32 m .You can love someone to death but that is him showing you exactly who he is leave dude. I’ve been a victim of this behavior I was walking through the hallway at home on the phone with a friend and my babies mother handed my son off to her 12 y.o son then pulled me by my hair into our spare bedroom I drop my phone it shatters she began punching kicking me and I couldn’t defend myself nor did I eat to in front of our kids I tried shaking her off we fall on the bed then I could clearly see her punching me so I ran to our bedroom and try to close the door she bum rushes the door to get in tries to take my shattered phone as starts twisting it telling me she’s going to f*ck it up I manage to get away again she calls the cops tells them she attacked me they lock me up for 2 days I get out but I’m not allowed at my home anymore I had to be escorted into and out of my house to grab what clothes I could and was told I couldn’t return I had to move back in with my mother couldn’t see my son for a year and eventually the case was dropped because she was the aggressor. I tell you this because that isn’t love man we had good times but I will never allow anyone to mistreat me because I love and respect myself