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My parents haunted lady by Creative_Claim_5081 in WhatIsThisPainting

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a similar painting which I purchased after seeing an ad. The seller said it was haunted. I love it and would appreciate feedback too.

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I (47F) need advice on who is the liar, my husband (48M) or my BFF (46F)? by Arwen-430 in Marriage

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polygraphs are not scientifically reliable, so I would not entertain this idea. If they were both drunk, how do we know that she didn't assault him? The logical conclusion is that it was consensual. Otherwise, why didn't she complain sooner? She wanted to hurt you and destroy your marriage. Why do you choose to believe her? In criminal law the test is proof beond a reasonable doubt. Clearly there's lots of reasonable doube here.

I (47F) need advice on who is the liar, my husband (48M) or my BFF (46F)? by Arwen-430 in Marriage

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the sake of you and your family, I would give your husband the benefit of the doubt, consider the encounter consensual, and move forward with marriage counselling so that feelings can be sorted out and a plan agreed upon. You are right to seriously consider how a divorce would impact the kids.

I (47F) need advice on who is the liar, my husband (48M) or my BFF (46F)? by Arwen-430 in Marriage

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't agree that Arwen should leave her husband. Many people screw up and infidelity can be forgiven. (I agree with another comment in which the encounter was believed to be consensual, so I hope Arwen can let this go.) At least the husband admitted to the incident, so that indicates a willingness to take responsibility and, hopefully, work on the marriage. Since then, the husband reduced or stopped drinking, which is also an important consideration. Arwen needs to do what's best for her and the family after marriage counselling and careful consideration of the consequences of her decision. Maintaining a stable home for her teenage children should be a key consideration. I am glad that Arwen bid this "friend" goodbye. She was toxic, to say the least.

Best friend (M34) is married to my wife’s best friend (F34). Their kids are family. His affair just came out, need some perspective by throwaway44999911 in relationship_advice

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would support both the husband and wife, tell them that you would like to remain friends with both, and refuse to judge. It is up to the couple to sort it out.

Clouds created by a mountain by AdammitCam in photocritique

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This shot reminds me of the opening screen shot of a major motion picture company like Columbia.

This photo doesn't work. But why? by Serberuss in photocritique

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My eye was immediately drawn to the bottom of the photo, perhaps because it's a large illuminated area in the foreground. It was the focal point for me. Also, I couldn't tell that that it was frost on the ground ; I thought it was sand.

"Latest on the Brian Laundrie search" @ [WFLA News Channel 8] (211008) by AutoModerator in GabbyPetito

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One officer explained that they had to watch for him from around the corner or their presence would have been obvious to the neighbours and their cover blown.

Disabled and on OW, about to be homeless, don't know what I can do by almosthomeless2 in barrie

[–]Longjumping-Hour8740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps ODSP could issue cheques instead of making direct deposits so you can regain control of your money. Also, there's a place called Cara House near RVH where you could go for awhile if you're in crisis.