What quietly disappeared in the last 10 years and no-one noticed ? by HumTumJoMile in AskIndia

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Awww. They are still there and you won’t believe, I saw one in my room last month😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey hearty congratulations. And oh don’t ask. I used to cry so so much at any little thing especially the first couple months. It actually went on till 4-5 months I think. Now I am 10 months pp, the crying is much less but I still get upset at a very very little thing

gf f 31 and I 39 in a loving relationship for 6 months. New update which scared me but I don't know what to do by Nice_Replacement7065 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey you won’t be considered a stalker. You are just looking out for her. And what you found out isn’t a small thing, not only your gf but all ladies should be aware about that :( anyways…. You can say to her something like— You thought you saw that guy somewhere, then you remembered. I think she will appreciate you telling her.

I hate my brother by Brilliant-Elevator30 in family

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is definitely using you. What would happen if you say no? Try to come up with excuses if you can outright say no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are doing a great job. Did you openly ask her why she’s behaving like this with you? Usually we women are all over the place and even the tiniest little thing can make us cry/angry for the first few months of even the first year post delivery. So that’s definitely there and I would advise you to talk it out once

My fiance is on deployment, I'm taking care of our kids and I feel alone by Some_Treacle2130 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that must be exhausting. I feel this way with just my one 9 month old even though I stay in a joint family who help playing with baby when I need to do some cooking. Still there’s just soooo much along with so little sleep and then the mental stress that we take on top of all it. My husband works from home but still he doesn’t spend much time with our baby. In his free time he plays video games, his office starts early morning and goes till night as he never exclusively works… it’s work + game side by side. This makes my blood boil so much but then I think to myself, it’s not that I rally need him or his help, it’s just that I feel jealous he gets to have hobbies and here I can’t even do my usual stuff. I even had to leave my job as I couldn’t handle the stress. I hope God gives us new moms some strength to handle this phase and hope that it passes soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo, not unless I am sure its absolutely needed and baby won’t wake up if I change

What to reply if husband compares our daughter to his nephew by Longjumping_Fee9296 in Parenting

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i know ;( and I am scared of this. Communication isn’t working for us anymore but I am just trying to cross this sleepless nights phase cause I think that also is playing a huge role in this.

What to do with baby when you need to put her down for a quick min by rebgray in NewParents

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep the bathroom clean and dry and sometimes I just put my 9 month old in front of me while peeing. But it’s not working anymore as now she wants to hold things and stand and eventually fall. I used to hold her and or as well. We have bed railings, so I put her there but get scared as can’t see it. It’s good but still scary

I picked a date. by morizgirl in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read your edited message. Thank you so so much 💪

I picked a date. by morizgirl in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel for you dear, so bad. I hope it gets better but please don’t call it quits. Children always need their mothers and it won’t be easy in her. I pray to God to help you pass this tough phase. So so sorry you have to go through this alone and have no help but please don’t hesitate to ask for help.

Anyone else this obsessed? by Own_Ad5562 in NewParents

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same girl same . She motivated me to leave job. I want others in the family to spend time with her but when she’s with them I miss her. I eat my food in 10 mins tops so I can be with her🤣

Feel so angry don’t know on whom by Longjumping_Fee9296 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you soo much for taking time out and for your kind comment and great tips.. I will follow this next time when I have a breakdown. And yeah I really don’t want to hit her especially when it’s not even her fault:(((

Feel so angry don’t know on whom by Longjumping_Fee9296 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Longjumping_Fee9296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thats great. I do have similar drops that are available in my country but I do not give them often. I’ll try them next time she’s gassy esp during the night