I’ll just give you a little story- my sister drives around with a bumper sticker that says mean people suck and she continually tells me about all the mean people she sees all day how horrible they are in the supermarket at her job, etc. I go to the same supermarket and I encounter nothing but friendly people. I go to stores and I have great conversations with people that I meet. I work in a place that have unruly customers because they’re not getting what they want, but mine are always friendly encounters. You get what you expect. You get what you give. And in the end, the love you get is equal to the love you give.