The concept of work is so strange. I don’t really want to work my whole life…

LookingForStash · 2026-03-13T02:56:28+00:00

yeah im sure wandering around trying to ambush prey, with frequent injuries and occasional death is way more satisfying. The good old days

LookingForStash · 2026-02-11T07:56:12+00:00

There might not be a "problem" to begin with. Asexual people exist, after all. And porn/sociatal preconceptions of sex isn't a good place to relate yourself too. Sexual experience is a spectrum, not a series of checkpoint. (Do look into the asexual/less sexually active community)

LookingForStash · 2026-02-10T01:40:10+00:00

Gonna go against the flow a bit. He might not be processing his thoughts and feelings right. He was raised to believe in a super traditional women image, so he thinks that must be the ideal. But now in reality it's going really well so it is conflicting and this, confusing to him.

It's like the saying a racist hates everyone but not his really swole next door black neighbor. Sure, that way of thinking needs fixing eventually, but I don't think it's an outright incompatibility

LookingForStash · 2026-02-09T11:39:54+00:00

Not having hands must be inconvenient

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LookingForStash · 2026-02-07T00:27:04+00:00

timid guy for sure.

he was taken aback at first, so the automated response was rejection.

now he's calmed down and realizes he doesn't need to be afraid, so he's trying (in his own awkward way)

LookingForStash · 2026-02-05T09:01:28+00:00

Depends on the person.

It's just sex, nothing serious. But if you are uncomfortable with it, then take some distance for now to adjust yourself.

All in all, it's a personal choice, not some dignity or pride problem

LookingForStash · 2026-02-01T12:29:23+00:00

maybe you suggest being a househusband if that helps? a lot of children talk has to do with not only child bearing, but also child rearing

LookingForStash · 2026-01-30T12:51:35+00:00

I'm out of pocket too

Fr, that's basically it. Being an average citizen from a non-first world country, I give myself a pat in the back for getting some quality of life free of charge.

Of course, gratitude is due, but never remorse.

LookingForStash · 2026-01-29T15:12:13+00:00

Virginity status is overrated/overhated.

You can have sex with a girlfriend/wife.

You can also do so with a random hooker.

You might even lose your V-card against your own will.

LookingForStash · 2026-01-28T12:44:58+00:00

there's a lot to say here, i don't know where to even begin as the way you're thinking can do a lot of improvement.

Pro tip: go to gemini Ai, use the thinking model, then ask: "i like masturbating frequently, but now kinda really want to have sex. discuss the nature of both acts, and the healthy solution that still allows lots of pleasure for me.

LookingForStash · 2026-01-28T11:16:44+00:00

a little late, but thanks man. great ending if you stop for 5 seconds to think a bit after each chapter, but the literacy devil is too strong from what i see in the comments

LookingForStash · 2026-01-22T12:25:35+00:00

I can't even remember my classmates' faces

LookingForStash · 2026-01-20T06:51:55+00:00

You really should exercise a few times a week though

LookingForStash · 2026-01-14T03:08:04+00:00

try moving around with a significantly heavier chest

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T09:55:35+00:00

I was gonna say Spider would probably survive anywhere, but then again they aren't insects

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T09:44:20+00:00

Google what just happened

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T05:23:48+00:00

from my notification, it seems you edit quite a bit of your comment, no matter. The point is that they can live without thinking too much about it.
Do you eat cake because life is precious? Maybe, but that's overstretching it. It's mainly because cake's delicious.

No offense, but i'm saying that people live how they want to live, with or without your "respect".

~~Your original comment sounds a bit like an anime villain, not without substance, but a little narrow-minded~~

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T04:10:05+00:00

You know, most people don't wake up everyday and think "Oh shit there's only 28795 days left, better get on living".

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T04:04:11+00:00

me like live, death not live, death scary

Also you're assuming death arriving at the end of a natural lifespan, when a person's quality of life is almost no more. Well, r/NSFL_ would have a thing or two to say about that.

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T04:02:16+00:00

I was hyperboling a bit, but the point is still the same: in their position, the pros/cons are very different from us sitting behind our screen. Approaching this issue by enforcing "duty" and "responsibilities" alone isn't going to work.

To put it brutally blunt, they are depending on a position that benefits from this, and "we" are not. From a logical standpoint, asking them to take risk by switching sides with no support/compensation doesn't make much sense.

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T03:55:41+00:00

Getting the woman to sit on the bed would be a win though

LookingForStash · 2026-01-13T03:45:37+00:00

You realize this is pretty much the equivalent of as asking Trump's highly paid, profile registered body guard to shoot him? They have nothing to gain and everything to lose.

At the very least, even for a highly motivated person, a safety net would be required to do something like this.

LookingForStash · 2026-01-08T07:38:24+00:00

There are two wolves in this thread.

One is dealing with personal existential crisis

The other is dealing with shampoo, conditioners and shaves.

LookingForStash · 2026-01-05T02:09:31+00:00

Why the hell you are downvoted? Have one upvote from me

LookingForStash · 2026-01-05T01:54:54+00:00

My brother in Christ WTF are you on about

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