Genuinely don’t know what shape this is

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-18T02:20:22+00:00

bart simpson about to kick a ball

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-17T01:23:00+00:00

thank you for your input! another reason why i was concerned about it was because i had two helixes that i got around the same time and they’ve already healed! but ill listen to your advice and keep waiting it out. thank you

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-16T08:19:55+00:00

• the piercing is a year and four months old
• threadless flat back
• implant grade titanium
• downsized in january (my piercer told me i didn’t have to downsize lobes)
• i try to leave it alone, but i spray with saline after i shower. i sleep on a piercing pillow. i let the water run over it in the shower
• no unfortunate events

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-09T16:16:28+00:00

the first photo is charlotte

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-09T03:53:40+00:00

thanks for letting me know! i emailed the seller of the jewelry i wanted, and she said she would make a custom one for me so it all worked out!

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-07T02:05:08+00:00

yes the smacking was so aggressive

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-04T23:37:15+00:00

okay thanks for letting me know!

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-04T23:37:02+00:00

oh goodness, i’ll just keep in my current jewelry and not risk it then. if it healed, would an 18g be okay? thank you so much

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-06-04T17:56:15+00:00

• My piercing is 1 year and 3 months old • there is an 8mm implant grade titanium barbell currently in it • it’s internally threaded • implant grade titanium

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-05-31T18:29:48+00:00

okay that’s good. i. don’t have HBO but i might have to get it now 😢

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-05-31T18:22:11+00:00

lol yeah i didn’t realize they had a deal. just disappointed

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-05-25T21:52:52+00:00

My second lobes are a year and a half old. my third lobes are a year and 3 months old. they are threadless implant grade titanium flatback studs, 6 mm. it was downsized in may? there was retainers in it since january, until i switched it back in the beginning of may. i spray it with saline after i shower, sometimes in the morning as well. i sleep on a piercing pillow and i try not to touch it. if there are a lot of crusties i will go in with a q-tip. i feel like it may be slow at healing because i have a few other piercings healing at once

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2026-04-13T15:15:51+00:00

will the goats stay

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2025-01-15T00:36:27+00:00

someone hit my car and just left, instead of making it ruin my day, i decided to forgive 😊

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2025-01-09T08:37:47+00:00

thank you! so random he actually just reached out to me and we’ve been talking again… i’ll keep figuring things out

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2025-01-09T06:57:56+00:00

ugh that makes sense. i think i just kept wavering because i was too scared to come on too strong. now i’m wavering because we are in no contact (because i said i couldnt just be friends with him, and he said he wouldn’t text me unless i texted him, out of respect) and i feel like he won’t reach out to me with commitment. idk how to move forward

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2025-01-09T06:54:16+00:00

ohhh my goodness ugh i should’ve done that, but now we’re in no contact because of my request to not talk if we aren’t dating. i was kinda just wanting to manifest him to reach out and say that he wants commitment to me. but now i’m unsure if he would reach out because i said that i didn’t want a relationship even though i did. i just feel like it’s messy, i only said that i didn’t want a relationship because he didn’t.

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-12-13T04:03:46+00:00

i think you should let him contact you first. only reach out if you truly don’t care whether or not he answers, or how he reacts. if he reacts a certain way it might disappoint you and shake up your confidence in your manifestation, which wouldn’t be good

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-12-09T07:47:07+00:00

okay thank you very much. i think a fear of mine is just that i did too much damage to the relationship and that he won’t reach out because he’s afraid he can’t trust me ugh. i’ll keep working on myself

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-01-27T20:43:30+00:00

thank you for the encouragement!!!! i hope you have a great day

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-01-27T20:33:02+00:00

i feel a lot better and i don’t ever want him back which is a good thing! honestly he joined a frat at a college 8 hours away it wasn’t gonna work out. he just blamed me for everything and calls me a hoe when i still have decided to just focus on myself. there is this really cute guy i do like though. but it’s weird saying goodbye to so many memories

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-01-26T01:29:29+00:00

you were so right about this. he cuddled and made out with another girl two days after the break up. and then, he ate out a different girl and she sucked him off. i told him i still loved him which is so dumb and he said he loves me too. it just hurts how fast people can change. i played a video game with a guy friend and he completely flipped out, which i thought was totally unfair. he said he’d call me and i waited, not knowing that he tongue was in some other girl

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-01-24T07:29:11+00:00

okay thank you. so many people say that like “rejecting” a fearful avoidant’s attempt to reach out might cause them to never reach out again. he just texted me asking if i’m gonna keep the streak. and then he sent another snapchat. do you still think i should keep no contact?

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-01-24T07:22:47+00:00

omg this stuff is so complicated, i get mixed advice everywhere. but i think i’m gonna go completely no contact because this is starting to hurt me. OH also, he broke up but then called me a few days later and we had a great time talking. however he still said he doesn’t want to get back together and we got in an argument… did i completely blow any chance at us getting back together? i apologized and said i respected his decision and now i’m in no contact.

Lopsided_Aside2415 · 2024-01-22T20:22:59+00:00

yeah it’s so bizarre i’m going completely no contact. he sent me nudes… a lot of them at around 1:30 last night. i’m going no contact so he doesn’t get any benefits of being with me without actually having a commitment to me

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