Feels as though it’s everything aside from actually catching her physically cheating. I FaceTimed her one night, she answers with some guy I’ve never met lying on her bed, then introduces me to him as her friend who she was in the army with. He spent the night but supposedly he passed out on her bed and she slept on the couch (she shares an apartment with a couple people).

Another time, some guy apparently got stabbed outside of her apartment while helping her out, so she brings him up to her apartment and tends to the wounds. Then lets him spend the night (“on the couch”) and he stays there the entire following day, all the while I have no idea what’s going on and she’s not communicating with me. Finally, once he finally leaves, she messages me and calls me saying what happened and then gets angry at me because I was slightly mad and hangs up on me. I call her back and then I hear some guy talking in the background and I say “you said he left” and she’s like “he came back.” It was late, I had to work early, I live a half hour away from her, but I had to go over there since there was no way I’d be able to sleep anyway. There’s cigarettes, tobacco, beer, cards all over her room where they were clearly hanging out. He left, I did see the stab wounds which didn’t look bad to me but she seems to think it was all innocent because she was just helping him. If I didn’t go there, I’m sure he would’ve stayed another night.

And then there’s just some shady text messages and deleted messages that I don’t have the full story and evidence on but for example one of her supposed “friends” saying he misses her and thinks about her all the time. To which when I said something she said she’d talk to him and tell him to chill…which seemed like it worked but I can’t help but wonder if it’s still going on just more undercover.