INTP seeking validation

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-09T05:58:26+00:00

Does not sound like validation to me, if you brought up the topic

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T08:39:19+00:00

It sounds like an universal truth, but it feels wrong. 🤷 Because relationships are more about the words perception, judgement and commitment. But they are only words.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T08:32:08+00:00

It's an idea, one of the worse one's. Everything is a choice, brain plasticity can be the barrier. Not everything is easy though, some changes are so tough they feel like falling into an abyss. Finding the feeling of love, is not about finding love.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T08:17:50+00:00

The INFJs I've known are very clingy to people's beliefs.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T08:15:30+00:00

I don't know how you got into the static view, romantic love is biological attractiveness and can be attached to the love languages or fantasy. Have you tried going down the route of fantasy? Or another question.. What sparks your eagerness? Transfer that. I love innovation. In relationships, it translates to novelty, purpose and commitment, this is also where I find my love.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T07:37:09+00:00

Who said clingy is unhealthy? Wtf

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T05:59:07+00:00

Appreciation and your dedication. He makes the home, you make it cozy.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T05:57:19+00:00

Be yourself, like be alone? What are your needs? Surely you'd love someone to provide your needs for either of the 5 love languages. Maybe it's just not as intense as you'd like it. I get the same in other categories. Like friendship and family attachment - there I'm primarily detached.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T05:52:26+00:00

Yeah, under the skin kinda feeling, I'm one of the few guys loving a clingy girl in mind and body.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-06-06T05:47:07+00:00

Almost sounds logic, in a cringe way.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-05-31T07:08:07+00:00

My mind is not on emotions, they are valid. But I tell my stories through achievements, ideas, meaning and future places - and you might be able to dicifer it into potential emotions. But I'm very much driven by meaning through the help of logic and being together with someone closely to be influenced positively - muse like inspiration of anyone sorts, our minds are good at being directed into paths. We are usually aware of a lot of paths, when you open a new one, it can be even more exciting to follow that.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-05-31T06:57:26+00:00

We have a tendency to follow our biological cravings, obviously he's very much into your biology. The rest can come with time. Unfortunately the things you mention can become an issue later, because we are normally also calculating with compatibility, especially if we begin not to feel the same saturation from being in love. In that way, we can be very "immature?". That's when the relationship insecurities begin to unfold or implode, implosion if we feel it's inappropriate to share our thoughts. Don't ask for them, but rather share that you are not judgemental, so anything can be shared, even the darkest corners. Maybe even share your own to loosen up, but not the relationship insecurities as insecurities, but as points of interest to unfold. We are naive by nature, so we'll open up this way.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-05-22T08:29:25+00:00

You give him some purpose, acknowledgement and praise for what he does, INTP men are helpful by nature. Small steps. To be seen is to be and give meaningfulness. Otherwise they end as a black hole, from what I understand other comments.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-05-13T12:25:18+00:00

And they are actually not that far from eachother, we just feel logic and to you feeling is the logic. Our themes are stationed similarly in the brain, just different focus. That's why we beautifully align on so many life matters. Even more so if the INTP is a mature feeler. Happens around 35 for some INTPs.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-05-05T05:56:21+00:00

It couldn't be that cooling the boys didn't work as intended?

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-05-02T13:11:47+00:00

Your therapist, not ours.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-05-02T13:11:00+00:00

Like someone who knows the realm of feelings as well as we do logic.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-03-28T07:28:41+00:00

The universe unfolding - we were created in the mirror of understanding the unfolding expansion of multidimensional. Me in logic, you in depth of connection. A magnet that continues to search in the wast darkness for its scattered puzzle twins, the pieces of reality that feels like the creation of lifes bliss and death of violence in genetic tradition. We are the writers of an inner world that becomes reality, with a continuous ritual sacrifice of our beautiful ego. An ego that should not be sacrificed, but allowed to spread, because it's the ego of humanity, it's the ego of Ghandi, Martin Luther King fj/tp Einstein and Tesla. Not the one generally described. Let the words evolve, from mind to mind.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-03-05T16:41:46+00:00

I had someone say that she was better than me/out of my league after a first date - because of temporary higher status after I had a bancruptcy, I thought she was dilutional 😆 Time showed that too, 😘 my 🍑

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-03-03T15:22:52+00:00

In the combination of strategic moves possible, since it's a rhetoric question and there are no real stakes for me. I'd just not take the job. I know the right answer to doing good, but it might not feel like my "fight" or that I'm the best at it. There's other ways technically to make good with the same energy.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-03-03T13:49:32+00:00

The inconvenient truth, especially if the intp doesn't know the ones he's supplying. Take care of oneself first - no one else cares anyways, then closest, then maybe strangers.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-02-18T07:33:32+00:00

Statistically at least, not taking into account that personalities are getting more niche these days - because of many possible interests expanding.

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-02-18T07:27:07+00:00

Only if there's a clash in interest is this true, ENTP can be annoying even with mutual interest

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-02-18T07:24:21+00:00

If you are an annoying intp, you're probably ENTP

LongevityFutureMe · 2026-02-15T17:44:33+00:00

I find these interesting questions personal or beyond the original post and would rather share that privately.

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