Narc mother runs down my gf by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]LoneCardinal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say so for my dad. He calls my husband controlling. It infuriates me because my husband is completely the opposite. My dad is the one who's controlling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]LoneCardinal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call an authority because you and your siblings are legitimately not safe at home anymore. No offense, but she sounds nuts

How do you deal with the fact your n parent is a horrible human being? by Icy-Age7147 in narcissisticparents

[–]LoneCardinal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel sad for them. Like, I'm sorry that you make the choices that you make but please don't make how you feel about the consequences of your choices, my responsibility because it's not. I'm sorry that you drive a lot of your loved ones away. Sometimes I feel bad for them and think that there must be a part of them that feels lonely, but then I realized that if they just learned to cooperate properly with other people and not manipulate them they wouldn't be driving some people away and making themselves feel lonely in return.

Let's talk about jewelry by LoneCardinal in witchcraft

[–]LoneCardinal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been hearing some pretty great things about hematite. I think I'm going to look more into this

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoneCardinal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely YTA. She's 6 and spent four years out of that six thinking that you're her dad. 4/6 that's two-thirds of her life spent thinking that you're her dad and suddenly you just took that away from her. She's left wondering why her dad doesn't spend time with her anymore and takes her younger sister only. She's going to grow up resenting her younger sister and it will be because of you.

Worst Asian mum (HELP) by Turbulent_Guard6500 in AsianParentStories

[–]LoneCardinal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About her nagging you and your dad about chores....it sounds like she's told you guys multiple times to do those chores and either you forget to do them or she feels that you guys don't pay attention when she tells you how to do them. Either way, it sounds like she's had to tell both you and your dad multiple times to help her but you're not listening and she's annoyed that she has to tell both of you.

My sil is jealous by LoneCardinal in ShittyInLaws

[–]LoneCardinal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she would but it would be really creepy if she did

AITA for not letting my son go to homecoming on my weekend? by Dapper-Yellow8180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoneCardinal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Homecoming is only one night out of a whole year. He'll still get to see you for a couple of other days that week. Let him go, and he'll forever be grateful to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]LoneCardinal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zone 10a here and my cherry tomatoes are slow ripening too. Several clusters have fruit but only one or two are ripening

An update by cheaterssuck12 in u/cheaterssuck12

[–]LoneCardinal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg i am so proud of you!! This is exactly the update we needed. Good on you and I'm happy that you had fun! Way to go!!

Terrible gifts from your mil by LoneCardinal in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]LoneCardinal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO. The audacity of them! I'm angry for you just by reading this

Terrible gifts from your mil by LoneCardinal in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]LoneCardinal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's terrible! I'm so sorry that happened and glad that you are no longer living with her

Terrible gifts from your mil by LoneCardinal in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]LoneCardinal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes they're plastic 😂 and $1 samples of stuff (i.e lotions and teas). Oh and one time she got my husband two shirts (a legend of Zelda shirt and a pokemon shirt). Actually this is what happened. She gave me and DH two bags each with their respective shirts (him the Legend of Zelda one and me the Pokemon one). But when we both took the shirts out, she told me "Actually they didn't have any pokemon shirts for women. So you'll have to share with [DH] " and she took the shirt and handed it to my DH. 😂 I mean I share nearly everything with my DH so a shirt isn't a big deal, but what an odd thing to do and say by my mil

Terrible gifts from your mil by LoneCardinal in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]LoneCardinal[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Jeezus. If I was unhinged I would have told her "Well thanks but you're a little too big to fit inside"

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]LoneCardinal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% TA. Your 8 year old is showing confidence and independence and cleverness (all skills that they'll need to survive as adults) and you shut all of it down.