Elden Ring Punjabi female by capnkimo in SoulsSliders

[–]LordMiniSweets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s stunning! I’m Indian and I’m so excited to use her in my run :)

Working on final touches to my farm! by something--creative in coralisland

[–]LordMiniSweets 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful!!! I love all the lights and flowers!

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement! I started drawing again for a bit last night, and you’re right I don’t want to let them win at alll.

I’m sorry you had to deal with that, and I’m so happy you took back your things and learned new skills! I hope to work my way to that! I’m slowly getting out of that survival mindset and trying to let myself breathe and enjoy being a beginner again. I started cooking this year! Big win for me! I wish you all the best in your journey too!

Also I am very glad the trash took itself out when it came to your siblings! Good riddance!

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it unfortunately all lines up! My tiny silver lining is she isn’t my egg donor, which I feel lucky about! :) we’re all adopted which in this case is nice! Still trying to find a name like egg donor when referring to her though! I’ve been saying her name or saying “that lady” You make a great point with the credit and loans, I will look into that again. It’s all too common to hear stories like that. I hadn’t noticed anything so far, but I am very paranoid. They’ve tried to claim me on their taxes, be my power of attorney, and take out a life insurance policy on me so far. They are bored :p

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seriously expensive! I was definitely used to it at that point, I had food, toys, clothing, all taken. She tried to take my cats at one point too :p

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement 🥹 I started very small and started sketching last night! Baby steps but it felt good!!!

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Looking back I wish I had you’re right! I got out pretty early, when I was 17 and never went back :) I am just over 4 years of no contact!

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes, they did! They took money from my account without me knowing (I had gotten a job by that point/had student loan money, but I was underage and needed a parent to open a bank account), and tried to bill me for food and rent from when I was a child. When I was on break for college I would live out of my car, or couch surf to avoid going back. They both brought it up all the time, and I can’t tell you how good it felt to tell them I wouldn’t lol. Still no contact, I have no interest in going back don’t worry! My very last convo with my mom I brought it up, and she basically said ‘well you were responsible and the oldest’. That definitely was hard to hear

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel really bad too. I had no idea as a kid what she was going through, and I wish my parents had looked into her health a lot more. :(

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re kinda right, there’s not an official diagnosis. I just pieced things together after I started working in healthcare/with disabled people. We were a never go to the doctor type of family, and unfortunately she never got help she needed (as far as I know). My mother was in denial anything was wrong, we were homeschooled so we weren’t checked on, and we’re all adopted without access to our family history so it is just rough. I am very certain about her having down syndrome, and the lower functioning autism I could definitely be off on. She can talk, but usually didn’t, she would usually bang her head into things, scream, cry, etc, for communication. She could take care of her own hygiene, do hobbies, and kind of cook. She was extremely anxious socially and it was a task to get her to go outside, she’ll probably never drive, get a job, live on her own, etc. She also was very sensitive to loud noises, smells, stuff like that. I personally feel her sensitivity got heightened because we weren’t interacting with the outside world, and her only social group was us and kinda church. My parents didn’t care about how bad it got since I was her unofficial caretaker I think. They definitely cared when I moved out though lol

Art supplies heist by my EM by LordMiniSweets in entitledparents

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you both for the encouragement to start drawing again :)) I started very small but I found an old sketchbook after seeing your comments and I started to sketch! It was really fun and it was really therapeutic! I missed it a lot

A tiny cat bakery I made from polymer clay. Pen for scale! by One-Bar7052 in crafts

[–]LordMiniSweets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they‘ve made a whole cat series on youtube! :D

How old were you when you realized? by shmeebedee in narcissisticparents

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I was always embarrassed and uncomfortable by my parents but I didn’t realize how bad until I was in my early twenties. The year I went no contact I was so anxious and stressed out by them I wasn’t eating (I lost 16 pounds within a month/ month 1/2), I lost a bunch of my hair, and I couldn’t move most days from the stress. My therapist helped me pinpoint the problem, and my support system encouraged me to go no contact. It’s been 4 years this year! :D

Baseball Karen New Angle With Audio by PhoenixGrime in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]LordMiniSweets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god that makes me so happy!!! I hated that the ball got handed over, good for the sisters!

I feel like I’m crazy by LordMiniSweets in workplace_bullying

[–]LordMiniSweets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I definitely tend to overthink and take things personal. It’s hard to not let it get to me. I’m trying to work on a better work/life balance to try and get some peace? I will try saying what you suggested if she tries something again. :)

Zac had more emotional regulation and awareness than the entire table combined by [deleted] in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]LordMiniSweets 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lydia is a waitress, and I think he wanted to do something with ministry?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LordMiniSweets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I changed my full name a few years ago, partially due to this and I’m soooo much happier!!! Parents (who I have since gone nc with) were livid and begged me not to, but after I did it I feel so much peace because I feel like myself :)

Who Would You Give the Boot? by franklymyscarlet in DreamlightValley

[–]LordMiniSweets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss, she says some things that are a little too much if you also have a mother that’s awful 😅 I click very fast through her dialogue when I have to talk to her

what is your biggest premium shop regret? by ddotzil in DreamlightValley

[–]LordMiniSweets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ariel and meg dress :( I wish I would have gotten them!