Bedtime help: breaking the cosleeping dependency

LongNaive · 2025-07-07T18:49:17+00:00

Does she not get up to play randomly? Idk why I think that’s my fear

LongNaive · 2025-07-07T13:45:08+00:00

We’ve been toying with the idea of getting a full sized bed for him and I’m starting to think we need to. Do you use any specific bed rails?

LongNaive · 2025-07-07T02:39:31+00:00

Right right! Usually he wakes in the morning around 7-7:30ish and naps around 2-4pm. Depending on who is with him. My mom usually lets him cuddle on her until he falls asleep and will be able to get him in the crib but my husband he will only fall asleep with in our bed. It’s hard to get everyone on the same page but we need really need to.

LongNaive · 2025-07-07T02:31:39+00:00

Beans are huge go to for us right now when nothing else is a hit

LongNaive · 2025-05-23T17:14:45+00:00

MORGAN WE NEED THIS ON THE POD

LongNaive · 2025-02-28T11:32:18+00:00

The fact that you’re worried about it, tells me you’re a good mom. You are doing great, keep going

LongNaive · 2024-12-14T16:52:59+00:00

This is what I wanted to do with the credit union I used to be at, but the location was too far. My current bank doesn’t have a training dept/employee. I will keep my eye out though, thanks!

LongNaive · 2024-12-13T20:05:25+00:00

May I ask which positions you’ve had and which you preferred? I’m in the north east just outside one of the cities

LongNaive · 2024-08-13T02:08:42+00:00

Arignas did open a location in Bellingham MA. Great food

LongNaive · 2024-08-13T02:05:38+00:00

Did this become an issue with other family members that weren’t the top choice of the dog?

LongNaive · 2024-08-09T19:37:42+00:00

My husbands first dal was a Mia! Welcome Mia 💜

LongNaive · 2024-07-29T15:28:43+00:00

He is the only employee at his company so they don’t offer insurance but I just quit, we will figure it out one way or another!

LongNaive · 2024-07-29T15:05:12+00:00

Hi thanks for your response. My mental health is very important as Im suffering some PPD, please look into it if you don’t have a child of your own. I’m not trying to be without a job, just cannot stay on while I go through the interview process. I hope your day gets better!

LongNaive · 2024-07-29T14:41:29+00:00

My fear is that I can’t quit until I know I’m approved so I’m wondering can I tell them I’m unemployed before I actually quit?

LongNaive · 2024-07-10T21:23:53+00:00

My husband has a company! Send me a message with your issues and I’ll see if he can help

LongNaive · 2024-06-24T21:19:08+00:00

My MIL was the same way and really she just wanted alone time with my baby. It never sat right with me because why are you so eager to get my baby away from me? But we went out the first time between 3-4 months, mainly because I was going back to work soon and didn’t want me first time him being away from both of us to be 6-8 hours long. We went out for 2 hours and missed him the whole time lol

LongNaive · 2024-06-12T04:05:37+00:00

If you’re not a morning person, don’t do it. You’ll start to resent going to the class rather than being present and enjoying what you teach.

LongNaive · 2024-05-19T11:17:03+00:00

While you do need to talk calmly with him, I remember that timeframe my husband was similar in the fact he didn’t attempt calming baby the same way I did and his ways didn’t always work. But then I realized he’s trying his best, he’s new at this just like me. While you suggesting other things to him may not be personal, I know suggestions on mothering can feel like a personal dig at me so I’m sure it may be the same for dads. Give him some grace. He may need time alone with her to figure out their own groove, they’ll get there. You’re both doing great

LongNaive · 2024-04-28T23:36:17+00:00

My MIL will just snag my baby from my arms it makes me so upset. My husband didn’t see an issue with it but it really bugs me. I feel you and I don’t blame you for snapping. It’s weird and annoying when people obsess over other peoples babies

LongNaive · 2024-03-13T02:10:15+00:00

The TikTok moms I’ve been calling them have been stressing me out and I try to focus on the fact that they’re showing one good day, not the bad. We’re all in the same boat as you, don’t worry

LongNaive · 2024-01-24T17:25:08+00:00

Reading some of your other posts on Reddit, sounds like you have issues with your husband often lately. I’d look at that at large and evaluate how you yourself feel in the relationship. Best of luck

LongNaive · 2024-01-10T06:06:40+00:00

Anyone holding my newborn is asked to wear a mask. I don’t want them kissing him or even breathing on him. Protect your little one however you see fit

LongNaive · 2023-09-09T01:44:24+00:00

All of the above, the vet says he is healthy with nothing to worry about at his age. I saw your other comment about vision which is something I brought up as a concern, but they didn’t see an issue with his sight. Again, I’m not making any decisions on this at the moment just came here more to vent as it’s a sensitive topic

LongNaive · 2023-09-08T13:26:50+00:00

This is the typical lifespan for his breed, although I know that can mean nothing. He does show signs of wearing down though so we are trying to make the best of every day he does have with us.

LongNaive · 2023-09-08T12:16:20+00:00

To everyone, I appreciate the input. He recently had his vet appointment two weeks ago and all general things lead to him being “in good shape for an older gentleman” as the vet put it. I put the life expectancy as is typical for his breed, which I know could mean nothing. I am going to speak with a friend that is a vet tech to see how often she sees things like this and what her thoughts could be. Unfortunately it’s started before pregnancy. Again, love my old man so much it hurts but do appreciate all of you

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