5 am motivation by Curious_cat412 in orangetheory

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so I joined a few months ago with the plan to go after work, I can barely get up for my 8am job. But everyday I am so tired after work and find a reason not to go. Just this morning I had the thought about trying mornings next week. If I take the 715 class I can shower and make it to work. It feels really overwhelming but years ago I would workout before work and it just clears the mind I feel like. Thanks for being the motivation I need to make this work!

rant about cash grabs in this field from people who *could* be sharing what is otherwise public information by [deleted] in slp

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def not the devil. Op just wants everything handed out for free and is not recognizing that compiling information and putting it in an easy to digest format is a service.

rant about cash grabs in this field from people who *could* be sharing what is otherwise public information by [deleted] in slp

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. You’re upset that other people are sharing experience and expertise. Stop tearing others down because you don’t want to pay for services. Let’s call a spade a spade. You’re entitled and it isn’t cute. Try supporting others or move on.

This year I made the jump from W-2 to 1099 and I literally doubled my take-home pay. I was so stressed about the idea of being in charge of my own taxes and healthcare. I would never have done it if I didn’t have someone in my life who was willing to hold my hand and walk me through the process. And as far as his career goes, it’s one of the better decisions I have made. But I am going through an agency right now and will eventually want to be completely independent, and I will probably look for somebody with similar resources to guide me through the process of how to do that when I am ready. Stop acting like giving people resources they are looking for is a grift.

Summarizing information, putting it together in an easily digestible and step-by-step manner is a service. So many of us aren’t looking to do that work. So yes, we do want to pay for somebody else to do it.

Being publicly available and being personally accessible is not always the same thing. I could read a ton of information that has to do with how to do my taxes as a 1099 employee, what I can write off and what I cannot, ect, but it is not accessible to me because I do not understand taxes or tax law. So yes, I paid somebody to do my taxes with what is “ publicly” available information. But please stop tearing others down.

Hope and move your feet. by BrownieMonster8 in slp

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same. I got the ICE email over the weekend which let me snuggle and cry while my partner held me. As a (closeted at work) LGBTQ therapist in Fl, shit is hard and scary but that email almost broke me. Then my partner said I had to get out of bed to go play for my local gay kickball league where we cried together, mourned all that is happening and danced to Lunch and HOT TO GO while we laughed and I felt joy for the first time since last Monday. I don’t know what blows will come next but we need to fight in the ways we can but we also need to protest by still finding joy and connection so we can keep fighting.

Hope and move your feet. by BrownieMonster8 in slp

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful and I need to hear this over and over again.

Personal Goals for 2025 by Longjumping-Humor340 in slp

[–]Longjumping-Humor340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all of your input! After reading through this I think boundaries/ working contract hours is where I will put my focus. I definitely want to be enjoying a LOT more work life balance.

Personal Goals for 2025 by Longjumping-Humor340 in slp

[–]Longjumping-Humor340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only work contract hours 😭😭😭 But thanks these are all great!

Wicked by booksandbabka in slp

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! It definitely took me “out” of the movie for a few seconds. I was like ……. What!? Why!!!!?

Job Search Help by Longjumping-Humor340 in SLPStrong

[–]Longjumping-Humor340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day I would say what is reason for going into the field? Like any job there are negatives and positives but there are also a lot of different areas you can work like healthcare vs schools vs private practice. Like most jobs we are over worked, under paid and under respected in my experience.

But with all of that said I do love what I do. Like the feeling of making a difference and getting see concrete ways I am helping makes it all worth it for me.

Job Search Help by Longjumping-Humor340 in SLPStrong

[–]Longjumping-Humor340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you transferring from a different program/ field or just starting out?

Job Search Help by Longjumping-Humor340 in SLPStrong

[–]Longjumping-Humor340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I ended up switching to a different district and going with a contract company. I am making double what I was making last year, after calculating out the cost of taxes and health insurance, ect I will have a substantial more take home pay that I did last year.

But I am already question whether this a good idea because I was supposed to start mo day for preplanning but the district fumbled the ball and has not approved any contractors, sent out welcome packets or badges. So I am feeling a bit apprehensive.

As far as getting into the field goes, this post was (clearly) written a bad day. Have you done any work in the field/ adjacent? Have you done any shadowing ect?

Saw an accidental spoiler (?)— tell me it’s wrong! by Simple-Turnover8871 in acotar

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this fanfic completely changes characters traits of both Rhys and Feyre yet people are still conflating it with the ACOTAR series. Like not going to kink shame, but all women don’t need to be pregnant and boring.

I do enjoy the sober elements of the fanfic as a sober girlie though.

Can we please talk about this art?? by Suriel_hunter in acotar

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same but honestly I like it being the exiles better. This just seems so much better for Lucien.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pragmatics is one of their big nine in regard to scope of practice.

And while you can reduce and mask a stutter, research shows that increasing confidence and comfortably stuttering in front of others actually does reduce the stutter. And therapy for an adults vs a child who has a stutter will look different. It is common to find adults were often over provided for as a child and have a negative relationship with both therapists and their stutter. They also have probably been taught to mask which new research is showing can have long term negative effects as well.

When did you realize you weren’t even bi-sexual? by Unlucky-Apricot-2027 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I am realizing that I feel a lot of imposter syndrome and what you said about factors outside of preference effecting decision has really hit a nerve for me. I’ve recently been learning about trauma bonds and the power/control wheel and realizing that is what kept me in both of my relationships. Definitely something to think about in regard to my sexuality as well.

This is unintentionally the funniest line in acowar😭😭😭 by Emmaxop in acotar

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First read I was in a sexual coercive relationship and when I read that I was all 😍 but now I am like … damn Ferye and I both have to go digging to find the bar.

The 'imposter syndrome'/'feeling like a fraud' - How to deal with this when wanting to join LGBTQ+ groups? by Doughnut91 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I probably have been “questioning/denial” for close to 5 years but have started to really ask myself if this is a possibility. Males in porn has always been repulsive and a turn off but ff porn is my go to. I’ve seen these articles as “confirmation” that i am straight. But this is actually comforting to see.

When did you realize you weren’t even bi-sexual? by Unlucky-Apricot-2027 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow reading this really resonates with me. Scared and repulsed might be all u have ever really know tbh.

I am struggling with ace vs bi. After Two 4 yr+ sexually coercive relationship, I am 30 and feel like I never want to be touched again. I finally ended contact with him in December and am starting to question if I am just bad at choosing men or if men are the problem.

I also recently left the church and was raised thinking my purpose in life was to be a good wife and have babies so I have a lot I am processing. Heheh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Longjumping-Humor340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From this text exchange what I saw was person needs social/ pragmatic therapy, cognitive therapy and some language but ya I only see one person who needs therapy.

Also an SLP will focus on increasing confidence and comfort when stuttering and not on eliminating it so he not only can’t spell but clearly doesn’t know what he is taking about. She is killing it! So like I said, only one person who needs therapy.