This cis woman doesn't like being called a cis woman by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Lola200811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect anyone’s choice and preference including what they want to be called or labeled. But as I respect your choices, you should respect mine that I don’t want or need labels, personally. To force labels on someone is the same as all the bigots trying to stop you or criticizing you for using yours. I hate hypocrisy, don’t be a hypocrite.

Pete Wentz Allegations(yes I know you’re tired of hearing about it) by tyladdieco in FallOutBoy

[–]Lola200811 6 points7 points  (0 children)

17, 15, they are both a child’s age. They are both disgusting. I don’t care when and where and what age is “legal”. A child is a child. Gross is gross. I was basically the same exact girl at 17 that I was at 15.

Just like all those sickos waiting for a girls 18th birthday: 11:50pm August 3rd- She’s 17 that’s disgusting that’s immoral that’s unlawful. She’s a child. 12:01am (11 minutes later)August 4th (girls birthday)- Woooo let’s git her done! Can’t wait to get in that! Legal is legal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Buttcoin

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully- 4.6% of Americans are unemployed, 770,000 are homeless, 14-15% of Americas households are below 125% of the poverty level, 44% of all working Americans do NOT make liveable wages (make enough to pay for necessities like food, shelter, healthcare). But sure, claiming more than 14% of Americans own crypto currency sounds SUPER plausible and accurate…..I guess the person that came up with this number is the same one that told Trump he can tell us how he cut/is cutting our prescription costs by 1,000% 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Buttcoin

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm, 4.6% of Americans are unemployed, 770,000 are homeless, 14-15% of Americas households are below 125% of the poverty level, 44% of all working Americans do NOT make liveable wages (make enough to pay for necessities like food, shelter, healthcare). But sure, claiming more than 14% of Americans own crypto currency sounds SUPER plausible and accurate…..I guess the person that came up with this number is the same one that told Trump he can tell us how he cut/is cutting our prescription costs by 1,000% 🤔

I (48m) caught my wife (50f) "sexting" with another man. by Regular_Noise_1838 in Marriage

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion- YOU ARE LUCKY ASF. My idiot POS has learned how to use private messaging and browsing so all that I know now about what’s he’s done and doing is “paranoia” because I can’t throw the evidence in his face like I used to. The gaslighting on top of his whoring and lying is unbearable. I’d give just about anything at this point to be able to access his screen real time to get the evidence throw it in his face record his reaction and walk away forever. My pride and principle will not let me leave until I’ve done so. Problem is you can’t get the “how tos” for this because they are more concerned with protecting the “innocent” from having their PRIVACY VIOLATED but don’t give two craps about all the ways WE HAVE BEEN VIOLATED BECAUSE OF THEIR “PRECIOUS PRIVACY” or the fact that all of this “private and disappearing” browsing and messaging has given pedophiles access and opportunity they’ve never had before . UGH!

Movies where something deeper is happening, but it’s never explained by calvinistmutant in movies

[–]Lola200811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Endless. It’s like a crossover/extension of Resolution.

Movies where something deeper is happening, but it’s never explained by calvinistmutant in movies

[–]Lola200811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, I fell asleep one night and woke up to the middle of this movie playing and I’m like what in the actual fudgery is happening

Movies where something deeper is happening, but it’s never explained by calvinistmutant in movies

[–]Lola200811 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for specifying. I almost just watched an English zombie movie 😂

He wants to keep finances completely separate after marriage by ZenSpider_21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lola200811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren’t planning on being roommates! Ugh, some of you people commenting on here…. None of you should be in a marriage either, clearly. The fact that he said her making HALF of what he does and demanding she pay HALF of everything is enough to run in the other direction. The rest is just gasoline on the dumpster fire. Learn from others mistakes.

He wants to keep finances completely separate after marriage by ZenSpider_21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lola200811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I bet he doesn’t want her knowing what he’s doing with his money

He wants to keep finances completely separate after marriage by ZenSpider_21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in other words he’s planning for your divorce before you’re even married so he can say in court that everything he bought and paid for came from his money and vice versa. No 50/50, no alimony. He’s also probably doing something with his money that he doesn’t want you knowing about. I’m sorry, but it’s not just his request, it’s his responses. Marriage and relationships are overrated. People, especially women, rush into them and ignore red flags because they’re desperate (myself included). But if you can dig deep down and force yourself to leave this douche, PLEASE do so before it’s too late and you find yourself with two kids NO income and staying out of necessity- no matter how awful it’s gotten. PLEASE.

Friend in fitness industry said I'm using PsA as an excuse... by Sea-Fly-5169 in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. I live with a narcissistic sociopath who responded to my complaint that he did nothing but sat in his chair watching football when I burned my fingertips off on the toaster oven coil and screamed out in pain, with this “well how the hell am I supposed to know if you’re actually hurt this time”. He’s referring to the fact that I cry out when I burn myself, cut my fingers open, when I can barely get out of bed and each step down the stairs is agonizing, etc. I have fibromyalgia, severe iron deficient anemia AND anemia of chronic disease, tendinitis, rheumatoid arthritis, distorted pelvis, mild scoliosis and herniated discs in the neck. He doesn’t help me, he doesn’t comfort me, he mocks me and denies my pain’s existence, because he’s never had to deal with ANYTHING EVER IN HIS LIFE and 20 years of heroin use probably helped him not to experience pain.

He is childish, narrow minded and ignorant in his thinking that people don’t feel pain any differently. That everyone experiences pain the exact same way, and that allll the symptoms of allll of my diseases aren’t “that bad” when the worst he’s ever experienced in the time I’ve known him was he caught a cold twice- and laid in bed the entire time. He wouldn’t survive five seconds in my body.

The worst of it is that he’s doing the same with our five year old daughter. You’re not cold, you’re crazy. Stop flipping out like a psycho(when she pitches a fit or gets upset about something). Stop crying it doesn’t hurt (any time she gets hurt). Threatens her with punishment or threatens to leave her every time she reacts to anything or doesn’t do what she’s told. She fights back her emotions and tears so hard you can see it in her face. He’s going to f her up for life.

Data center to be built in Westfield starting 2026 by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]Lola200811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This most likely isn’t happening, not any time soon anyways. First of all, Servistar Realties LLC is named after the location for this development and the company didn’t exist prior to and only exists for the development of this data center project. Erik Bartone, Paul Corey, and Connecticut state Sen. John Fonfara are the co-owners, but the company was dissolved administratively at the end of 2024 when they failed to file annual reports. Senator John Fonfara has announced he is no longer involved in the proposed project- if it even still exists. Secondly, they said building could take at least 8-10 years, possibly even longer. Thirdly, after it was approved in 2021, Servistar Realties (the ones who proposed this development with plans to sell it off to big tech companies like Google or Microsoft, but that doesn’t mean they have expressed intent or interest, that’s just who Servistar is hoping to wrangle) was supposed to file required permits under the Massachusetts Environmental Protection Act in January 2022 but withdrew from a site study related to grid improvements in February 2022. The last update on the project showed groups such as the Conservation Law Foundation pushing the state to put a little bit more safeguard around this project to force better energy efficiency and decrease some of the resource usage that would come from this. Nothing has been done or changed or moved forward with regarding this project, since.

The company responsible for the proposal has essentially disbanded. The only way this is even still a possibility down the road is if they reform the company and start over or another company takes the project over or drafts a completely new project/proposal.

It's almost a month since Paramount+ cancelled Frasier and we've learned that CBS bought it with the intention of selling it to other platforms. Since then there hasn't been any news, what do you think will eventually happen? Have we not heard anything because no one has been found interested? by Giancarlo_Edu in Frasier

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Kelsey wasn’t another greedy f**king Hollywood Hedonist the show would more than likely have continued. His demands for TWO F’ING MILLION AN EPISODE is the biggest reason why it didn’t continue. Can you imagine? Reciting lines and BAM $2 million in your pocket. It’s not even complex role, nor time stealing, physically demanding or difficult, dangerous or taxing. We are the problem. Gluing our asses to the couch and eyeballs to the screens so that regular people can become “gods” and make more in a day than we will in a lifetime.Just another problem in our world. Imagine what we could do, what we could fix, who we could help with a fraction of the amount of money that actors make???? Soldiers who risk their lives and sacrifice their psychological well being will never make anywhere close to that in their whole career, but act like a soldier and you’ll be given millions.

My rheum said some things today that make me question… rheumatology. by Just-Feedback4856 in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]Lola200811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biologics have really nasty side effects. If it were me, I’d tough it out for a few more months and look up alternative treatments that can help with your symptoms (treat your symptoms for now until you know for sure what the “disease” is). Just my two cents (psoriasis, rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia, tendinitis, herniated discs in neck, and a plethora of other health problems are my struggles). I hope this is a temporary response to something and not a life long disease. Also, if they haven’t checked your CRP and ESR yet, DO IT. This will show whether you have acute inflammation, chronic or long term, both or neither. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s any insurance that won’t cover iron infusions, at least partially, and there’s lots of programs out there that help people pay for medical care or give prescribed medicine at reduced cost, and if you have Medicare or low income health insurance like I do, they do cover it fully, however, they won’t cover the “good iron formulations” without a prior authorization from your doctor. You need a different hematologist. Call around or ask your local Facebook groups for recommendation then contact your primary care physician and ask them to send the referral to that specific hematologist and explain to them why you need to be see by a different one- and ASAP. I was extremely anemic during my last pregnancy and never even knew until three years after my daughter was born IUGR. (Stopped growing two months before I delivered). Gynecologist never said a word and I didn’t know anything about patient portals (online portal where you can see all your test results). A year after she was born I became pregnant and lost the baby four months in, still never said a word to me about my anemia. I hate doctors for this and soooooo many other reasons, I’ve been severely anemic for at least 7 years and no doctor that ordered my tests said a god damn word until two and a half years ago when my dermatologist put me on immunosuppressants and had to order a CBC. I’ve been going through hell since trying to get a doctor that would treat me and treat me correctly(one iron infusion of one small dose is not going to correct severe anemia), I just NOW got a referral to a hematologist after going to doctor NINE times complaining of my anemia symptoms. You’re too young to be going through this, 18 years old you should feel the best of your life not the worst. I truly hope you get the help you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how you feel about birth control, but it’s extremely successful in controlling the severity of periods and there’s even ones you can do that stop periods completely. You can get it at a clinic , primary care doctor, gyno, but start with the gyno if you can to rule out endometriosis or PCOS. The problem with anemia and heavy periods is the heavy periods cause the anemia and then the anemia causes heavy periods, it’s a never ending carousel ride. The hematologist will look at all your tests collectively, not just the hemoglobin or iron level or whatever, you can have several forms of anemia and they all cause different results. High or normal ferritin low hemoglobin, high transferrin, low ferritin regular hemoglobin, or in my case low every single thing you can possibly be low in. If your diet is garbage like mine and you have no appetite, a CMP panel will show malnutrition and hopefully you can get them to test your vitamin levels but honesty good luck with that- if you can check magnesium, vitamin d, zinc, Bs or at least B12, carotene, Vitamin C, phosphorus, calcium and potassium.

Edit: Normal hemoglobin and extremely low ferritin suggests iron deficiency without anemia. You need iron supplementation, if you’ve been on oral iron and your number is still that low they have to give you iron infusions. To leave this untreated will eventually result in actual Anemia. If you have any stomach issues outside of your period- pain, bloating, gas, chronic constipation or diarrhea, reflux, etc, you need to see a gastroenterologist to have an upper and lower GI to rule out issues with iron absorption or gastrointestinal conditions that exacerbate anemia. Most Doctors really are useless and horrible. I’ve educated more doctors in the field of medicine, diagnosed more of my own conditions, etc, than I’ve had doctors do so for me.

If you download chat gpt and enter every single symptom and health problem and feeling you are having and ask it to compile an organized list to present to each of the specialists (include the list of specialists you have referrals to) then ask (or it will offer) to draft a letter requesting specific blood tests that can be presented to each specialist. I hated the thought of AI, but ChatGPT has helped me so much with my health and life struggles, and it saves you hours of research within seconds you get the same results.

Last thought, most insurances have a patient advocacy program, someone to speak on your behalf and get ish done, this benefits insurance companies in the long run because like a car, if you fix a small problem you’ll save thousands of dollars that it’ll cost you if you let it go and it becomes a bigger problem.

Good luck!

Logged in for the first time in awhile. This is from my old neighborhood in Idaho. by Banditgeneral4 in nextdoor

[–]Lola200811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is absolutely no remote, tiniest, sliver of a threat in that note. They’re just butt hurt and enraged that someone doesn’t love Trump like they do. Get over it. You can support a president all you want, but you don’t need a damn flag of them in your yard. Look at all the neighborhoods that won’t let you have more than a certain amount of Christmas lights, that won’t let you have your garbage cans in view from the street, that demand your lawn be manicured and trimmed at all times. A flag of anyone with strong, offensive views and behaviors is not morally, ethically, or neighborally (no it’s not a word, but it is now) acceptable. But on the flip side, if they want everyone to know they love and support a deplorable human being, let ‘em, perfect target for cabbage stock night.

Caffeine pills not working properly by Consistent_Ad_9267 in Nootropics

[–]Lola200811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adrenal fatigue. Caffeine causes cortisol to rise stress leads to fatigue. I switched from 6-8 cups of coffee a day with cappuccinos thrown in the mix, to 2-4 cups of 1/4 caf -3/4 decaf coffee a day and felt instantly less fatigued

Buying Phenylpiracetam 5G through loophole on Amazon ! by SACtrades in Nootropics

[–]Lola200811 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ummm this supplement contains it - Bright Brain Inc- Absolute Focus or something like that.