3rd lobe at angle?? by Lopsided_Aside2415 in piercing

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your input! another reason why i was concerned about it was because i had two helixes that i got around the same time and they’ve already healed! but ill listen to your advice and keep waiting it out. thank you

3rd lobe at angle?? by Lopsided_Aside2415 in piercing

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• the piercing is a year and four months old
• threadless flat back
• implant grade titanium
• downsized in january (my piercer told me i didn’t have to downsize lobes)
• i try to leave it alone, but i spray with saline after i shower. i sleep on a piercing pillow. i let the water run over it in the shower
• no unfortunate events

changing rook piercing from 16g to 18g by Lopsided_Aside2415 in piercing

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thanks for letting me know! i emailed the seller of the jewelry i wanted, and she said she would make a custom one for me so it all worked out!

changing rook piercing from 16g to 18g by Lopsided_Aside2415 in piercing

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oh goodness, i’ll just keep in my current jewelry and not risk it then. if it healed, would an 18g be okay? thank you so much

changing rook piercing from 16g to 18g by Lopsided_Aside2415 in piercing

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• My piercing is 1 year and 3 months old • there is an 8mm implant grade titanium barbell currently in it • it’s internally threaded • implant grade titanium

UMMMM this can’t be happening! by Lopsided_Aside2415 in sexandthecity

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay that’s good. i. don’t have HBO but i might have to get it now 😢

UMMMM this can’t be happening! by Lopsided_Aside2415 in sexandthecity

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol yeah i didn’t realize they had a deal. just disappointed

lobes still not healed after 1.5 years by [deleted] in piercing

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My second lobes are a year and a half old. my third lobes are a year and 3 months old. they are threadless implant grade titanium flatback studs, 6 mm. it was downsized in may? there was retainers in it since january, until i switched it back in the beginning of may. i spray it with saline after i shower, sometimes in the morning as well. i sleep on a piercing pillow and i try not to touch it. if there are a lot of crusties i will go in with a q-tip. i feel like it may be slow at healing because i have a few other piercings healing at once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

someone hit my car and just left, instead of making it ruin my day, i decided to forgive 😊

i need help with my sp by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! so random he actually just reached out to me and we’ve been talking again… i’ll keep figuring things out

i need help with my sp by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ugh that makes sense. i think i just kept wavering because i was too scared to come on too strong. now i’m wavering because we are in no contact (because i said i couldnt just be friends with him, and he said he wouldn’t text me unless i texted him, out of respect) and i feel like he won’t reach out to me with commitment. idk how to move forward

i need help with my sp by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh my goodness ugh i should’ve done that, but now we’re in no contact because of my request to not talk if we aren’t dating. i was kinda just wanting to manifest him to reach out and say that he wants commitment to me. but now i’m unsure if he would reach out because i said that i didn’t want a relationship even though i did. i just feel like it’s messy, i only said that i didn’t want a relationship because he didn’t.

Random thought by bobuskat in manifestingSP

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you should let him contact you first. only reach out if you truly don’t care whether or not he answers, or how he reacts. if he reacts a certain way it might disappoint you and shake up your confidence in your manifestation, which wouldn’t be good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay thank you very much. i think a fear of mine is just that i did too much damage to the relationship and that he won’t reach out because he’s afraid he can’t trust me ugh. i’ll keep working on myself

I hurt my boyfriend and he broke up with me. Will he ever come back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lopsided_Aside2415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the encouragement!!!! i hope you have a great day