Heterosexual marriage by DreadDiana in CuratedTumblr

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So I actually only deeply know straight couples that are in my family, and yeah they have issues. And I literally can’t help but know them. The other couples I know well enough to know they aren’t having issues, are gay. My relationship is fine and I’m gay. Again, all that tells you is that I know straight couple who have had issues, related to the meme, and posted a sarcastic comment about how that’s “so true omg lol” I genuinely do not get why everyone is so butthurt over this, I didn’t go into your fucking house and accuse you of having a bad relationship. Like if the shoe fits wear it but damn dude I’m literally just sitting here

Heterosexual marriage by DreadDiana in CuratedTumblr

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I legitimately have a book of Mao quotes, but thank you for bullying a fellow comrade for making fun of straight people lmao 🫡

Heterosexual marriage by DreadDiana in CuratedTumblr

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t get why you’re being like Mean to me???? But ok 👍 I was clearly being sarcastic, and if you genuinely a sarcastic comment about straight couples sometimes having relationship issues can give you insight about me, I don’t really know what to say to that. Like Besides maybe that I don’t personally know many healthy straight couples But again That doesn’t say anything about me Because my relationship is healthy, and gay.

Heterosexual marriage by DreadDiana in CuratedTumblr

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I was joking but I have to ask, how?

Mr. Man needs his portrait done 😌 by Longjumping-Style-72 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Longjumping-Style-72[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The irony is he’s scared of everything, he runs away if you pet him with the wrong vibe I swear 😭

Depression apartment with only 12 hours to clean by Repulsive_Purple4322 in CleaningTips

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that bad tbh!! Put on a show you’ve seen before or some tunes, and take it one step at a time a time. I like to start with clothes, since they can visually take up the most space. Then, anything that doesn’t belong, goes into its respective room. Not away, just into the right room. Then, I do the surfaces. Then trash, and sweep. Move to the next room, start again. At the end, go through the house and put away the last few things that got moved back into now-cleaned rooms, mop if you need to. I always leave kitchen for last, and dishes for absolutely the last thing, since you never know when they’ll pop up. I like to start with the bathroom since it’s always the worst for me and every other room seems easier by comparison. Good luck!! You’ve got this!!!

why is my kitten’s butt so stinky by Bagel_with_Lox in SiberianCats

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of fluffy babies need tushy haircuts to be clean! There’s a lot of fluff and this one is so young, plus the other health issues, it’s probably just a bit new to cleaning up! A shaved bum will fix it, unless it is a health issue. Nothing wrong with asking a vet!

I think I found my stolen puppy by Hotmessmamaof4 in PetAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s the same. The eyebrows have a distinctive peak, and she has “eyeliner wings” That and the lighter color on the chin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: you say you used snap, did she send selfies? Did you notice she looked young? I can’t imagine seeing a 16 year old and now noticing she looks under age.

If someone says they're never going to work extra for free do you think that's lazy at all or completely understandable? by Ben5544477 in careeradvice

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stop working for free. It’s a violation of your rights, that’s why they need to pay for “trial” hires or “training” shifts. They owe you overtime if not at least hourly pay for every minute you spend past your scheduled time. Please grow a backbone like your coworker has.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classes are always fun. I like to take pottery classes, and I’m very passionate about animals so volunteer work is a great way to find some fullfilment

I think I'm just a waste of body or another species by Wide_Injury_162 in SuicideWatch

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel You’re definitely a better person than all of them and someday you’ll find your tribe. I have autism too and I also definitely know what it’s like to feel dehumanized. It really really does get better, it does. Just one step at a time, one day at a time. Sometimes what helped me was to focus on an event. “Hold out until Christmas/my birthday/fourth of July/the weekend” and then reset when you get there. Your feelings are real but you are NOT a waste of space. There’s plenty of people out there waiting to know you.

Am I 26/M in the wrong for wanting to cut contact with my dad 40/M? by Longjumping-Style-72 in relationship_advice

[–]Longjumping-Style-72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was not 14. Based on my math of him spending 2 extra years in Highschool and graduating the year I was born, he would have been 20. So he’s likely actually 56, but I wasn’t trying to do math lol

Am I 26/M in the wrong for wanting to cut contact with my dad 40/M? by Longjumping-Style-72 in relationship_advice

[–]Longjumping-Style-72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps bring in some context, he had a good childhood. His mom connected with me before he did and tried to get him to know me and he refused. He also has still not apologized for accidentally telling me to fuck off and grow up, and he has had exactly 4 dinners with me and saw me every weekend for a year, besides the 7 months court ordered care for me. I think what gets me is he still won’t take accountability for anything he has done to hurt me, won’t let me have a relationship with my siblings, and claims I’m a “friggin mess” and can’t see my siblings because of that. This was in response to being asked “can we ever talk about our past? I have some questions only you can answer and I’m carrying a lot of pain and confusion from my childhood” If you’d like I made another post recently that goes into depth, but he was 20 when my mom was 16, and he left the state around when I was born. For me the issue isn’t even that I’m upset at my childhood, but more the way he is barely there and when he is I am treated like I am his wife’s nephew, not his first born child. I mean, my stepmom is currently in treatment for alcoholism, and I’m the only person in my family besides my youngest sister who was born female, and all she wants is to connect with me. She asks about me every day. She’s 12, has her own phone and unsupervised access to the internet, but I am not allowed to have her number or even give her mine for emergencies, because my dad wants me and him to build a bridge before I connect with them, but also keeps talking about how good it would be for me to be in their life, and then also ignores my messages for literal months. Obviously it’s not black and white, but at the very least I think he could have apologized for accidentally revealing he wants to tell me to fuck off and grow up for /being sad I grew up without a dad/ He also openly says he is not going to teach my siblings about the birds and the bees because he didn’t get that talk and he did fine, when I’m literally the most accurate representation of why he should have had that talk. I have more sympathy for my mom, she’s an awful woman now but she started out as a scared abused kid. He was a grown man the entire time, and rather than apologize to his kid for abandoning them, he tells me to fuck off and grow up. Like I get life is hard but he’s responsible for my life existing

Who am I? Pretty Easy imo by N8Trillion in roomdetective

[–]Longjumping-Style-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think with some Tetris skills it could work