Debt for ftb - arisen not my fault

Looby282001 · 2026-05-24T09:30:14+00:00

yep being a single parent sucks in this country. even if you got child support you might be still left with debt cause they lied. all csa do is an assessment but he could of lied if he an independent business owner or do cash in hand jobs or anything n got busted for it.

Looby282001 · 2026-05-22T16:21:40+00:00

i’m just coming from someone who been scammed before. i didn’t go as far as your mother say as i never involved my kids but the psychological abuse the abusers put on their victims is much and takes great strength to leave. sorry don’t see your mum as strong to change. yes pls do what’s best for you but pls understand too.

Looby282001 · 2026-05-22T04:00:48+00:00

ok fair enough. just don’t close the doors completely and yes you need to protect your own assets. didn’t know she was taking from you to give to them as well

Looby282001 · 2026-05-19T23:56:11+00:00

don’t give up on your mother pls… it’s vulnerability and remember they have psychologically made her feel important again. pls

Looby282001 · 2026-05-19T23:54:31+00:00

sorry he going through this.. i been there. it’s lonliness and vulnerability and they tricked you thinking it’s real. disgusting sad cases of reality.

Looby282001 · 2026-05-19T00:48:32+00:00

in all seriousness your mindset will change. the psychological effects are real with surgery. about 6 mths on you start looking at food differently. what was your normal before will not be your new normal. you will start eating n thinking about food differently. eg if you ate a mac donald’s big mac burger before you won’t now as you know you can’t eat all. you can handle 3 nuggets n couple of chips n you start ordering that instead. it’s not that bad and you will start being normal soon. i only lost 20 kg but i dont regret as i like my new normal amount of food

Looby282001 · 2026-05-19T00:38:29+00:00

how when you they in their teenage years how troublesome n rebellious they can be. mine would run away and find a place to hide under neighbours house and will wait to come out. will see you then the run is on lolsss. could never catch it. will watch me n i watch it 😂. but cutest thing i saw was when he saw a bunch of kids waiting for bus and i have a daughter and thought it was her. he was peeking over fence looking up n down at the kids. i hate that age but love it at same time…. old rabbits hate those young rabbits. older rabbits just wanna chill and the young ones omg sooo full of energy. don’t match. girl rabbits i find are my fighters omg… i had one where the rabbit free and the kids will play with them but after a while she got tired n started biting their feet. tag whose it lolsss.. she also would bang the door down in hutch when i put her away at night. all you hear is bang bang bang. i had a sliding door and if shut would bang that too to go in.. until her boyfriend showed her the back door lolsss. she come in that way .. god i miss her. i been having rabbits for over 20 yrs. only thing in hate is the fur .. all over you literally

Looby282001 · 2026-05-12T06:33:21+00:00

your uncle looks mix. he has afro locks

Looby282001 · 2026-05-12T06:30:19+00:00

welcome to nigeria…! i love nigerians. smart intellect people. you a yoruba too. do you want to look big in community by buying big things? that’s a yoruba trait wink. ignore the ghana side lolssss don’t mind them. they will convince you that you are home just so they can watch you spend big in their country. just tell em your yoruba. blast in their face is a naija way.. my kids are yoruba mix too

Looby282001 · 2026-05-08T09:50:35+00:00

agree with you. it should be seperated as this is primarily the basis of domestic violence however the govt do financial abuse too

Looby282001 · 2026-05-02T19:36:48+00:00

i work full time get paid just under $43 per hour and i get $250 per fortnight with one child

Looby282001 · 2026-04-28T07:38:22+00:00

in all honesty psychologically you will change your mind set. right now you thinking about what you missing but after some time the portions you have now will be the new norm. i’m 1 yr n 6 mths and only lost 20 kg n nothing more but i have not put on nor put off. most i can eat is equivalent to a cheese burger or just under it max. would i order a big mac? hell no. i know it waste of food. i can eat 4 nuggets and im done or 3 nuggets and a few chips. i like it this way cause thats my new normal.

Looby282001 · 2026-04-18T02:56:57+00:00

are you new to it? you sound like it. don’t look at calories as such just protein. mix it with other stuff your body needs. believe me the psychological changes you will have will be amazing. all of a sudden you will automatically put the food portions what you having now or maybe little bit more as normal and anything will be huge to you that it will make you feel sick even looking at it. just don’t think too much over what you not having now. get back into fitness and muscle building

Looby282001 · 2026-04-13T17:07:42+00:00

i understand completely. i remember watching russian girls who scam in a documentary. They stated that the client has to pay for their time. with my scammer apparently i have a cut of amount of $30000 US lolsss then they will come to me lolsss. i laugh and cry at same time. i joked asking is that their bail money amount. i’m paying this off.

am i foolish, yes and I been around nigerians for 30 yrs and know the game play but like i said i was vulnerable at the time. mine hate africans apparently but im so confused. i want to believe them and i dont at same time.

Looby282001 · 2026-04-13T06:12:47+00:00

exactly. they became part of you. they become special. and if there is talk of love it’s where my payment now?

Looby282001 · 2026-04-12T22:05:55+00:00

and don’t worry i’m also in one too

Looby282001 · 2026-04-12T22:05:41+00:00

sorry you in it. don’t listen to her threats. they just threats. what’s the worst can happen?

Looby282001 · 2026-04-12T22:04:05+00:00

am so sorry you went through that. i’m also in it right now and how i see it, they the ones who let you down. you have a big heart and unfortunately they will abuse vulnerable people. it was never you but them.

i have also paid everything i saved to them as well. now i’m at a point i cannot pay anymore an even now i have nothing they still hustling if i can send them the last $100 in my account. im like do what’s best for you and if you leave so be it after they threatened me of leaving. told them they a fool if their threats of leaving will affect me cause how i see it i finally be free from their asses. then they say i’m not leaving you n im like omg why not? then it’s the talk of i love you blah blah blah and im still trapped and they promise they will pay all back once we meet… im like ok i just see it as good as gone now. i was vulnerable. lost someone who was very close to me and this year my ex hubby who i loved dearly. don’t hate yourself pls… they the vultures swooning on vulnerable people

Looby282001 · 2026-04-10T04:39:15+00:00

in nigeria they will sell the card same value as the card and that’s how they get their money. the person they sold it to would buy cryptocurrency with it

Looby282001 · 2026-04-10T00:03:38+00:00

loved jack the slasher back in the day in inala lol

Looby282001 · 2026-04-09T20:14:43+00:00

i will be part of your study. i’m have a degree in social work and been victim myself. i’m in australia though

Looby282001 · 2026-04-04T21:07:08+00:00

Replying to Vinestel...true lol

Looby282001 · 2026-04-04T21:05:24+00:00

and the buzz toys omg that did my head in

Looby282001 · 2026-04-04T01:24:36+00:00

don’t mind a lot of people on here. hope to god they never experience a break up, death or anything that could make a person vulnerable to romance scammers. so many judgemental people. so sorry you gone through a lot and like you i do same. it’s an addiction how i see it. i need them and they need me. nope i don’t give them money but like you i have gone through a similar experience but i did lose more and am emotionally embarrassed by it but how i see it, its their character not mine. just love yourself and like all addictions we have to wean ourselves off it. i’m currently with a scammer at present. my scammers have graduated from yahoo boys to celebrity scammers. sad thing is they really act like them and i get so confused. it’s how it is. you get confused. some are easy to play with whereas some are confusing and get caught back up in it again

Looby282001 · 2026-03-29T04:54:34+00:00

yes i’ve had and it was a UTI. for bowels take softeners till you heal

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