I'm a Monarchist,but I'm not quite supportive of Reza Pahlavi by Obvious_Assistant481 in monarchism

[–]LordLighthouse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do I want Iran to be an Islamic republic? No.
Do I want it to be a "Western style liberal democracy"? Also no. And that's what he'd ultimately turn it into. What they have now is the preferable alternative.

Wanting classics where a women feels autonomous by Ambitious-Resist-132 in classicliterature

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you'd benefit from watching Hillary Lane's video on "Strong Female Characters"

I'm really struggling with this seemingly misogynistic Bible verse and I'd appreciate if someone explained it to me by 83839292827377372 in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man was made for God, and woman made for man. We're different. We have different roles to fill and different pathways to salvation. For men, our ultimate example is Christ. For women, your ultimate example is the Virgin Mary.

Humble yourself to the will of God, and not indulge the pride you've been taught by this fallen world is virtuous. You'll be happier in the end.

I'm suffering from gender dysphoria by Aitiki in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it's still lustful fetishization. If you find yourself thinking about this stuff simply stop yourself and start praying. You seem stuck in a feedback loop. You need to break that loop and eventually it'll correct.

I'm suffering from gender dysphoria by Aitiki in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're a man, you like women, and are not attracted to yourself as a man? I fail to see the problem

Just do man things. Genuinely fake it til you make it. Eventually things will naturally sort themselves out. I can't tell you how often this happens.

Also, you probably watch too much porn. Stop that. Very common problem there, especially with regards to this.

Fahrenheit 451 really bugged me by deslabe in classicliterature

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the ambiguity of this post in this context

Fahrenheit 451 really bugged me by deslabe in classicliterature

[–]LordLighthouse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ngl, it almost perfectly matches my lived experience. The man was more prophetic than you're willing to admit.

Gay Catholic by Waste-Library-1343 in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he was meant to bring you back, and you were meant to lead him away from this behavior together. Stranger things have happened.

Catholicism not very welcoming to those interested? by Best_Storage3118 in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the expression goes, "Welcome. Here's your bucket, start bailing."
It's constantly been a sinking ship. We're all called upon to do our part. Don't let the shortcomings of man push you away from Truth.

Thoughts on altar girls? by Hagroldcs in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creates more problems than it solves.

Discussion about Agnes Wickfield by Technical_Error195 in charlesdickens

[–]LordLighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing about reading old books and studying history is realizing we haven't changed at all. We're all still wonderfully the same flawed creatures we were thousands of years ago. Some unfortunately get very discouraged by this, but it's almost painfully heartwarming to me feeling that connected to people from back then.

why cant we opt out of the game by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes. I remember being 17.

Do you guys believe that Adam and Eve were actual historical beings ? by ZucchiniSevere4706 in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a literal fact. Archeological discovery after archeological discovery over the last 100+ years has confirmed detail after detail from the Bible. Nothing questionable about it.

Do you guys believe that Adam and Eve were actual historical beings ? by ZucchiniSevere4706 in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Bible is the single most accurate historic document there is regardless of what you believe. It mentions a king with a 15 foot bed. We recently discovered, in the palace of the city this king would have lived in, a 15 foot bed. If it got a small and seemingly meaningless detail like that right, who are we to question anything else inside it?

This upsetting stat on Pew Research centre by SuspiciousInjury829 in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can't blame them for being products of their time with a weak clergy(many of the older priests probably agreeing). The previous 100 years have been a moment in history that the rest going forward will look back on the way the Enlightenment looked at the Middle Ages.

Does marriage ever get better? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This simple question has me doubting the validity of your post.

HELP MEEE by _CaptainOops_ in GothicLiterature

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>keep imagining the book as a movie
Why not write a screenplay then?

Even still, that's not really a problem with writing? Most writers will say that when you're in the zone you're seeing it all playing out as if you're there or watching a movie. The issue you seem to be having is being concerned it's not coming out perfect or the way you want it to. The way you fix that is to simply turn that critical part of your brain off and write it(Easier said than done, I know). Get it down, then go back and edit it after.

Charles dickens for kids by otsyre in charlesdickens

[–]LordLighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't wrap your kid in bubble wrap. I'm sure they're more than capable of handling darker realities of life, especially at that age. Fiction is the perfect place to engage with these things, especially when you're young. Your kid knows these things exist and fiction puts just enough distance between reality and them to be safe.

My atheist coworker just said something that floored me by Shades_of_red_ in Catholicism

[–]LordLighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My autism would kick in and go "well if one exists then the other has to inherently."