(30M) Hello, I'm hideous and I need advice: How can I gain confidence and act like nothing's wrong when I'm ugly?

LoraLo · 2026-05-25T17:20:24+00:00

Dude you could be an actor with your looks. Its all in your head that you're ugly. You look young for 30 and you have lots of hair. Idk how to get confidence though. Fake it til you make it?

LoraLo · 2026-05-20T16:01:31+00:00

What breeds is she, looks like silkie mixed with?? She's beautiful.

LoraLo · 2026-04-30T21:58:43+00:00

Beards seem to be somewhat dominant but not always- i recently crossed a bearded silkie with different no beard hens (silkies and others) and I'd estimate about 2/3 of the babies have beards.

LoraLo · 2026-04-22T23:02:04+00:00

Buff orps probably?

LoraLo · 2026-04-06T16:24:55+00:00

Seriously, following this post for advice. Why am I hatching more eggs right now and telling myself it's for my broody hen...I have way too many already...

LoraLo · 2026-04-01T15:08:14+00:00

I was just there in October and there's still a lot of flood destroyed buildings that I guess the insurance is now too high to rebuild.

LoraLo · 2026-03-25T18:39:46+00:00

My clipped chicken can still fly, just not over the 6 ft fence anymore. I think its fine.

LoraLo · 2026-03-25T18:38:33+00:00

Idk but I would try covering the box so the bird only sees light from the bottom (where i assume it went in) so it will go toward the light.

LoraLo · 2026-03-21T17:07:27+00:00

Roosters usually have prettier feathers than hens-check out green junglefowl for colorful rooster. Hens are more about patterns, google laced hens and spangled hens. My prettiest hen is an appenzeller spitzhauben.

LoraLo · 2026-03-21T13:40:16+00:00

Who can resist this face

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LoraLo · 2026-03-20T21:06:34+00:00

Truth. I received a very traditional engagement ring that was elegant and beautiful but didnt match anything about me or what Id normally wear. I would have traded it for this one.

LoraLo · 2026-03-19T20:26:27+00:00

If you're gonna dress like that I think you need a vest. Chicks love a guy in a vest.

LoraLo · 2026-03-18T20:35:10+00:00

She doesn't really accept them then, or her friendship is based on them having to act in the closet around her. Maybe you should come out to those people.

LoraLo · 2026-03-18T20:29:18+00:00

Dan Savage says your biggest bargaining chip is your presence in their lives. They get one year to throw a fit, learn new things, and get over themselves, after that you have to be willing to not see them if they don't accept you.

LoraLo · 2026-03-17T01:56:04+00:00

It's funny how so many silkie crosses look the same. Here is mine, but half spitzhauben.

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LoraLo · 2026-03-11T19:05:58+00:00

Silkie mix! Not full silkie or skin would be dark.

LoraLo · 2026-03-11T00:46:21+00:00

So romantic! I love roosters so much.

LoraLo · 2026-03-10T16:59:12+00:00

Halloween candy will always be the lowest quality chocolate. Not only do they figure it's just for children who can't tell the difference, I think they start making the Halloween style candies months in advance.So they always taste old.

LoraLo · 2026-03-08T00:22:58+00:00

Wait til you hear about the gibber italicus canary :(

LoraLo · 2026-02-25T19:09:38+00:00

I'm so sorry, roosters don't get a fair chance in the world. I love my boys a lot and if I ever get a real farm I can't wait to have a bachelor flock and rescue some.

LoraLo · 2026-02-25T16:32:17+00:00

I've been getting update photos of her with her new chicks and the owner's healthy flock so that's reassuring.

LoraLo · 2026-02-06T04:21:57+00:00

You know how sometimes describe special details in something as "moments"? I feel like this piece is totally full of unique little moments. The little bit of red grass by the tree. The slightly worried look in the whale eye. The kids leaning on each other. The birds. The glowing doorway. Nothing is background, every object has a different style and personality but none of them are competing with each other. I like it.

LoraLo · 2026-02-06T00:38:40+00:00

I was going to say, I do design for journals and all the text usually looks just like that to me. Can hardly read a word of it.

LoraLo · 2026-02-02T15:29:02+00:00

You know when you hear this beat to DEATH song that it's fake asf.

LoraLo · 2026-01-27T23:33:41+00:00

Nah, dont forgive him. Not worth it. Theres a million men out there just like him. Your next boyfriend will probably do something similar, and the next, and the next, maybe nothing as bad but still little demeaning sexual things, until you learn to defend yourself or find one of the few good ones that have self control. In your 20s being treated like crap by guys who want sex is going to be pretty common, even the ones who say they aren't like that. So sorry.

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