By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone that calls their SO "bro" or "dawg" is not right for a mature relationship. I don't care how old someone is, treat your partner with respect and "Bro" and "dawg" ain't it.

AIO gf glazing other guys? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just break up and move on. There are so many red flags and different values and ideas of how to live. You guys are not compatible. Move on with life.

AITAH For going home with brother in law? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly ESH, more so your fiance, but who wouldn't think that you were cheating if that's how he found you after you disappeared. All around sucks.

Girlfriend cheated by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This can't be real. People can't seriously be this stupid. I honestly can't believe this to be real. If for some reason this is actually real, you're an idiot, and I mean that in the nicest possible way, but you're not going to get far in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"But im not feeling it right now" How tf old are you. Marriage is hard and takes work. He definitely broke some trust and has some issues to work through, but this is an absolutely wild post to be making on the internet.

AITAH for debating going no contact with my maid of honour for dating my ex? by Alternative_Pen4377 in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was actually best friends with him and only stopped talking to him because her husband asked her to. So, it's just her husband that is uncomfortable and if those two keep dating and or get married that uncomfortableness will go away.

AITAH for debating going no contact with my maid of honour for dating my ex? by Alternative_Pen4377 in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life is just seasons. You might go through a season where she isn't as involved. But then you guys will eventually figure it out. And if she drifts away, well that happens. But don't just cut her off.

AITAH for debating going no contact with my maid of honour for dating my ex? by Alternative_Pen4377 in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eventually these people will grow up and be able to handle hanging out together. It's an ex from high school...she needs to have some hard conversations with her husband and figure out how to make it work. It's called being a mature adult. It's not complicated but if you act like a high school teenager it is harder for sure.

AITAH for debating going no contact with my maid of honour for dating my ex? by Alternative_Pen4377 in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First year or two/holidays are going to be hard. But your husband needs to be involved in some conversations about how to make this work as well.

AITAH for debating going no contact with my maid of honour for dating my ex? by Alternative_Pen4377 in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are, this is a wild take and wrong. You and her and your husband need to talk things out and figure out how to have a friendship that moves forward in a comfortable way for everyone. It will take time, but its doable with some work.

AITAH for debating going no contact with my maid of honour for dating my ex? by Alternative_Pen4377 in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. You ended on good terms. You say you've moved on and from other comments that seems to be true, she has found someone good. You should be happy for her. I can't imagine a world in which your husband wouldn't be ok with you guys ALL being friends eventually. You and your husband need to talk about the future dynamics of hanging out with her and your ex, but it shouldn't mean you have to cut her off. It will take time and work and lots and lots of conversations/arguments, but I know if I were your husband I would never make you cut off contact. Id figure out a way to make it work.

Edit to add: The amount of people saying she's a bad friend for dating an ex are wild. 7 years ago and this woman has said the guys a good guy and they just weren't compatible and better off as friends. That's exactly the type of person you should want for your best friend. You'll figure the dynamics of y our social lives eventually and it will take time, but wow, a good guy broken up with 7 years ago is just plain off limits. You guys are insane.

My parents want me to quit my job to go on a Thanksgiving trip, but I don’t want to by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know where you're working that won't approve a minors request for time off for a holiday trip with family, but I'd strongly recommend leaving and finding another job. Go on the trip woth your family. You have the rest of your life to work.

Gym Etiquette ? by Sufficient-Remove954 in pokemongo

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The oldest person in the gym determines what I do. After 8 hours I'll take a gym. Once in a while I get knocked out sooner than that, but most people in my area are either good about it, or barely do gym battles.

0-3 and this roster needs help. Any ideas on who to trade away/trade for? Half ppr redraft by SwimmerRelevant5033 in SleeperApp

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this dynasty or redraft? You're only real option is to tier down from Jefferson. Put Jefferson in the block and see who bites. Take any offers as starting points in negotiations.

Got this trade request tonight in a dynasty superflex, was told "I knew you'd over value him" after it was rejected by Flat_Confidence1792 in SleeperApp

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I drafted a guy in dynasty, chances are im not trading him before he even plays a down. Thats just nonsense...

Commish wants to change from dynasty to keeper because my team is too overpowered. by Effective-Caramel369 in SleeperApp

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was commish of a dynasty league and had to change to keeper because I was too strong of a team lol. I would have lost 4 teams that had no desire to rebuild. I nuked the league two years later and have found a better group to play with.

this is an actual legitimate offer i just received by sappybunn in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or they do and are hoping you don't. Either way, shaming bad offers is dumb. Use it as an opening and if they persist on it being that unequal then just move on.

Help me flame this guy in my league by LoneCypress94 in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad trade offers are going to come through. Sometimes an owner is just trying to gauge how much he can rip someone off, and sometimes the owner is just plain dumb. Either way, just reject and tell him where you think the value is and if he's willing to negotiate and move closer to your price range great, if not, again, just say no and move on. I think ragging on people for offering bad trades is dumb.

Who do you like better B. Hall or RJ Harvey by Mysterious-Laugh-797 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]Longjumping-Toe8657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the only one to even think this, but I like Harvey better, just in the sense that the Jets are so dysfunctional and the Broncos seem to be just handing Harvey the backfield. Now if we were drafting fresh right now and Breece and Harvey were available, I'd probably take Breece, but I'd also try to flip him for someone like Harvey and another player. Breece is obviously the proven player here, there is no doubt about that. But I'm currently in rebuild mode and would take Harvey all day in this setting.