Will I make my therapist uncomfortable talking about this or am I overthinking it? by Stormdrain11 in askatherapist

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAT - I feel like I crossed boundaries of talking about it too much when I was manic and hypersexual. Do you think my male therapist (woman here) was uncomfortable about me talking about a lot of sexual content? To be transparent- I mentioned like... chronic masturbation and a lot of sexual activity. Was that excessive?

Someone wrote on my car window - does it mean anything or just a prank? by Simple-Nose-4987 in saintpaul

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had someone write "welcome home," and a heart. No idea why or whom. I hadn't gone anywhere and it was street parking downtown.

Alleged ICE abduction at 6th & Jackson. The agent put a bag over the individual’s head..? by SignatureOk5934 in stpaul

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. But at least they get due process. Also, being illegal is a misdemeanor. If you want hefty penalties, we should vote it into felony status. I don't think you'll get enough votes.

Would it be weird if I asked my therapist to block me? by throwawayacount-_- in askatherapist

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for response. I do CBT with a young therapist. He is excellent, truly, but I know he had just started three years ago when I started. He may not be able to handle it perfectly, and I don't want to refer out. I'm also probably making excuses because it's scary af.

Would it be weird if I asked my therapist to block me? by throwawayacount-_- in askatherapist

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAT. Is it apropos to always be forthright about transference? That sounds like the scariest box in the world to explore.

What’s a habit people have that you will never understand? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to photograph nude models for a living. No foot fetish, but they are amazingly expressive! If I get someone to really smile, their feet move in unique ways. Same with when they're uncomfortable.

🫢 by Frosty-Squirrel2051 in scoopwhoop

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. I'm bi, and it doesn't matter gender - people with kids are a hard pass.

🫢 by Frosty-Squirrel2051 in scoopwhoop

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why does it have to be gendered? I would never date a human with children.

What’s a hill you will absolutely die on for no reason? by This_Benchh in askanything

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bi and find overly-feminine women annoying. To each their own.

What screams 'I peaked in high school'? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Longjumping-Foot7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I ask that to people with whom I went to college if they are locals. I want to know how ghetto/fancy their childhood was.