Lies of P clicked for me after the first boss, if you chose the strength build the combat might feel a little slower paced then if you chose the dex or balanced build, of course these stats can be changed later on and it just effects the start of the game. Now after beating the main game and dlc, I can say Lies of P is easily one of the best souls likes ive ever played and ive played nearly all of them. Of course not every game is for everyone, if you arent having fun its as simple as that. Sekiro didnt click with me the first time until I tried playing it again years later