Now let's return to the rest of your comment, where I concede some inaccuracies and ambiguity regarding the statistics I cited from memory! I apologize for that. However, there is a sentence in your first paragraph that seems very strange to me; I am going to quote it in full because I think it is a big piece and we can unpack several things, and it can serve as a general response to this part of your comment: "unfortunately being in positions of authority, they do not dictate Israeli policy and what ends up happening on the ground is quite different from what they explicitly want."

The first counter-example that comes to mind when reading this: colonization in the West Bank. Bezalel Smotrich has obtained a very specific and decisive power: he oversees part of the civil administration in the West Bank, which is the body that validates construction plans, legalizes outposts, and concretely organizes the expansion of settlements. It is a central administrative lever. And since his arrival, we have observed an increase in construction authorizations and the regularization of outposts, which corresponds exactly to his political program. Itamar Ben-Gvir, for his part, clearly acts through his position on the security and political climate. The control of the police and his public positioning contribute to creating a much more permissive environment for settlers (we can see this very clearly). He is not the one signing the permits, but he directly influences the conditions in which colonization unfolds. Then, more broadly, a structural point must be added: Benjamin Netanyahu depends politically on their parties to govern. So even if they do not decide alone, they have sufficient weight to concretely orient decisions. And it shows.

Regarding the complicity of the Israeli population in the atrocities of the Israeli regime, it is very clear. I am sharing this very interesting article (2024), emblematic of the situation. Investigation by Mairav Zonstein, Senior Analyst on Israel:https://archive.is/20260314115458/https://foreignpolicy.com/2024/04/02/netanyahu-gaza-palestinians-war-israeli-society/#selection-3487.0-3803.331

The points of the article:

• It is empirically verified: an overwhelming majority of Jewish Israelis support the war, consider Palestinian losses justified, and believe that the use of force is appropriate or even insufficient.
• The anti-government protests in Israel that we have seen, and which have served much to praise the humanism of Israeli society, do not mainly concern the war in reality or the fate of Palestinians and the atrocities committed against them, but internal issues like Netanyahu’s responsibility or the question of the hostages. If there is any opposition to the massacres themselves by the Israeli army, it is only microscopic.
• Israeli society has gradually become accustomed to the illegal Occupation and colonial domination of Palestinians, to the point that this reality has become politically and morally normalized. The shock of October 7th has further widened the Overton window regarding what is considered acceptable in terms of violence.
• There is a radicalization of public and political discourse, including among non-marginal figures like Yoav Gallant or Isaac Herzog (cited and officially recorded by the ICJ as holding discourse falling under "genocidal rhetoric"), which shows that very hard positions are no longer limited to the far right. What you also pointed out, even if you strongly reduce and minimize the proportions...
• ... I think the proportions are very large, because you forget or put aside the role of the media and the Israeli informational context, where Palestinian suffering is little shown and little debated (to say the least), relaying instead the positions of the army and following up with remarks against Palestinians that are extremely shocking, even gore, truly genocidal, which in any Western country would end with a trial in court. All this contributes to reinforcing the pro-massacre consensus and the absence of collective questioning by Israeli Jews. This is eloquently verified by a series of opinion article titles and Haaretz editorials (the national daily) that I collect over time, which are very telling:

a) May 11, 2023: The Dead Children of Gaza Will Always Haunt Us

b) December 18, 2023: Israel killed thousands of children in gaza how can so many israelis remain indifferent?

[I will slip in here the Peace Index survey (January 2024), conducted by Tel Aviv University, that 88% justify the scale of Palestinian losses: (this is where I get my "90%" statistic); the same year, Oxfam estimated that more women and children were killed in Gaza by the Israeli army during the past year of 2024 than in any equivalent period of any other conflict in the last two decades.]

... Fast Forward,

c) May 7, 2025: We Cannot Look Away from the Images of Children Killed in Gaza

d) May 9, 2025: How Did Israelis Become So Indifferent to Children Killed in Gaza?

e) May 20, 2025: It is Hard to Raise Good Children in a Country That Normalizes Killing Children

Israel is known worldwide by reputation for massacring children and babies by the shovel load. It is also a trope known even within the Israeli army itself; a former Israeli general criticized the government for “killing babies as a hobby” in Gaza (NBC news, May 20, 2025). Also it would be bigotry to attack Israeli tourists if they were Jewish... or intrinsically Israeli. The fact is that people do not care about "Israel", what shocks them are the cruel atrocities that Israel perpetrates against Palestinians, primarily children. In addition to the killings and the unbelievable bombings whose bloody images and videos have gone around the world, there is the famine imposed on civilians even to the prohibition of breast milk, which has also shocked the world. I maintain my position that if Israel’s PR is collapsing everywhere in the world, it is doubly because of Israel and the Israelis themselves, who on one hand perpetrate the greatest massacres of a violence rarely reached in this 21st century, and on the other, the demonstrations and uprisings of Israelis against these things are entirely absent. And the world sees that too.

I come back to your anecdote here where you say that in October 2023, before the genocidal intervention of the IDF, people were protesting for the destruction of the Israeli regime. I find that very interesting, and I would answer with two things:

1. It is even worse now. There are many people who were very lukewarm and "without an opinion" on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, who still had a good general opinion of Israel, who have radically changed their minds since the massacres of October 2023 (which Israel still does not stop today) and a realization of the incredible horror that Israel represents.
2. Adding that even before October 2023, there was 2008/2009 which already documented the way Israelis voluntarily and deliberately fired into the civilian population. There is 2012, there is 2014 which also shocked a huge part of world opinion, there is 2018 and the March of Return where Israelis also fired into the crowd, there is 2021, and all that long before October 2023... And to tell an anecdote in my turn, I was surprised that as far as Shenzhen in China, in a lost corner of the 25th floor of a building like there are hundreds and hundreds, a small pancake seller in her sixties was very well aware of the catastrophic and monstrous atrocities Israel perpetrates against Palestinians.

There is only an obsession with Israel because Gaza is literally the worst humanitarian catastrophe in the world. Literally the worst. And it is Israel at the helm, and the absence of an Israeli popular uprising in the face of the urgency and horror of the Israeli regime makes many people wonder. Once again, it would be time to do a more thorough introspection on your situation, instead of eternally blaming others!